Be Honest.

[Gangster Of Love]

I'd expect this type of a response from one of the teenagers on this site, but not a 35 year old.

If you want to live your life, at age 35, looking for the next hit and never being satisfied, it's your life. You're still letting women control your happiness even if you're having sex with them (which I doubt you are as much as you'd like to be, or else you wouldn't be on such a lame site.)

I have a lot of nice memories of being in bed with very attractive women, but after a while, they all blend together, especially when the women have no personality to speak of (which they usually don't, which is why I laugh at the guys on this site who get hung up on "one hot girl.")

So you want an adult response...this from the person who claims to detest fatties, uglies, and non-whites, even just as friends???? Okaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay!!!

Ok, so predictably, you latched onto the only thing you know about me, my age. Besides that, you don't know me. You don't know what type of women I date. You don't know if I am satisfied or not. You have no idea the kind of woman I go for, the type that I value. It is obvious you and I go about this whole women deal in a much different way, as I don't find myself feeling the same way about women as you do.

I don't know how many here on this "lame site" actually are or are not in control of themselves. There seems to be a larger number of men who haven't figured it out, but very few as bitter and down as you would let us to believe. All I can tell you, women wise, my life has never been better, and I am not just speakin about getting laid, that is the easiest part of it, but overall happiness and fullfilment with women as people and part of my life. Nothing dishonest about that. I am willing to say that a lot of men in here are also very happy and doing very well.

If your posts on this thread are really true, then your situation my friend, is not a happy one. To classify and assume that everyone must be as miserable as you claim to be, or else they are not being honest, is truly naive. In other words, speak for yourself. Few here agree with you and want to remain celibate. More power to you guys. That might be the course of action you guys need to take at this moment until you get your act together, but permanently, as somebody said before, as a man you are designed to be attracted and to and have women as part of your life.

If you are actually serious about your diatribes above, I hope you turn it around and truly find what you're looking for. It seems obvious you are not doing too good at this moment in your life, as I hope, for your sake, this is not a permament attitude you take on.

 

[nilescrane]

Trust me, Gangster, I've slept with more women than you can imagine. And I'm not bragging, because personally I wish I hadn't.

I don't have it all figured out, but I know I'm happier than most of the men on this site, at least in this area of my life, just by reading the bitterness and frustration in their posts...all over the opposite sex.

Women aren't that complicated. A lot of them don't even know themselves, let alone anything else. Yet they're analyzed on this site like they're some rare artifact.

While you and others are chasing around women, going up to women at the mall and asking them what they like more, coke or pepsi, or who lies more, men or women, I'm having a fun time with my family and not worrying about something that I was brainwashed to like in the first place - hot girls.

As for the not being friends with ugly women...a joke, man, a joke.

 

[omega05]

i can see where you're coming from when you say don't make women your number one priority but if you're not getting women consistently then it becomes hard to (at least for me)

 

[DonJuan11]

I love women. But I'm at a point where I could care less about getting them.

Funniest thing heard all week.

I think guys who've never had a girlfriend or dated much or slept with women have this fantasy about what it's like...and it's nothing like that.

Who are you to tell them this? It's for them to experience it and report back to you what it's like, not for you to dictate what it feels like because you may have done it. When you tell guys "it's nothing like that" when they have tried everything to get it with no success, it's comes off very very conceited.

It can be good, really good at times, but if you don't have a foundation besides women, you're not going to be happy even if you have the woman and everything is going well.

The same thing can be said about anything in life.

"Money can be good, really good at times, but if you don't have a foundation...
"Your job can be good, really good at times, but if you don't have a foundation...
"Friends can be good, really good at times, but if you don't have a foundation...

Why are you narrowing your thoughts to women? You cannot just restrict it to women and sex because you feel like it.

You will scare her off with your desperation, and if you don't, she's probably as desperate as you and just using you for the wedding ring.

I don't understand the meaning of the last sentences.

If you want to feel better about yourself by trying to convince yourself and others that women and sex are not important, more power to you, but it won't get the results you want.