FwoGiZ
Senior Don Juan
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- Mar 16, 2017
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I became an expert at diffusing aggression... or controlling my anger to a whole other level. Basically, as long as I don't feel threatened, I will not fight back. I.E. here's what happened last weekend.
Walking back from the bar at 3AM, everyone is wasted everywhere. As I am walking down the sidewalk right by the bar, I see this hot young chick I know, crying in some obvious white knight arms. Me being a very ****y person, I say to her this ; "oh hey Sabrina! Looks like you need a hand.... or a D!"
The white knight instantly clocked me around the head but didn't do much damage aka I didn't feel threatened at that point but I totally didn't see that one coming. I was obviously ready for round 2 but didn't raise my fist at that point. I said something such as, "you hit like a *****, why are you attacking me, you're being pretty dumb cause cops are right over there". At that point, he's jumping around, totally out of control and the obvious happens, cops come pick him up, handcuffs him and this is it.
Usually not showing any fear been working pretty good but you gotta quickly assess threat.. don't be a dead hero.
That's definitely my trump card.. haven't been in a real fight in a while but I know I dodged and deescalated so many because of this. When I do end up having to raise my fists, I am usually pretty cool and seems to take the right decisions. I'll have to admit I don't think I could have ever achieved that level of control if not for the fact I've been in harsh war environment (Kandahar) for 13months. When you've been shot at, it makes you realize that an angry chump isn't worth your time.
Basically, I stay out of fights unless my life is threatened, so when I do, there are no rules or honor or whatever. I live or I die is how I see it. I have to neutralize threat at all cost. One time, an old native guy stroke me on the head with an ice scraper (6 stitches) because I kicked his car cause he was being an *******. Next thing you know, he's going for a second hit? Guy obviously lost his mind, attempting murder over a dent in his car? So I quickly disarmed him, and neutralized him by crushing his knee with his own weapon, watched him fall like a dead tree, proceeded to have my blood pour all over the bastard, while giving him a lil speech until cops showed up.
I spent a lot of time learning how to properly do an arm lock which is highly effective if you can do it in 1on1... but never got to use it on a dude but girls yep... If not I would either punch nose, or kick knees.
I wish I had time to learn martial arts and reinforce my body but so far so good! Wisdom and self control helps.
Walking back from the bar at 3AM, everyone is wasted everywhere. As I am walking down the sidewalk right by the bar, I see this hot young chick I know, crying in some obvious white knight arms. Me being a very ****y person, I say to her this ; "oh hey Sabrina! Looks like you need a hand.... or a D!"
The white knight instantly clocked me around the head but didn't do much damage aka I didn't feel threatened at that point but I totally didn't see that one coming. I was obviously ready for round 2 but didn't raise my fist at that point. I said something such as, "you hit like a *****, why are you attacking me, you're being pretty dumb cause cops are right over there". At that point, he's jumping around, totally out of control and the obvious happens, cops come pick him up, handcuffs him and this is it.
Usually not showing any fear been working pretty good but you gotta quickly assess threat.. don't be a dead hero.
That's definitely my trump card.. haven't been in a real fight in a while but I know I dodged and deescalated so many because of this. When I do end up having to raise my fists, I am usually pretty cool and seems to take the right decisions. I'll have to admit I don't think I could have ever achieved that level of control if not for the fact I've been in harsh war environment (Kandahar) for 13months. When you've been shot at, it makes you realize that an angry chump isn't worth your time.
Basically, I stay out of fights unless my life is threatened, so when I do, there are no rules or honor or whatever. I live or I die is how I see it. I have to neutralize threat at all cost. One time, an old native guy stroke me on the head with an ice scraper (6 stitches) because I kicked his car cause he was being an *******. Next thing you know, he's going for a second hit? Guy obviously lost his mind, attempting murder over a dent in his car? So I quickly disarmed him, and neutralized him by crushing his knee with his own weapon, watched him fall like a dead tree, proceeded to have my blood pour all over the bastard, while giving him a lil speech until cops showed up.
I spent a lot of time learning how to properly do an arm lock which is highly effective if you can do it in 1on1... but never got to use it on a dude but girls yep... If not I would either punch nose, or kick knees.
I wish I had time to learn martial arts and reinforce my body but so far so good! Wisdom and self control helps.