Before you consider dating a girl, make sure she does all these things.

[Gamisch]

Well, we're not baboons in heat, we're human beings, right? We're not driven solely by sparks and feelings. If she's a healthy female, she won't put herself at the risk of pregnancy without first vetting the guy. That's the instinct in her. The more evolved, rational side of the brain will tell her that it's best to first know the guy before making herself vulnerable emotionally through sex and it's also not good for her reputation to be a 1-3 dates and sex type of girl.
On the male side, there can be all the sparks in the world, but if for instance she's the top mobster's woman, one would stay away. Unless he's Tony Montana in Scarface.

Nah, that only means 2 things: 1. which I already mentioned, if you're treating a hoe as a lady, that doesn't mean you're a gentleman but a chump. 2. I think was the case in that thread, the woman has no interest in you and uses you for attention/free dinner

We're not baboons, but picture this; you and a woman chilling. Vibing. What's supposed to happen? You know that moment when a woman starts sighing and twirling her hair impatiently, waiting for you to make a move? Of you fail to move in, attraction will go down.

I agree that its a thin line between a sincere " good girl" , and a time waster whose using a man. But please enlighten me; how do we distinguish between these two ?

 

[pipeman84]

We're not baboons, but picture this; you and a woman chilling. Vibing. What's supposed to happen? You know that moment when a woman starts sighing and twirling her hair impatiently, waiting for you to make a move? Of you fail to move in, attraction will go down.

I agree that its a thin line between a sincere " good girl" , and a time waster whose using a man. But please enlighten me; how do we distinguish between these two ?

OK, so firstly with a clinically sane woman if you don't make a move, attraction will actually go up. That's because you're being a challenge. Don't take my word for it, Doc Love says the same. Now, I should make it clear that you don't make a move because you're practicing self-control and you're subtly conveying that you're evaluating her ... that's the right stance. If you don't make a move because you're shy, you think she's too good for you then that's the wrong way to go.

Secondly, how you distinguish if she's a good girl deserving of being treated as a lady or a hoe putting an act is by screening her before getting to the phase where you're alone with her, chilling. And then by actually asking questions and listening to what she's saying.

 

[tightgrp]

That's the wrong way of looking at it. It's not a matter of her jumping on you or you making advances, her offering no resistance and then, 3 weeks after you met, when you're both naked in the bedroom you just stop, get dressed back and say: not yet. If that happens she's not a dream girl, not for relationship anyway.

It's also not a matter of her delaying sex with YOU specifically because she wants to portray herself as relationship material when her history and her vibe are those of a hoe. Going along in that situation would only make the guy a chump.

It's a matter of her genuinely taking her time to get to know each-other and you respecting and reciprocating her decision.

This is not clear. What are you saying?

 

[Millard Fillmore]

2). Will never let a single day go by of no contact- This is a good sh1t test to do if you are questioning her interest level

Been there done that. Girls like this are cuckoo & possessive and I don't want to be smothered. She needs to have a life so she can respect mine. Hard pass.

Rest of list is pretty solid but subjective, obviously people are discussing pros and cons.

IRT the sex within a month thing, it's irrelevant as long as the guy is not fixated on her. He can be spinning plates or doing whatever but not be thirsty.