Vincent Freeman
Don Juan
I have a question maybe some of you can help me with. I have been in a 4 year relationship, however, it has finally reached a rocky point in my book. Due to medical school, I have moved away about 5 hrs. away from my gf. Now, I am currently trying to do the long distance thing, however, I don't know how I should feel about it. Now considering I pretty much hang out with the med school buds and nurses, I really don't talk much with my gf. Also, she has a full-time job so our schedules are pretty busy. Nonetheless, here is the part I am confussed about. Now, ever since I left the attention and the spark has pretty much decreased. I sort of feel like she is not as thoughtful and even sexy as when we first started dating. I was just speaking to a friend of mine, and she has this dinner planned and even went out and bought new lingerie for her bf who is coming home to visit. As oppose to her, my gf doesn't do all that stuff anymore. We pretty much just go out to eat (which I plan) and watch movies. Now, is it normal after dating for that long for her to be less romantic, or is it that the relationship is finally turning off? Now in the past, I have done my fair share of romantic gestures, but I stopped the minute I noticed she stopped. The intimacy isin't even exciting anymore! What do you all think? Is it normal after a 4-5 year relationship for the romanticism and the intimacy to reach a low point? I appreciate your feedback.