Be egotistical

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If you don’t think you are the top G and reality bends to your favour

start believing in that.

you’re being divinely guided and shaped to be the best possible version of yourself every time u come with an obstacle

That’s god challenging you to level up

Lmao I was falling for this hoe when pandemic happened and this hoe curves me for this guy

Got so pissed I started a business that propelled me to be top 1% not only my age but for people under 35. I’m 23 rn.

All these problems are your path. The obstacle is the way.

Free yourself from these stupid rules everyone abides by. You’re not a slave. You make your own freaking rules.

Why go through being broke and these stupid CV resumes and going on indeed and sh.

You get rejected by 20 software startups? CREATE YOUR OWN DAMMIT.

why go through dating apps and curate the “perfect profile” sh.

The amount of mental and spiritual energy you exert is WAYYY more than having to go through that process.

You’re spending 80% of your energy to get 20% results.

and why? Because you fed into this BS narrative that was implanted when your brain was yet to fully develop.

“success is hard” “hard work will beat talent” “I just gotta be more disciplined” “I just gotta have more willpower”

You’re out here taking granny shots.

That’s for chumps who are “humble” and don’t have faith in their own divinity.

BE EGOTISTICAL. YOU ARE HIM.
 
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I’m egotistical af because I know that I’m limitless and am willing to do the work to learn and take action and be consistent at it.

That’s what being a winner is.

Commitment to the process will show you what true “Security” is.

This security that you seek is hidden behind freedom that you avoid.
 

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Only secure thing you have is knowing that everything is chaos and that you’re not god, lose yourself in the chaos and adapt

become anti fragile and make chaos your slave hoe
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I almost want to poke at it to see what it’ll do next…
 

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One doesn't need to be egotistical to think like that, otherwise wouldn't anyone with excessive faith in his abilities be considered one, cool post tho has a good message to it
 

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If you can't find a way you have to make your own

BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY

A lot of people in this world have the potential to be whatever they want to be but are not capable of being uncomfortable , having confrontations saying no to self appointed authorities and taking what they want from life

Society uses a lot of clever constructs and ideologies to keep a person within their allocated box few have the courage or self believe to ever leave it

You are almost shamed for succeeding with anything

I am fortunate to have strong internal compass which has so far guided me well through life but I look at many who don't with a lot of pity
 

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Being egotistical is good advice. Just remember not to be delusional.
 

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If you can't find a way you have to make your own

BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY

A lot of people in this world have the potential to be whatever they want to be but are not capable of being uncomfortable , having confrontations saying no to self appointed authorities and taking what they want from life

Society uses a lot of clever constructs and ideologies to keep a person within their allocated box few have the courage or self believe to ever leave it

You are almost shamed for succeeding with anything

I am fortunate to have strong internal compass which has so far guided me well through life but I look at many who don't with a lot of pity
YES
 

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Being egotistical is good advice. Just remember not to be delusional.
To a certain extent you gotta be a little bit “delusional”

Having faith that you will be something and you will get something that just isn’t there yet.

It seems crazy and delusional to a third party.

idk. Like I said before become anti fragile and brutally confront reality.

If you’re fat af, you can’t tell ppl you’re athletic lmao. But in your mind you have an incredible body already, you’re just waiting for reality to catch up.

you gotta believe your a millionaire before it ever happens.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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What is needed is workable action.
Tony Robbins has been around a while.

Guys like OP should be doing podcasts or writing books or seminars if teaching is his calling.
First bro you do not need “workable action”

people just gotta go out there and take action. There is no right way to do things or right answers. Everyone’s situation is different.

There is an abundance of information out there on workable action, like how to put together a team, how to present a pitch to investors, etc.

All that sh is out there on the web.

we don’t succeed why? Internal hesitations, doubt.

especially when someone fails or meets with resistance which is what this post is about.

second someone meets up with resistance or obstacle, there goes the doubt, hesitation, programming creeping in.

you just need belief in your self and persistence and you will get whatever u want in life.

I truly believe ppl don’t need another self development book or podcast or stupid seminar

If I did have a book it’d be to tell people to write their own book and not to look for me for answers.

Ask specific questions and you will get answers.

what gets people success is a crazy maniacal and delusional belief in themselves

anyways Im practicing writing, this is just a side hobby for me,

I could care less about likes I just hope it lights a fire under someone’s ass to go out there and get it instead of waiting for permission smh
 

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Not all action is created equal or even carry the same energy or vibration. So yea wrong again.

Reading these terms you say is like saying water is wet to anyone thats been on this journey long enough.
Its being rammed down peoples throats.

Whats needed is the how and "when"
When you do something, that something can be increased by atleast 8% above the law of averages.
Yes so by math there are "workable actions"

If you got that info put it out to the masses
Bruh again. I get that but let’s use another example.

It’s like Ideas.

Reason why writers block and these creative blocks happen is cause sometimes you sit there trying to conjure up ideas on the spot.

For me whenever I have ideas it’s usually when I’m walking thinking about a problem or whatever.

It’s like that board room meeting where the leader says hey let’s brainstorm does anyone have business ideas?

That’s tough as hell. It’s super broad and complex.

Our brains work differently.

If he was to state that his vision was to make a dating app that encourages users to approach.

You start coming up with features and ideas. Then u use logical reasoning or divergent thinking to narrow it down.

You create then reduce to the essence using 80/20 rule to filter it.

It doesn’t matter because nobody can show you the how. Because you will naturally come up with the how.

Hard part is the what and why. Then the how and when naturally comes from your brain.

Let’s say your goal is to have a girlfriend, and then u describe how she is.

Then your brain will come up with stories and ideas as to where you might meet her etc, what to say to her, how to handle dating her etc. you test out these ideas and find the ideas that work and get you closer.

Maybe you want a girl that does yoga etc. I love girls who are artsy and easy going. I can’t get a girl who is itchy or has attitude. I just dip. But the girls who are artsy I always get them. Instantly haha
 
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Bruh again. I get that but let’s use another example.

It’s like Ideas.

Reason why writers block and these creative blocks happen is cause sometimes you sit there trying to conjure up ideas on the spot.

For me whenever I have ideas it’s usually when I’m walking thinking about a problem or whatever.

It’s like that board room meeting where the leader says hey let’s brainstorm does anyone have business ideas?

That’s tough as hell. It’s super broad and complex.

Our brains work differently.

If he was to state that his vision was to make a dating app that encourages users to approach.

You start coming up with features and ideas. Then u use logical reasoning or divergent thinking to narrow it down.

You create then reduce to the essence using 80/20 rule to filter it.

It doesn’t matter because nobody can show you the how. Because you will naturally come up with the how.

Hard part is the what and why. Then the how and when naturally comes from your brain.

Let’s say your goal is to have a girlfriend, and then u describe how she is.

Then your brain will come up with stories and ideas as to where you might meet her etc, what to say to her, how to handle dating her etc. you test out these ideas and find the ideas that work and get you closer.

Maybe you want a girl that does yoga etc. I love girls who are artsy and easy going. I can’t get a girl who is itchy or has attitude. I just dip. But the girls who are artsy I always get them. Instantly haha
There are no experts just doers who use other peoples mistakes and success to speed up their decision making process
 
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There are no experts just doers who use other peoples mistakes and success to speed it up their action taking
Secret is:

Belief > Thoughts > Actions > Result >feeds into Belief

Feedback Loops are everything and are the most important in life. That’s why engineers make great CEOs, software devs are highly paid. It’s all using feedback loops
 

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Not all action is created equal or even carry the same energy or vibration. So yea wrong again.
Yes. 80/20 rule applies. But it depends on the person.

How many ppl take the same course and get completely different results? Because they don’t understand it’s unique. Everyone has their own unique 80/20 strengths and weaknesses combo

It’s your job to discover it, only way u know for sure it’s action. Then u can reiterate and find combos unique to yourself lol.
 
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