Be careful with Gym babes...

[Dictatorsaurus]

If I was in that situation, I would never even think of appologizing to a gym juice monkey. I would stand my ground. Doesn't matter how big or tough he is. Anyone who comes over and touches my shoulder will find himself under my foot real fast.

Women get approached all the time. If some guy chats with my woman, I let them be because she can politely turn him down. I only jump in if he makes her feel uncomfortable.

God_of_getting_layed,

You seem to lack confidence as much as you lack common sense. Bragging about liking to beat people up is just worthless street **** talk which you seem to be full of.

 

[Devestator]

I hope I meet a guy strong enough to challenge me over something so stupid. Good spotters are hard to find!

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

hey, God_of_getting_layed thats not being shelfish thats being insecure as your over protective, that is AFC, you sya you get a lot of women, well sometimes AFC's do, im telling you this because i was talking to a girl i know and she told me that 1 thing girls hate more then anytinhg else is guys that are over protective and controling.

AFC=average frustrated chump, well Im not frustrated, I get lots of hotties. and Im not a chump, so then how can I be an AFC? I cant, unless the definition wants to contridict itself. But If Im an AFC becuase I get lots of women, then hell yeah, Im an AFC and proud of it.

Also, as for that girl that says women dont like protective guys, screw her OPINION!!! I didnt ask for it.

And also, I know a girl that says all women want a good looking guy, looks are the most important thing, what do you have to say about that? If you say she's wrong, then youll have to say the girl you were talking to is wrong. Since we are both dealing with one woman's opinion here.

God_of_getting_layed,

You seem to lack confidence as much as you lack common sense. Bragging about liking to beat people up is just worthless street **** talk which you seem to be full of.

All the typing I see here is "blah, blah, blah". lol.

 

[Dictatorsaurus]

Originally posted by God_of_getting_layed
AFC=average frustrated chump, well Im not frustrated, I get lots of hotties. and Im not a chump, so then how can I be an AFC? I cant, unless the definition wants to contridict itself. But If Im an AFC becuase I get lots of women, then hell yeah, Im an AFC and proud of it.

Also, as for that girl that says women dont like protective guys, screw her OPINION!!! I didnt ask for it.

And also, I know a girl that says all women want a good looking guy, looks are the most important thing, what do you have to say about that? If you say she's wrong, then youll have to say the girl you were talking to is wrong. Since we are both dealing with one woman's opinion here.




All the typing I see here is "blah, blah, blah". lol.

You are more immature than initially thought. It didn't take much to expose your phoniness. How old are you anyway? 14? I suggest you hangout at the highschool forum since you'd fit there just fine!

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

You are more immature than initially thought. It didn't take much to expose your phoniness. How old are you anyway? 14? I suggest you hangout at the highschool forum since you'd fit there just fine!

I'm going to have to second that. You already showed us your insecurity. Women may like protective guys, but not jealous. One of these days, you're going to run up on some dude talking to your girl, and he's going to kick your ass. What's your girl going to think then? She'll probably go for the more protective guy. That's pretty ironic don't you think?

 

[Dee-Zy]

Originally posted by Don_Marko

2) SHHHHHH we were talking and it doesn't involve you

And then go back to talking to the chick

BWAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA

You gotta have some major guts to do this, but that's just asking for unneeded trouble.



Basicly, you don't need to apologize because you did nothing wrong. You didn't know she had a boyfriend and she didn't mention it.

Just tell him that.

I'm telling you, if she didn't want to talk to you, she would of let you know.

 

[Don_Marko]

By stepping back or apologizing you guys are implying that you have done something wrong. Don't apologize for your desire for that chick and I don't think that the guy should have the power to say who talks to a girl and who doesn't. If she doesn't want you talking to her she'll blow you off... if she doesn't mind then she'll chat simple as that. Besides now that you have out-alpha-ed her BF you can get her digits more easily

 

[GaryNas]

Originally posted by God_of_getting_layed
if some fag was talking to my girl at them gym, and I was there, ID FVCK HIM UP!!!!

Actually, what I would do is wait for him to get my girls number on purpose, just so it would piss me off even more, then I would approach him, and try to make a fight come out of it. When I fvck somoene up, I LIKE BEING REALLY PISSED OFF, it just makes the @ss beating more pleasurous.

If your gf actually gave him your number I think the problem actually lies with you, not him. If she liked you so much why would she want to go out with another guy? That dude is just taking advantage of a crappy relationship.

 

[VictorK]

This exact same thing happened to me except it was at a concert not a gym. As soon as the b/f came from behind and said stop talking to my girl...blah blah blah....i turned to him and said:

"And you must be the boyfriend, we (her and I) were just talking
about you...but now that you're here, I can see for myself"

HIM "leave my girl alone"

ME "well (girls name), it seems my presence is upseting your b/f who is being very insecure and distrusting of your relationship. Nice meeting you" (wink)


Said in a ****y attitude...soon as I walk and leave all confident, she starts fighting with him for being so rude, and comes back and apologizes.

 

[CEF]

Dont apologize, you did nothing wrong and the guy is being a ****. There is also no need to come over the top with insults or wisecracks, this girl is not worth getting into a brawl over. It makes you both look like complete apes and you both lose with the girl and everyone present to witness the situation.

The best thing to do is simply to AMOG him. Smile, say something along the lines of 'Its only conversation but if it bothers you I can stop.' then turn away from the guy, smile at the girl wish her a good workout and be on your way.

You come off as classy, he comes off as a ****. Anything he does to antagonize the situation after that only makes him look like more of an *******. You win.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Originally posted by Mr.Hash wid da Stash
...because you don't know if their BF's are lurking around nearby, as I found out tonight.

I was just finished my set of Dumbell Bench Press and I saw a cute HB8 with a great rack! We locked eyes and I smiled when i got a smile back I figured it was my cue to move in...

We get chit chatting for only about 1 minute when I someone grabs my shoulder and says "Hey mate, that's my girl your trying to chat up and you better back off now before things get messed up for you"

"Take it easy bro, didn't know that was your GF"

"Well she is, now get back to what you were doing, girls come to the gym to excercise not to get chatted up by some strange dude like yourself"

A few heads were turning already so I ejected myself and went straight back to the rest of my workout feeling like a bit of a goofball. A lil' pissed off about this, my first gym approach and this sh!t happens, kinda put me off gym approaches for a bit. It's a shame, so many fine babes there. So yeah, point of the story... that's right, watch your asses.

Don't worry about it - the insecure idiot made a real chump out of himself for all the gym to see.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Originally posted by God_of_getting_layed
Um, I get lots of fine @ss women.

Yeah, I guess that makes me an insecure AFC. you got me all figured out. (sarcasm)

Id say selfish would be a more accurate adjective than insecure, I dont like other guys messing around with my women, plain and simple, call me selfish.

considering the fact that you got a couple hundred posts, I can tell you are a keyboard jockey nerd. You dont get any p*ssy, so that would make you a bonafide pathetic AFC.

Besides, I just love having a reason to stomp queer. Beating peoples asses are fun. Especially if they were trying to pick up on my women.

Ok, there's being a jerk, and then there's being an arsehole. You sound like the latter.

 

[true|hockey]

the fact of the matter is, alot of you guys would likely do the same thing to some guy if he started hitting on your gf at the gym. The gym is for excersising, not getting your game on...there are plenty of other places to try and pick up women. I know plenty of women that hate going t othe gym because of the guys who do fake workouts and hit on women every time they go.

If I was that guy, I probably would not have gotten physically violent , as that can end up in law suits and other unwanted troubles with the local PD. The best thing this guy could have done was to subtily let you know she was his girlfriend.

 

[Seraph]

Originally posted by true|hockey
the fact of the matter is, alot of you guys would likely do the same thing to some guy if he started hitting on your gf at the gym. The gym is for excersising, not getting your game on...there are plenty of other places to try and pick up women. I know plenty of women that hate going t othe gym because of the guys who do fake workouts and hit on women every time they go.

If I was that guy, I probably would not have gotten physically violent , as that can end up in law suits and other unwanted troubles with the local PD. The best thing this guy could have done was to subtily let you know she was his girlfriend.

Well the difference is that this guy was being over protective. If I got the jist of the situation, he was just standing there talking to her. His arm wasn't over her shoulder, he wasn't leaning against a wall standing close to her, he was just having a normal convo. If you get in a huffy over that then you really do need to lay back and relax. It only makes you seem insecure if you have to yell at every guy your girl talks to. And if she is a hot girl, she will have normal convo's with a good number of guys. If you're a real man, she won't go fvcking around on you, won't even feel the need to. If she does, you can just drop her and go for another women that respects you.

And on the subject of what you should do, or could do is simple. Turn around, lock eye contact and calmly say-

" If she didn't want to talk to me, she would have let me know. Its only conversation, but if it bothers you I can stop."

Then, turn around to the girl, smile/ wish her a nice day or workout and continue on doing your own thing.