James Bondage
Don Juan
OK, now I know what you might be thinking: 'Beautiful Women wear make-up?? Uh.. well no ****, sherlock?! What kind of tip is that supposed to be?!?' well, let me explain.
This site is full of techniques on how to improve your game, how to improve yourself as a man, how to become stronger and all kind of stuff like that which is great. But even if you do manage to become the uber-don-juan that we all want to be, if you're anything like me (ie human).. you still have a certain weakness for...... BEAUTIFUL WOMEN.
Even though you may be extremely confident in yourself and your inner game etc.. there is still for all of us a certain type of woman who is so f*cking BEAUTIFUL that we can't help but subconsciously feel a little unworthy or inferior to, at least on the looks scale. You know the type, which at some point in your lives you may have thought 'she is too beautiful for me. I couldn't possibly get with her.. she is out of my league'
It used to bother me a lot. Even though I could be comfortable in their presence and communicate with them confidently, there was still something at the back of my mind saying 'OMG she's so ****ing gorgeous!! I can't hold a candle to her on the looks scale... I'll never be as good to look at as her
'.
Well, let me tell you a little fact which is obvious and already known by all of us but very often overlooked: That 'beautiful' woman you fancy is very likely only that 'beautiful' BECAUSE SHE IS ALLOWED TO COSMETICALLY ENHANCE HER FACE.
Women DO have it easier than us guys in the dating game generally and part of the reason is because society allows them to spend f*cking ages adding all kinds of cosmetic improvements to their face and body, making them very often appear much more beautiful than they ACTUALLY are in reality. Whilst us guys on the other hand can do very little but put up with whatever God gave us.
I mean are you f***ing kidding me??? If I was allowed to spend 2-3 hours putting all kinds of enhancements and sh*t on my face I'd be able to make myself look f*cking HOT!!!! As would many of us.. and getting women would obviously become a whole lot easier (not saying I want to wear make-up of course, but um... anyway :crackup: )
The point is, most women spend HOURS putting on this sh*t... and why?? To impress and attract US!!! And the most important point of all I want to make here is that in general, particularly with many of these so-called 'beautiful women'.. once you take away all the eye-shadow, lip gloss, painted-on eyebrows etc etc from them.. they very often aren't anywhere NEAR as 'beautiful' as they appear to be.
The reason I'm telling you all this is because like I said, we've all been in those kind of situations where you can feel somewhat inferior (whether consciously or not) when in the presence of an amazing stunner.
So I find it can help my confidence tremendously when intimidated by a beautiful woman by thinking to myself 'Yeah OK, so you might look super-hot now... but I bet you don't f***ing look like that first thing in the morning once you've taken all that sh*t off your face! Whereas I on the other hand am all NATURAL, baby!! And don't have to spend 3 hours in front of the mirror to try and attract you!! ' I find this very often helps me to be more confident in their presence.
Yes, some women can be naturally beautiful, but in most cases (seriously) a lot of these 'hotties' can easily drop from a 10 to a 7, or a 7 to a 4, etc.. when they aren't dolled-up and without their precious artillery of cosmetic adjustments. Quite often you wouldn't BELIEVE the difference make-up can make to a woman's attractiveness. I'm not saying this to depress you and think that most women aren't as hot as you perhaps thought but just to remember that they have an unfair advantage over us and there IS NO NEED TO FEEL INFERIOR!!!! :cheer:
Check this page out, I often come back to it from time to time to give myself a little boost of confidence when I'm having an 'ugly day' or something lol.. its basically some of these so-called 'glamourous celebrities' who the media would have us believe are out of reach for the average guy.... without make-up. And I mean, just... wow. It speaks for itself, in many cases you wouldn't even be able to believe you were looking at the same woman.
http://seehere.blogspot.com/2006/08/celebrities-without-makeup.html
(Ignore Marilyn Manson at the top, I have no idea why they put him/her/it on there). But check em out, in particular Pamela Anderson... I mean can you BELIEVE that sh*t!?!?
So next time you're in front of that hottie, and you're feeling a little unworthy because of her supposed 'beauty', just remember she probably isn't actually as beautiful as she would like you to think she is..... and she only appears to be that gorgeous because she spent hours and hours in front of the mirror to attract guys like YOU!!!
This site is full of techniques on how to improve your game, how to improve yourself as a man, how to become stronger and all kind of stuff like that which is great. But even if you do manage to become the uber-don-juan that we all want to be, if you're anything like me (ie human).. you still have a certain weakness for...... BEAUTIFUL WOMEN.
Even though you may be extremely confident in yourself and your inner game etc.. there is still for all of us a certain type of woman who is so f*cking BEAUTIFUL that we can't help but subconsciously feel a little unworthy or inferior to, at least on the looks scale. You know the type, which at some point in your lives you may have thought 'she is too beautiful for me. I couldn't possibly get with her.. she is out of my league'
It used to bother me a lot. Even though I could be comfortable in their presence and communicate with them confidently, there was still something at the back of my mind saying 'OMG she's so ****ing gorgeous!! I can't hold a candle to her on the looks scale... I'll never be as good to look at as her
'.Well, let me tell you a little fact which is obvious and already known by all of us but very often overlooked: That 'beautiful' woman you fancy is very likely only that 'beautiful' BECAUSE SHE IS ALLOWED TO COSMETICALLY ENHANCE HER FACE.
Women DO have it easier than us guys in the dating game generally and part of the reason is because society allows them to spend f*cking ages adding all kinds of cosmetic improvements to their face and body, making them very often appear much more beautiful than they ACTUALLY are in reality. Whilst us guys on the other hand can do very little but put up with whatever God gave us.
I mean are you f***ing kidding me??? If I was allowed to spend 2-3 hours putting all kinds of enhancements and sh*t on my face I'd be able to make myself look f*cking HOT!!!! As would many of us.. and getting women would obviously become a whole lot easier (not saying I want to wear make-up of course, but um... anyway :crackup: )
The point is, most women spend HOURS putting on this sh*t... and why?? To impress and attract US!!! And the most important point of all I want to make here is that in general, particularly with many of these so-called 'beautiful women'.. once you take away all the eye-shadow, lip gloss, painted-on eyebrows etc etc from them.. they very often aren't anywhere NEAR as 'beautiful' as they appear to be.
The reason I'm telling you all this is because like I said, we've all been in those kind of situations where you can feel somewhat inferior (whether consciously or not) when in the presence of an amazing stunner.
So I find it can help my confidence tremendously when intimidated by a beautiful woman by thinking to myself 'Yeah OK, so you might look super-hot now... but I bet you don't f***ing look like that first thing in the morning once you've taken all that sh*t off your face! Whereas I on the other hand am all NATURAL, baby!! And don't have to spend 3 hours in front of the mirror to try and attract you!!
' I find this very often helps me to be more confident in their presence.Yes, some women can be naturally beautiful, but in most cases (seriously) a lot of these 'hotties' can easily drop from a 10 to a 7, or a 7 to a 4, etc.. when they aren't dolled-up and without their precious artillery of cosmetic adjustments. Quite often you wouldn't BELIEVE the difference make-up can make to a woman's attractiveness. I'm not saying this to depress you and think that most women aren't as hot as you perhaps thought but just to remember that they have an unfair advantage over us and there IS NO NEED TO FEEL INFERIOR!!!! :cheer:
Check this page out, I often come back to it from time to time to give myself a little boost of confidence when I'm having an 'ugly day' or something lol.. its basically some of these so-called 'glamourous celebrities' who the media would have us believe are out of reach for the average guy.... without make-up. And I mean, just... wow. It speaks for itself, in many cases you wouldn't even be able to believe you were looking at the same woman.
http://seehere.blogspot.com/2006/08/celebrities-without-makeup.html
(Ignore Marilyn Manson at the top, I have no idea why they put him/her/it on there). But check em out, in particular Pamela Anderson... I mean can you BELIEVE that sh*t!?!?
So next time you're in front of that hottie, and you're feeling a little unworthy because of her supposed 'beauty', just remember she probably isn't actually as beautiful as she would like you to think she is..... and she only appears to be that gorgeous because she spent hours and hours in front of the mirror to attract guys like YOU!!!