flows101
Don Juan
Been working behind a bar for the past 3 weeks and IV got to say it’s probably one of the best jobs in terms of the volume of women you interact with within a short space of time.
For the 1st two weeks of working there I didn’t really get many results because I couldn’t figure out how to CLOSE girls probably with good results while working, then I read something by Pook about eye contact, so decide to look at girls in a “you are very sexy but naughty” way with very slight smile and waited till they broke eye contact, all this I while I was severing them.
If any girl asked a question abut anything other then what they were purchasing, I would chat/flirt for a few mins with them, then would go for the CLOSE no matter what.
By the end of the night I had 5 girls approach me directly loads indirectly, number closed 3 of them and the next day set up 2 day 2s.
Anyway enough about the experiment will try it out some more and maybe expand on this if I discover anything new.
Point of this post is that one of the things IV come to realise is that for guys who work behind a bar and are not getting laid it is simply because they are not CLOSING, the simple act of closing is like 80% of this GAME, plus when working behind bar you have BENEFITS.
1st You don’t have the random guy stigma that is associated with clod approaches.
2nd You are consistently in contact with girls, so you come to realise that there is truly no shortage of hot girls about.
3rd You can watch and study other guys and see where there going wrong and where there going right, meaning you can avoid there stupid mistakes.
I especially advise those who find clubs and bars intimidating to work in a bar/club just for ONE WEEK as it will help fix that thought process
P.S. My closing line is “wow you come across very cool, sexy, whatever. It’s a shame am working behind the bar, I would of loved to of gotten to know you better, unfortunately am not to sure what time I finish work…. (Look as if your thinking deeply for an answer to the problem for a about 2 seconds) look have you got a number I can reach you on? So we can continue this some other time.
(Say something SIMILAR to this with same type of look stated above) Point is to ASSUME she asked to meet up with you after you finished work; you work the close from that angle. Also text girl your number within 30min of getting hers, make text very short.
P.P.S. I think COLD approaching is the BEST most efficient, full proof way to meet women and that this whole bar thing is just good for the experience, and for those who generally have a fear of that kind of environment it will help them get past it.
For the 1st two weeks of working there I didn’t really get many results because I couldn’t figure out how to CLOSE girls probably with good results while working, then I read something by Pook about eye contact, so decide to look at girls in a “you are very sexy but naughty” way with very slight smile and waited till they broke eye contact, all this I while I was severing them.
If any girl asked a question abut anything other then what they were purchasing, I would chat/flirt for a few mins with them, then would go for the CLOSE no matter what.
By the end of the night I had 5 girls approach me directly loads indirectly, number closed 3 of them and the next day set up 2 day 2s.
Anyway enough about the experiment will try it out some more and maybe expand on this if I discover anything new.
Point of this post is that one of the things IV come to realise is that for guys who work behind a bar and are not getting laid it is simply because they are not CLOSING, the simple act of closing is like 80% of this GAME, plus when working behind bar you have BENEFITS.
1st You don’t have the random guy stigma that is associated with clod approaches.
2nd You are consistently in contact with girls, so you come to realise that there is truly no shortage of hot girls about.
3rd You can watch and study other guys and see where there going wrong and where there going right, meaning you can avoid there stupid mistakes.
I especially advise those who find clubs and bars intimidating to work in a bar/club just for ONE WEEK as it will help fix that thought process
P.S. My closing line is “wow you come across very cool, sexy, whatever. It’s a shame am working behind the bar, I would of loved to of gotten to know you better, unfortunately am not to sure what time I finish work…. (Look as if your thinking deeply for an answer to the problem for a about 2 seconds) look have you got a number I can reach you on? So we can continue this some other time.
(Say something SIMILAR to this with same type of look stated above) Point is to ASSUME she asked to meet up with you after you finished work; you work the close from that angle. Also text girl your number within 30min of getting hers, make text very short.
P.P.S. I think COLD approaching is the BEST most efficient, full proof way to meet women and that this whole bar thing is just good for the experience, and for those who generally have a fear of that kind of environment it will help them get past it.
) of the girls in the business are sluts or attention *****s, and a lot of guys can be douche bags... but like i said for a young, single man lookin for adventure, the bar business can be a WILD ride. just from my couple years in the business ive got all kinds of stories for my future grandkids.
