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Baseball game for first date?

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Going on a first date with a girl saturday night. Would a baseball game be a good idea? It's the Milwaukee Brewers, so a pretty descent team.

Just not too sure if a baseball game would work that well since it'd be really noisy and might be tough to make a good connection or kino. What do you guys think? I'm thinking that or mini golf...
 

Effington

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As long as she doesn't hate baseball, then sure.

PS, Go Cubbies!
 

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I'm a big fan of sporting events for the first date. You get to chill, drink some beers, watch the game, talk here and there, etc. Not to mention you're outside, and there's more opportunity for interaction than at a movie.
 

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Sounds like a good first date as long as you didn't have to pay for the tickets. I don't believe in spending a ton of money on a chick for a first date. What if you drop a bunch of money then you end up hating each other and you don't get laid? Might as well have flushed that money down the crapper.
 

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This date is a great idea as long as she knows in advance where you are planning to take her, don't spring it on her on the night as she may be dressed up to the nines expecting dinner, dancing, blah blah blah.
It's cool as it's somewhere you wanna go anyway and if she really likes you she'll come along for the ride. Have a good one man.
 

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Dude... I dont suggest it. Why. Because she will be very likely to flake out. Put yourself in her place, she has to be stuck for 3+ hrs next to some guy she barely knows. If she doesn't click with you its gonna feel really akward. This is what goes thru her mind.
That is why all the big PUAs out there advice going for coffee or ice cream for the first date. Something that won't take longer than it should to make a really good first impression on her. If things are going well then you can change locations and hit the mall or movies or minigolf, etc
 

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r0cky said:
Dude... I dont suggest it. Why. Because she will be very likely to flake out. Put yourself in her place, she has to be stuck for 3+ hrs next to some guy she barely knows. If she doesn't click with you its gonna feel really akward. This is what goes thru her mind.
That is why all the big PUAs out there advice going for coffee or ice cream for the first date. Something that won't take longer than it should to make a really good first impression on her. If things are going well then you can change locations and hit the mall or movies or minigolf, etc
I hear what you're saying, I just don't agree with it. Why should he care what she does or doesn't want to do on the first date? It's all about him. She doesn't have an opinion on what they do for at least a month, she's just lucky enough to get to go along. If she wants to hang with him she'll adjust her interests to match his, not the other way around. And if she flakes, her loss. He's probably got people lined up that would want to go.

And if things don't go well or if you're not vibing with her, oh well. Get hammered and boisterous and enjoy yourself.
 
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sandman6991 said:
They're Brewers tickets:p

Which have been sold out for most weekend games. The crew is gonna make a run at the central soon after we get CC...just watch. With Sheets, CC, then Braun, Hart, Hardy, and Fielder, well....

And can't quite get hammered yet if it doesn't work out. 32 days til my 21st. :(

But I did decided against it. Gonna go with mini golf. Besides, I hate going to sporting events with girls who know nothing about sports. I like to watch the games and I hate having to explain it to girls or to entertain them if they're bored. She'll have to show she's worth of going to a brewer game before I take her to one. Thanks for the input though.
 

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Jaxon said:
I hear what you're saying, I just don't agree with it. Why should he care what she does or doesn't want to do on the first date? It's all about him. She doesn't have an opinion on what they do for at least a month, she's just lucky enough to get to go along. If she wants to hang with him she'll adjust her interests to match his, not the other way around. And if she flakes, her loss. He's probably got people lined up that would want to go.

And if things don't go well or if you're not vibing with her, oh well. Get hammered and boisterous and enjoy yourself.
He should care only if he doesn't want another flake. =)
You're making it seem like he's already got the chick hooked on him. No bud thats what the first date is for, he doesn't really have the upper hand if there's no attraction yet!
 
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