beard starting to turn gray

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I liked my beard when it was fully black. if a girl didn't like it, oh well, she can go date some feminine guy who doesn't grow facial hair.
but now my beard has started to grow white. my chin area has a lot of white and my sides are also starting to show some white.
I am feeling insecure about this. if I talk to a girl I think she is thinking "ew why is this old guy talking to me?"

1) do 40 some year old milfs like white beard?
2) do younger girls around 25 like white beard?

I dont want to dye it because I heard the chemicals accelerate the graying. the alternative is to completely shave it.
 

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There have been so many feminine guys with beards the past 15 years I don't think there's the same masculinity factor associated with it as there used to be.

No one wants a gray beard unless you're the Dos Equis dude. The milfs can get young c0cks and the 20 somethings want daddy, not granddad.
 

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Have no balding but beard is skipping grey in patches and going straight to white.

perhaps I need just for men or something
 

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There have been so many feminine guys with beards the past 15 years I don't think there's the same masculinity factor associated with it as there used to be.
exactly what I was thinking lol

Times have changed. I don't tihnk a beard is some masculine trait like it used to be. There's be a tonne of gay celebs with beards and lots of straight guys who are very feminine and camp who rock beards etc.

Beards basically became a bit of a fashion statements at some point and gay dudes love fashion, so they sort of jumped on board along with every other guy. Trend died out a tad in last few years it seems. And Most guys can grow a beard if they want one. There's not much special about them.

But to answer the question, I think the grey highlights your age, so if you're going for 18 year olds, you need to find the ones with daddy issues who find old looking guys hot lol.

40 yo milfs will likely be fine with it
 

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I have a couple grey whisps but more underneath which I shave anyway, I have a few greys in my hair (started getting them at 16), girls never care or even mention it.
 

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Both balding and grey hairs are traits of masculinity. As early as end 20 a man might face both. Recently i saw real madrid start Karim Benzema rocking a salt and pepper beard and it looks great on him.

A beard is a symbol of masculinity. You can either look like a warrior or you shave it all and you look like a creepy wanna be teenager.
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Ofcourse there are nuances to my previous paragraph. But when and where is the line? When does a beard become a strenght rather than a weakness?
 

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Dying is fine. Dying does not accelerate greying. Hair color is determined by melanin which we lose as we age causing hair to turn white.
 

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Dying is fine. Dying does not accelerate greying. Hair color is determined by melanin which we lose as we age causing hair to turn white.
Dyeing does not accelerate greying either, @Dust 2 Dust
 
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