That's right GQ_Prettyboy, you have to get your sh*t together mentally and physically first and then the getting women part of it will come automatically and naturally as a result of the life and mentality that you have created for yourself.
This is the way it is supposed to be.
First, be what you need to be, then do what you need to do, and you will have what you want to have.
That is the order of success in life and success with women is no exception to that rule.
To squirrels, just be powerful and know that you are powerful inside and then you will have no need to prove anything to anyone and just allow your greatness to speak for itself.
People who flaunt their power or abuse it become irritating in the presence of others and people respond coldly or negatively to them.
Think about it. What is more attractive than a really beautiful woman who knows she's gorgeous but yet has a down to earth quality and doesn't act like she is God's gift to men?
Those of us who are on the path to power and dominance also need to have a laid back, down to earth, manner so that everyday ordinary people do not feel threatened by us.
Of course, if someone comes at you the wrong way, then put them in their place quickly and nip any bullsh*t in the bud immediately and you will send a message that even though you are cool, you are not one to be trifled or f*cked with.
That goes for women, guys, or whoever.