Be very WARY of vengeful AWs

Don Juanabbe

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OK, guys, I just want to make this post as an illustration of how evil young women have become and what to look out for, and possibly even get some feedback on how I should deal with this situation, although I'm reasonably certain I know what I will do.

Scenario:

I have a local pub that I visit fairly regularly - 2 to 3 times a week, with my current lady friend.

One of the staff members at the pub is a hb 9+, with guys falling all over her etc. A little princess, who, from what I can tell, gets everything she wants from men and her parents. She's in her early 20s.

When she started working there about a year ago, I always got the f*ck me eyes from her bigtime. But this made me very uncomfortable. Why, you ask? Because I knew she had been seeing/getting together with a dude I knew who worked elsewhere, although she wasn't aware that I knew this.

Now, this princess obviuosly has little in the way of morals. She would go out of her way to shake her booty in front of me. Always giving me the eye, even in front of my girlfriend at that time, and later on, she even had the audacity to do so in front of her man!!!!!!!

Again, this made me very uncomfortable as I knew she had hooked up with a friend of mine. You should have seen her face when I bumped into them both a couple months on, and she realised that I was friends with the guy.

I was hoping that this would be the end of it - but no!!! Still I had the constant staring from her, I still had her going out of her way to stick her ass in my face - even in front of this dude, and in front of my current lady friend, who picked up on this behaviour herself many months ago. Needless to say, I explained the situation to my lady friend many months ago, and she has always kept tabs on this woman and her behaviour towards me.

At any rate, my discomfort level increased over the months, and I went straight into flat out ignoring this hor everytime I saw her. Well, this didn't help, as it made her more blatantly flaunt her goods in front of me.

Finally, a couple weeks back, this hor left her job, so I'm figuring, great, won't have to deal with this person anymore.

However, before she left, she made a point of having a little 'chat' with one of my ladyfriends gal pals, and proceeded to lambaste me, my character, brought up a whole bunch of stuff that she witnessed me doing (telling crude jokes and thus) going so far as to tell her that I had hit on her several times, and how uncomfortable it made her, given that I knew her boyfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I can assure you, I never, ever, hit on this woman, as it goes against my personal code of a) not pursuing attentioin hors b) not pursuing girls with boyfriends, especially ones whom I consider friends and c) not hitting on staff members in my local. Not only that, I think I have perhaps said a grand total of 10 sentences to her in the time that I've known her.

At any rate, this stuff obviously got back to my ladyfriend, but fortunately, she had seen enough of the history involved with this to take it with a grain of salt, and luckily it has not affected our relationship.

So, what can we learn from this woman's behaviour that applies to what we know about attention hors and modern young women in general?

Well, this woman is obviously bored with her boyfriend, that much is obvious.

She has displayed time and time again her attraction for me, yet the more I tried to ignore this HB9+, the more aggressive she got.

When she didn't recieve the attention that she wanted, she did a very underhanded thing in lying about me and trashing my character to someone whom I am closely associated with in the hope that it would cause me trouble in my relationship.

Not to mention this type of behaviour illustrates just how selfish, petty and untrustworthy young women are these days.

At any rate, my plan of action? Do nothing at all. She's already fired her best shot at me, and failed. It caused a wee bit of grief between me and my lady friend, but thankfully, as I said, my lady friend was aware of what was going on, and had observed on several occasions this hor giving me the eye and hovering around me.

What do you guys think?
 

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you did good. Just ignore the biach...... you don't need that kind of drama in your life.

Oh, and hope you don't run in to her again
 

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Keep ignoring her. B!tching back would mean getting down to her level.

Man, those hors, they are despicable. I wish they would get put to their place more often by guys like you, but the problem is that those hors won't stop behaving this way as long as there exist all those weak men who kiss their ass and accept being their lap dog.
 

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Yeah, I put her in her place by ignoring her, not giving her the type of attention she was used to, yet, somehow, even that plan of action blew up in my face, as she went so far as to lie about me and exagerrate on some stories in order to make me look bad to other women.

I really have to feel sorry for her boyfriend because I'm sure he has no clue the type of woman he's with and seems to be somewhat AFC with her.

During my initial anger at being slandered, I thought about having a chat with him, but what would that accomplish? Absolutely nothing.

Now the only thing I need to do in try and convinve my lady friend not to have a go at her, as she's pretty ticked at the interference of this biatch in our business.
 
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Cut her throat and leave her in the alley!!!

Ok, that was my first thought, but after thinking a bit I think that would be too messsy!!

This ho wants you to create a scene by confronting her and if you do then you'll be doing what she wants and that is giving her attention and the satisfaction of upsetting you!! She may say you hit her or something and call the police on you...

Where do you live?
 

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my god...

This chick could easily sue your employer for sexual harrassment, and or have you fired.

She was "uncomfortable" with your supposed advances. She's in a hostile work environment!

I would try to document everything she says and document your rebuttal.

This chick should be sued for slander and malicious infliction of emotional distress.

You should try to make a public record out of this. Then in the future , when she pulls this again (which she will) her character will be documented.


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AW's are like little children stuck in an adult's body.

Think of how a small spoiled children behave like when they go shopping with their parents in a toy store. They often point to a toy and tell their parents to buy them this and that. If the parents refuse they will scream, cry, drag onto to one of parents legs and basically cause a drama for all to see.

Weak parents often feel so embarrassed by the child behaviour that they either reward them with the toy, negotiate with them for something else, or punish them severly by showing anger and frustration. Once you do that the child bad behaviour will not decrese but rather increase because they know now that they can push your buttons and get a reaction from you thus they will have some power over you.

Same thing with AW's. She couldn't have you and thus lost her power and is bitterly frustrated. Now this spoiled child is looking to gain power over you by destroying your image, which she hopes will cause you hardship by either destroying the relationship with your lady friend and your other friends, or she is hoping that you will confront her in a public place for all to see and thus she will make herself feel superior.

Solution: Ignore the hoe like you did before and avoid her at all costs, as well make sure you do damage control and resassure others that may of heard bad stuff about you that its false. Eventually she will get bored of not seeing or hearing anything from you and she will move on to the next victim.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Cut her throat and leave her in the alley!!!

Ok, that was my first thought, but after thinking a bit I think that would be too messsy!!

This ho wants you to create a scene by confronting her and if you do then you'll be doing what she wants and that is giving her attention and the satisfaction of upsetting you!! She may say you hit her or something and call the police on you...

Where do you live?
Not too far from you in Canada.

The most mind boggling thing about this broad is she has displayed all of this behaviour towards me whilst at the same time embarking on a fledgling relationship with this other guy.

Seeing as I know the guy personally, you can understand why I simply ignored the b*tch over the last 5 or 6 months.

Unfortunately, this drove her to such an extreme reaction in telling a good friend of my gal all this sh*t about me.

One has to wonder about her motivations though. Who knows, the mindset of some of these broads is completely f*cked. I don't think she even understands why she did it.

I mean, if someone is happy within their relationship, why go out of your way to f*ck someone else's up, especially given that she knew damn well nothing would ever happen between us, given that we both have our own respective partners right now.

Very convenient that she did this exactly when she was leaving her employment at this place behind and that she went straight to someone within my circle of friends.

But this is a good example of what some of these spoiled b*tches can be like when they don't get their asses kissed.
 

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women who do these things should be dealt with a swift crush of power.

lure them as they think they see through your schemes.

act afc or a nice guy one day and then take her out to an expensive restaurant.

then upon the bill signing, admit you left the wallet in the car and you can pay her back.

upon going back to the car in which she will probably demand some monies back, make sure your wallet contains nothing of value inside it and tell her that you have nothing now and you promise to pay her back.

upon doing that, do not call her or whatnot. watch her try to get another date out of you , from which she expects you to pay her or if she is the scheming type she will plan a revenge on her own by making you pay for an expensive dish.

you will politely decline and say you are busy and continue on looking for women who do not play these games.

the force will be strong with you.
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Cut her throat and leave her in the alley!!!

Ok, that was my first thought, but after thinking a bit I think that would be too messsy!!

This ho wants you to create a scene by confronting her and if you do then you'll be doing what she wants and that is giving her attention and the satisfaction of upsetting you!! She may say you hit her or something and call the police on you...
Ding Ding Ding Ding Ding! Danger! Danger!

At least, that's what I heard while reading the original post and PRL's response...

This sht happens often and you need to AVOID this woman!

Some women are complete nuts. This sounds like one of them. Avoid her. Stay the hell away from her. Pretend that seeing her, hearing her, or even hearing mention of her name will turn you into stone. You cannot win with a nut. You have to run away from them.

I almost had my career ruined by one of them. She managed to ruin a few, close relationships and then thought, wait, maybe I can get this guy arrested while we're at it. Thank God the cops knew her and were tired of responding to her calls. I would be sitting in a cell right now if it wasn't for her own insanity backfiring on her.

I don't go out of my way to meet nutties. I could have avoided my situation if I'd responded to my gut feeling. Stay AWAY. Don't give a nut attention.
 

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listen to what Robbie says ^^^^

it is not worth putting your life in danger for

your woman wants to confront her ?

b*tches love drama and fights

control your woman

don't get put on the spot by your woman because SHE wants a confrontation with the AW

what do you want ? no drama and police right ?

KEEP AWAY AND IGNORE and put your woman in line. she follows your lead in battle not the other way around.


Lost In Translation :D

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Good advice guys. I had planned to not even confront this person, however, my girlfriend was a little steamed. I had a chat with her and told her it's not worth it. She agreed and wants to concentrate on us and to hell with anyone else. She said she knows the truth of it all and that's what's important.

PRL is right - she wants the attention through hopefully causing a stink. I will only have to see this person rarely, but I will keep my distance and not associate with her.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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