becoming a good kisser

[seth03]

If you've never kissed or made out with a girl before, do you think that as long as you know that you should keep the kiss soft/light, follow her lead, and follow other tips given on this site that its possible to be a good kisser, despite the fact you have never practiced on anybody before? OR, do you think the only way to become good or decent is by having done it before?

 

[Nex]

Some people are excellent kissers the first time they kiss.

There's this whole anticipation before your first kiss, you think there's like a big secret to it!! But after you're through, you'll see how normal and natural it is -- nothing to worry about it!!

 

[Hollowpoint]

" do you think that as long as you know that you should keep the kiss soft/light, follow her lead, and follow other tips given on this site that its possible to be a good kisser, "

Yes.
Don't jam your tongue down her throat, that's not cool.
Do drool on her. Don't stick your tongue in her ear (generally.)
Run your hands through her hair, hold hands.
Massage her if you know how....

Kiss around her face, get the neck. Hot stuff. No tongue unless she starts first. You can lick her lips though. That's hot.....

And will get her thinking of your tongue on other parts of her body, and you better read and get good at that too.

 

[TommiV]

Yeah, thres no big deal to it.

If you'v never kissed someone before you're just worrried about how to do it or make it happen or what to do.

I was like that, we all were like that before we did it. My first kiss was kinda weird though that it just happened. I mean, it was probably obvious as daylight to anybosy outside the two of us that it was going to happen but she'll let you know when she's ready, you just have to do it. Softly on her lips. Don't go in with mouth open or tongue out. Test her lips and just follow what she does. As long as you're slow and soft it'll be a good kiss.

 

[gav]

practise on your hand

 

[don_juan_20]

Keep your lips dry.

Make sure you swallow when frenching, nothing worse then stopping and finding out both of you have drool all over your mouths.

Tilt your head so you don't bump noses, but even so it doesn't really matter if you do, just smile and laugh about it.

Play with her tongue (Most sensitive area, makes it fun), avoid the teeth, and don't bite!

 

[Marius_Novus]

Kiss the way you'd like to be kissed.
If the kiss lasts longer than a minute, use whichever hand you feel more comfortable with and softly put it on the back of her neck and softly pet it. Play with her hair, softly. Simply said, your hands should handle her like a priceless antique furniture or vase or whatever. Until she becomes more comfortable and unwinds. Depends on the situation.

And remember to never judge a kisser by the looks. What I mean is that there is no rule stating that the prettier the girl the better she kisses. It's a false image created by the media!

Same with males. If you kiss her well...then she'll melt for you.

I had a chance to kiss different kind of girls and was really surprised (or let down) by how crappy kissers the pretty ones were. It's a big turn-off.

 

[MacDiddy]

Intensity and passion of the kiss needs to be varied and done unexpectedly. start of light and then real passionate then light as if you're teasing the f@#$ out of them. Also rent out a few porno and watch how some of the lezo do it.

 

[NaturallySelected]

For the first kiss, just kiss her on the lips a few times, then start using a HINT of tounge. Seriously my first kiss wasn't that bad, within a few minutes you can figure out what your doing.

Originally posted by don_juan_20
Keep your lips dry.
Play with her tongue (Most sensitive area, makes it fun), avoid the teeth, and don't bite!

I find it's better with your lips a little moist, not too wet though. I agree, don't bite. Nibble. Gently . Nibble on her lower lip, but be GENTLE! Brush the tip of your tounge underneath the bottom of her top lip.