Been away for awhile, fired up old.

[I_have_BDE]

Been away for a bit. Anyway, mother passed away a month ago after being in the hospital for 3 weeks 2 in the icu. Congestive heart failure finally got her.

Anyway, haven't used old for a few months for obvious reasons, busy, taking care of her etc. But wow I just have no motivation to use it now. I mean major sites like match, Facebook dating, upward app, tinder.

Less women on these sites in general, but man are theu uglier, fatter, and very few got women on these sites now. Waste of time. All I see is trash i wouldn't even look at irl.

What the heck is up with it? 2019 for example wasnt like this. Tons more hot chicks 5 years ago on old. Not nearly the amount of fat, tatted garbage like there is now on it.

 

[corrector]

Sour grapes because of no matches?

 

[soulforge]

Sour grapes because of no matches?

I get between 5-8 matches daily on apps, and i can verify its mostly trash on there.

No sour grapes, just stating reality.

 

[BPH]

I get between 5-8 matches daily on apps, and i can verify its mostly trash on there.

No sour grapes, just stating reality.

This. I don't really get many matches anymore but that's because I barely swipe right anymore.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

All that swiping just wears down your thumb...

 

[soulforge]

All that swiping just wears down your thumb...

Yeh it's not even worth it.. My thumb could be put in better use lol

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Man...I'm sorry to hear that. Just know that the feeling of loss never truly goes away but time helps dull it some.

 

[The Duke]

Been away for a bit. Anyway, mother passed away a month ago after being in the hospital for 3 weeks 2 in the icu. Congestive heart failure finally got her.

Anyway, haven't used old for a few months for obvious reasons, busy, taking care of her etc. But wow I just have no motivation to use it now. I mean major sites like match, Facebook dating, upward app, tinder.

Less women on these sites in general, but man are theu uglier, fatter, and very few got women on these sites now. Waste of time. All I see is trash i wouldn't even look at irl.

What the heck is up with it? 2019 for example wasnt like this. Tons more hot chicks 5 years ago on old. Not nearly the amount of fat, tatted garbage like there is now on it.

I used OLD last summer for the first time in a few years. Definitely not what it used to be. The apps are trying to extract more money than ever before, less attractive girls, more scammer profiles, and the ones that were semi-attractive acted like they were HB9's.

sorry for you loss.

 

[Murk]

RIP to your mum, as a slow burn at least you spent some good time with her. Many don't get that.

 

[Solomon]

Been away for a bit. Anyway, mother passed away a month ago after being in the hospital for 3 weeks 2 in the icu. Congestive heart failure finally got her.

Anyway, haven't used old for a few months for obvious reasons, busy, taking care of her etc. But wow I just have no motivation to use it now. I mean major sites like match, Facebook dating, upward app, tinder.

Less women on these sites in general, but man are theu uglier, fatter, and very few got women on these sites now. Waste of time. All I see is trash i wouldn't even look at irl.

What the heck is up with it? 2019 for example wasnt like this. Tons more hot chicks 5 years ago on old. Not nearly the amount of fat, tatted garbage like there is now on it.

OLD surged briefly during Quarantine than crashed into the abyss of a cess-pit of darkness
I got banned of tinder but I remember trying to meet women from other states at one point cause it was that bad in my area
When you do meet a girl for OLD for a date they all have Red flags even the pretty ones it's up to you at that point to walk away or deal with the foolishness

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Lol, bro you have to understand something very important about OLD today: It isn't about Mr. Right, it's about Mr. Right Now. Most women can find a guy they like and match with him in minutes, then they get their hook up in, deactivate their profile and reactivate it when they are looking for Mr. Right Now.

So now, it's really more about the time your swiping at as opposed to anything else, because many of those profiles are only gonna be visible for a short time, maybe even under 10 minutes, especially when you have guys that have swiped on everybody around them and will get the new users on their first swipes (notice how swiping on new users is monetized in many apps now)