Be Overt with Your Intent and Relentless in Action

[guru1000]

I look forward to joining this action

Alex, great. Get out there and be over-the-top bold in your adventures and share your stories with us. The goal is not to win. The goal is to dominate in accordance with your will. Winning is simply the byproduct.

 

[guru1000]

Gentlemen, we are all on the same team, ultimately fighting the same war, which is to become better men. Let's surrender our differences, get along, and support one another instead.

I have no foes, as foes require mental energy I care not to dole out. Better to invest our valuable time into constructive thinking to help ourselves instead of disparaging others.

 

[KimboSlice]

Amen to that but as you know guru my post are controversial as many on here who are older poster i have some life experience to share, i have received a lot of private messages thanking me to be so honest, but most people who reply to my post often do it in a frustrating way. I came here because i was miserable with my life, felt lonely and have awakened. Yes becoming a better man and you have opened my eyes on many things guru either shape up be your best, and so much more.

But there are people on here that are not here to learn, they are just here to whine and if you post something against the grain or that they disagree with you then you are done.

To be honest a lot of people would not have lived threw what i did for the last 15y of my life, going threw so much, there are things i keep to myself that i do not want to share but my life has been hell, and when my ex left me this is where everything fell a part, because i did love her with all my heart, and i gave in so much into that relationship, when everyone around us where getting separated, after 1-3-5 years we where still going strong no kids an active couple, and then she dropped the bomb on me. I met my soul mate yet lost another house and i needed to begin yet again.

These are things that young posters here might not understand yet. This is why i started to analyze my life my past relationship and wonder what would a women bring me in this day and age. After suffering so much i came to the conclusion that a women would bring me nothing. And this and a bunch of other post kind of put me in the doghouse with some of the few members on here.

I came on here to learn, become a better person and to be honest i don't really care what people think of me, i am honest i share true stories, i don't lie you get what you see.

I am giving myself a full year to chance hopefully regrow the thinned hair i lost using fat burning supplements, work on my game, lose the weight, and build even more confidence.

Who knows maybe during this time my interest in women will come back but for now and its really mind bugling but women don't interested me one bit, maybe i am afraid to get attached, maybe i am afraid to get hurt again i don't know but since i started to focus on myself losing weight be better i sort of lost the focus for everything else.

Thanks again Guru1000 and everyone else.

So Yankit the genius needed to join so suave to figure out he shouldn't have eaten twinkies his whole life till he hit 450lbs? Did yank-it the mental masturbator need to log onto the net to have a mind blowing revelation that working out is healthy and would make him more attractive?

Waaaaanik43 posts the same sob story like he's an autistic broken record.

Waaaaaanik your posts read like you overdosed on estrogen pills and sport a tramp stamp above your azz that reads: Whoot! There it is!

 

[HeadLightsOn]

Take a little at this video for a moment: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_mieF6cMg90

Do you feel more dominant after watching this video? This evidences that dominance is a state that can be incited without drugs.

TBH that video does not make me feel more dominant. He seems like a steroid taking, show performer. I've seen those type of guys blubber like babies when their emotional buttons get pushed (eg in a TV interview).

I wouldn't want to get readers here to mistake dominance with aggression.

Just my two cents worth.

 

[HeadLightsOn]

Kimboslice not banned yet mmmm better start working on your new user name i am on to you. Every account you create you will be banned.:flowers: :flowers:

Could you explain the 'banned' thing on SS? So if a user has the word 'banned' by their name, they are removed from SS? I thought I've seen banned beside a user previously, but they've still been able to post? Does a Mod do the banning? Thx.

 

[Konada]

Guru what's your opinion on whether looks play a part in how bold/aggressive you can be?

Compare a cut up-well built guy over your average male (chubby/skinny). Obviously the good looking guy can get away with more but is there a point where a bold mindset can be perceived as being incongruent with the physical traits of a man?

 

[guru1000]

Hehe, some of you didn't like Goldberg. He always resonated with me when I was younger. This video and this resonate with my becoming more dominant today. But then again I come from Wall Street, so that's understandable.

I'm interested to see what resonates with your dominance. Feel free to post them here.

 

[guru1000]

Guru what's your opinion on whether looks play a part in how bold/aggressive you can be?

Compare a cut up-well built guy over your average male (chubby/skinny). Obviously the good looking guy can get away with more but is there a point where a bold mindset can be perceived as being incongruent with the physical traits of a man?

Konada, I don't know where you live, but most super-successful guys in NY, especially Wall St, are dominant but lack in the looks department. And they do well with women too (before the women know they are filthy rich). I think most of the confusion derives from the well-built guys who take testosterone, thus accelerating their dominance, as being a characteristic of good-looking men. I can vouch that outside of drugs, this is certainly not the case.

As long as you are dominant at your core, you will remain congruent will your outwardly displays of dominance, irrespective of your looks.

 

[guru1000]

Friday Night ...

As so the weekend begins. I arrive at the lounge at 8:15 pm; a double-header awaits.

Girl 1 walks in a few minutes later; she's a 7.5 in person. I introduce myself, we sit down, and start chatting. Ten minutes later, I receive a text message. Well what do you know, there’s a text from Girl 2, “I’m here.” I look behind my shoulder and I see Girl 2 standing fifteen feet or so away, looking at me as I turn around. Although an internet date, she recognizes me. Girl 2 is a 7.5 in person also. Uh oh, Guru has to make a decision, between a 7.5 and a 7.5.

I stand there for a minute contemplating this decision. I excuse myself from Girl 1, and walk over to Girl 2.

Guru: Hi, I’m Guru.

Girl 2: Hi Guru, who is that sitting next to you over there?

Guru: My date.

Girl 2: Your date. Excuse me!? Who am I then?

Guru: You’re my date too (I say with a serious countenance)

Girl 2: What! Are you insane?

Guru: Yes I am, a matter of fact.

Girl 2 walks over to Girl 1, introduces herself and says, “Are you aware that he (pointing at me) scheduled a date with both of us?”

Girl 1 shakes her head no.

I turn to Girl 2:

Guru: "I’m sorry, but I am afraid I am going to have to cut our date short. I will be entertaining the rest of the evening with her,” pointing to Girl 1. “But, thank you for your time.”

Girl 2: Fvcken azzhole!

Girl 2 grabs a glass of water from the bar and throws it at my face, and leaves.

I don’t wipe. I sit down drenched, act as if nothing just happened and begin my date with Girl 1.

Guru to Girl 1: You are tonight’s winner. How do you feel about that?

And so the date ensues …

More to come later (I’m too buzzed) …

 

[zekko]

I know I'm in the minority in this, but I really dislike the whole "schedule two dates at once" bit. I know they are only women, but it seems to me a very rude thing to do, to screw around with someone else's time like that.

Oh, it may make you look like a big man or whatever. But this seems like the kind of thing that if a woman did it, we would be roasting her on this forum for being such a b!tch, and rightly so IMO.

Nevertheless, Guru's adventures still make for entertaining reading.

 

[devilkingx2]

I feel like the hidden message here is not to give up too easy, i would've given up after the dinner and just dodged all her texts or something, and i'm sure many would've also done the same, but by continuing in the face of hopelessness you prevailed, good work

 

[devilkingx2]

I know I'm in the minority in this, but I really dislike the whole "schedule two dates at once" bit. I know they are only women, but it seems to me a very rude thing to do, to screw around with someone else's time like that.

Oh, it may make you look like a big man or whatever. But this seems like the kind of thing that if a woman did it, we would be roasting her on this forum for being such a b!tch, and rightly so IMO.

Nevertheless, Guru's adventures still make for entertaining reading.

I totally agree with this post,

i'd also like to point out that a lot of this seems to be gaming for the sake of gaming as opposed to for the sake of getting laid, which is fine i guess, but i feel like there's better ways to spend time unless i'm getting laid imo

 

[guru1000]

I know I'm in the minority in this, but I really dislike the whole "schedule two dates at once" bit. I know they are only women, but it seems to me a very rude thing to do, to screw around with someone else's time like that.

Oh, it may make you look like a big man or whatever. But this seems like the kind of thing that if a woman did it, we would be roasting her on this forum for being such a b!tch, and rightly so IMO.

Nevertheless, Guru's adventures still make for entertaining reading.

I feel no compassion for pretty girls, especially online (as many guys here will attest to their ruthlessness). They have been manipulating men since the dawn of time. As we had spoken about once, biblical stories will confirm that. Two wrongs don't make a right, but frankly I don't give a damn. My desire is to extract the best deal out of my precious asset, time.

Consider me the Robin Hood of DJdom. I take from pretty girls and give to men.

 

[zekko]

Guru, I admire what you are doing from the standpoint of breaking social conventions and finding the freedom and boldness to do what you want. I just can't sign off on the scheduling two dates at once thing, because it seems like you are intentionally using your power to hurt someone that you don't know, so you don't know if they deserve it or not. The whole "LET'S GET BACK AT THESE BISCHES!!!" revenge motivation has never resonated with me.

I've never had a big problem with flaking though - probably because I've never done online dating. I understand flaking is a big problem with OLD, and that inspires a lot of guys to do this type of scheduling thing.

Anyway, looking forward to hearing the rest of your story.

 

[marmel75]

As I'm married and haven't done anything in a long time, I don't really do much in this way anymore, however I was at a party my cousin threw last night as a going away party cause he is moving out of his house, and I definitely could have fvcked at least 3 of the women there, I actually posted a little blurb about it in this thread:

http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=228647&page=2

Long and short of it is a woman there claimed she didn't like having her hair pulled and ass spanked and then I did both those things to her, whispered in her ear "you know You fvcking loved it" walked away and went to take a piss 10 minutes later and she "mistakenly " walked in on me and closed the door...I walked out but I'm 100% sure she wanted to getting fvcked in there and my cousin confirmed it after they left...

Moral of the story, do what the fvck you want when you are out and don't believe their BS

 

[marmel75]

As so the weekend begins. I arrive at the lounge at 8:15 pm; a double-header awaits.

Girl 1 walks in a few minutes later; she's a 7.5 in person. I introduce myself, we sit down, and start chatting. Ten minutes later, I receive a text message. Well what do you know, there’s a text from Girl 2, “I’m here.” I look behind my shoulder and I see Girl 2 standing fifteen feet or so away, looking at me as I turn around. Although an internet date, she recognizes me. Girl 2 is a 7.5 in person also. Uh oh, Guru has to make a decision, between a 7.5 and a 7.5.

I stand there for a minute contemplating this decision. I excuse myself from Girl 1, and walk over to Girl 2.

Girl 2 walks over to Girl 1, introduces herself and says, “Are you aware that he (pointing at me) scheduled a date with both of us?”

Girl 1 shakes her head no.

I turn to Girl 2:

Girl 2 grabs a glass of water from the bar and throws it at my face, and leaves.

I don’t wipe. I sit down drenched, act as if nothing just happened and begin my date with Girl 1.

And so the date ensues …

More to come later (I’m too buzzed) …

You are the fvckin man dude...I have never even considered pulling this off...

And Zekko, for every time this happens, a guy gets stood up 20 times or flaked on while driving to the date. I don't feel anything for them. Turn about is fair play.

 

[zekko]

If 20 women flake, that is clearly wrong also. Doesn't change anything.

I am all for freedom of action and going for what you want. But I don't think that becoming a sh!tty person in the process is necessary, or desirable.

As I've said, I've never had much of a problem with flaking. Probably because, like Atom Smasher, I usually make sure there is some attraction going before I pull the trigger. I realize OLD doesn't work like that, but something about that whole process seems unnatural to me.

 

[ubercat]

Zekko
I may start doing double headers at least for euro chicks. I d like to turn the other cheek and used to all the time. But after seeing average woman treat my chubby and short friends like dog **** I just can't do it anymore. They're inheriting the world they re creating

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Spawn by BackInTheGame’s thread, let’s discuss this esoteric term called Dominance. What is dominance? Dominance is a state of a genuine desire to exert power and influence upon others. Though, dominance can be incidentally spawn by higher testosterone and androgen levels, physiology is not the only catalyst of dominance. One’s mental thought process and motivations can incite dominance as well (myriad studies substantiate this claim).

Take a little at this video for a moment: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_mieF6cMg90

Do you feel more dominant after watching this video? This evidences that dominance is a state that can be incited without drugs. If you never witnessed dominance in your life or are not surrounded by dominant people, you will have a harder time transmuting into this state naturally.

Roadblocks to Dominance

Social constructs vilify dominance. How else did feminism get so powerful? Society has coined and joined dominance with the following loaded words: “criminal,” “low-life,” “uneducated,” “classless,” “meathead,” “chauvinistic,” “idiot.” You get the idea. Society has effectively shamed the dominance out of most men.

Yet, to be super-successful in most endeavors in life, one must be dominant. I am here to tell you that dominance is constructive and salubrious (psychologically and physically), and you all should strive to be more dominant in your life.

Rejection of the social machination that domination is for the deranged and irrational is the first step. I encourage all of you to share what mental strategies you employ to become more dominant in your life.

Hehe, some of you didn't like Goldberg. He always resonated with me when I was younger. This video and this resonate with my becoming more dominant today. But then again I come from Wall Street, so that's understandable.

I'm interested to see what resonates with your dominance. Feel free to post them here.

I can attest to what you have said. Certain songs for me cause me to feel a certain way. One may make feel a sense of achievement. Another will make me feel raw confidence. Another one leadership and dominance. All of these are masculine traits.

Guru1000, from what I have read from your experiences here and the experiences of the great DJs, I can honestly say, you are a true Don Juan. The blunt and direct context of your speech, the nonchalant behavior towards those who do not benefit or interest you, the indifference towards unspoken social rules (a lesson to all btw, you do not need to follow social rules. If you are sure of yourself enough you make up your OWN rules that OTHERS will follow. This includes GAME as well, hence how guru got away with calling a woman beautiful and saying how he wanted to marry her. You have to be the king of YOUR world.), these are all traits of what Pook would call, a 'Man'. Or what I have said to be, your 'true self'.

This ought to be stickied or put in the bible. Take this into consideration mods. We have an enlightened one here.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Optimizing your looks

On a side note, looks do play a part in this, but not how most of you guys think. Having good looks means that you take care of yourself. It takes work, but it is VERY far from impossible. Work out like no other till you get ripped as hell. Style your hair to what suits you best. Eat healthy so that you look healthier, sleep more so that you look more energetic, and get a tan to make it look like you go out a lot. Understand your body and learn to read body language. Learn to control your own body language too because it does a lot of the talking for you. Buy nicer clothes that fit better on you. At this point, you have pretty much optimized your looks. But to those who want to enhance their jawline, chew at least a pack of gum everyday and make sure that you chew REALLY hard. This will build up your jaw muscle and give you better breath. Learn to speak at a pitch in which your body resonates by finding you sympathetic frequency (basically, learn how to make your voice carry). Hygiene is pretty much a given on what to do.

A woman will subconsciously see that a man with good looks has good looks because he takes care of himself and that shows that he can take care of her (basic primitive needs). There's lots you can do to optimize looks and health. All you have to do is just do it.