Became a DJ...got the girl....NEED HELP GETTING MORE ASS FROM HER?!?

[shark]

Ok so i became a DJ. Used it on a girl i'm interested in. We are now officially going out. She pretty cute, I'm attracted to her and i've got my raging hormones. I'm 16, and I guess you can say my goal is to get head...soon. LOL

Anyway, she never gave it. Furthest she has been is felt up. I've ben jerked off. Anyway, she told me today she wants to take it slow and not rush into anything. I kinda said that we should do whatever we feel and not make up our minds on what well do.

Basically, she REALLY likes me. She tells me she REALLY does and she's happy how things are going and everything I say when she asks hard questions are perfect...

Do I just let her make the move? Do i mention it? How soon? Hmm...

thanks

 

[Jay-X]

it makes me laugh that you claim yourself to be a don juan, yet you can't manage to get head from your girlfriend...
i know that i'm not a don juan at all, although i made my 16-yr-old girlfriend (who had never gone beyond making out and had never even been felt up) give me head a week after we got together... a couple of months later we were having anal sex...
don't mean to brag, but how can you consider yourself a don juan, if you have to ask on a forum how you can get head?

be a bit more humble...

 

[shark]

being a DJ is all about having the personality, and acting it out. Nowhere does it say a DJ MUST BE ABLE TO GET HIS GIRLFRIEND TO DO WHATEVER HE WANTS. Being a DJ is about ATTRACTING girls, and keeping them interested.

All i'm asking for is some advice, if you can't offer me that then lay off...

 

[Marf]

No need to get angry man... but i agree with Jay-X, to be a Don Juan, you need to know EACH and EVERY part of getting women: from the initial approach to fvcking her.

As for tips, read the DJ Bible, it has a few things to say

 

[PrimetimeDeliverance]

I always thought being a DJ is about taking control of your life. Girls are a great part of what comes with that, but its not the ultimate goal.

I'd just relax if I were you. If she likes you as much as you say, she probably wants it too. So take it easy, be cool and you'll be enjoying yourself. :woo: Enjoy the process, considering your 16 it should only be about having a good time.

That's all there really is to it.

 

[brad67]

Everyone insults people about how they arent a DJ yet and get all mean about it... to a 16 year old getting head isnt the easiest thing to do, I know from expierence. Hes just trying to learn like all of us

Listen, if she likes you as much as she says she does, then just reason with her that oral/sex is a fun part of a relationship, and just get drunk and let it happen.. most of the time for me that was the first time, maybe while you are hooking up just ask her to do it and she will, and if she doesnt... blow her off. Theres plenty of girls out there, use your new DJing skills on everyone, dont get a girlfriend

 

[B-Lemond]

I'm gonna have to disagree with brad67 on this one. I was in the same boat you were in pal. What you need to do is to make sexual innuendos. Make some funny jokes about your ****. Then she'll get comfortable with the topic and she'll just blow you without you even asking. YOU also have to be comfortable while saying these comments. Worked for me!

 

[Anomalous]

HOW MANY ASS (ES) DOES SHE HAVE, IF YOU WANT MORE????

No, but seriously, RESPECT THE KID, HIS JUST TRYING TO GET SOME PLAY!!!!!!!!

 

[shark]

thanks guys

you know how it is..hah

 

[AchillesLastStand]

Originally posted by bluelemond
What you need to do is to make sexual innuendos. Make some funny jokes about your ****. Then she'll get comfortable with the topic and she'll just blow you without you even asking. YOU also have to be comfortable while saying these comments.!

How about some examples? I'm kinda in the same boat as our friend shark. I've never had a problem sexually with girls; it just kinda happens. Usually, for example if i finger a girl, the favor gets returned. My newest gem however has the delimma to stroke or not to stroke. So it would be helpful if you gave some examples.

 

[Porky]

Originally posted by Jay-X
it makes me laugh that you claim yourself to be a don juan, yet you can't manage to get head from your girlfriend...
i know that i'm not a don juan at all, although i made my 16-yr-old girlfriend (who had never gone beyond making out and had never even been felt up) give me head a week after we got together... a couple of months later we were having anal sex...
don't mean to brag, but how can you consider yourself a don juan, if you have to ask on a forum how you can get head?

be a bit more humble...

quit being such a god damn obnoxious asshole and help him out, then, if you're such a pimp.

 

[Jay-X]

Originally posted by Porky
quit being such a god damn obnoxious asshole and help him out, then, if you're such a pimp.

can you read man?!

Originally posted by Jay-X
i know that i'm not a don juan at all

it's not that difficult, but i'm going to spell it to you, if you wish so



it's not about being a assh0le, it's about being sincere and not claiming to be a don juan if you have to ask somebody you don't even know how you can get a bl0w job by your girlfriend

 

[B-Lemond]

Originally posted by AchillesLastStand
How about some examples? I'm kinda in the same boat as our friend shark. I've never had a problem sexually with girls; it just kinda happens. Usually, for example if i finger a girl, the favor gets returned. My newest gem however has the delimma to stroke or not to stroke. So it would be helpful if you gave some examples.

Well when she's licking a lolly pop, or anything that makes the connection with a ****, say something like "o, your practicing for tonight?" or "do you like putting things in your mouth?" with a smile and you can throw in a wink if you want.
You know, comments like that. Got it?

 

[JSH]

Maybe she just does not like giving head, she could have tried it once and disliked it, remember girls are as capable as you of lying. Or she might know that if she does give you a ******* you will just go tell all your friends. She could be aware that your primary reason for wanting to recieve a ******* is to tell everyone about it.

Maybe the problem is not her, but you. There is no reason why she should have to give you a *******.

For about half of girls, giving *******s is more intimate than sex, it feels wrong and is seen as degrading. With many girls it is easier to get sex than to get *******s. For you it seems like you have a target of going what you percieve as one step further. Just push the barriers and sexual interaction will happen.

Here is a novel idea, why dont you give your girlfriend head. You could eat her out and then she is more likely to give you that ******* you are desperate for. Or you could finger her. Once you have given her her orgasm, she is more likely to give you, yours.

 

[B-Lemond]

Originally posted by JSH
With many girls it is easier to get sex than to get *******s.

I don't know what kind of girls you like..."girls that GET BJs"
Oooooooooooo, you must like those Tranny Surprises

 

[CamiL]

Hey, Obviously your not much of a DJ if you can't get some 'ass'

Being a DJ isn't about getting as much ass as you can, It's about being a good,whole, man with integrity.

Getting ass is the easier part, getting them to comeback/getting the second date is the real challenge

 

[Jay-X]

Originally posted by CamiL
Hey, Obviously your not much of a DJ if you can't get some 'ass'

Being a DJ isn't about getting as much ass as you can, It's about being a good,whole, man with integrity.

Getting ass is the easier part, getting them to comeback/getting the second date is the real challenge

i totally agree