Bar floosies grabbing your jewels...

[Jonnybangbang]

There was a thread posted not too long ago about women doing what they please without suffering some consequences. It may have been backbreaker but i forget. This mostly centered around AFC's allowing them to continue on with this bullsh*t behaviour, thus making it more difficult for us men, with substance, to make them unlearn this nasty habit.

How many of you gentlemen consistently get your ass, wiener grabbed while at a bar/club/event by random gals? How do you react/respond? Do you smile and give in to her feisty act? Do you call all your friends immediately after telling them what happened? Do you appropriate a new level of confidence for the remainder of that night, knowing that youve been prized? Does this sound like you? STOP!

A good buddy of mine (but a horrible wingman) had his balls groped at a bar a week ago by the hottest broad in the bar and immediately placed himself under her spell. He proceeded to chase her around the bar. I didnt stop him because I wanted him to learn something that evening. She literally turned her back towards him after a brief conversation shortly thereafter. He then proclaimed, "I want all of you to know that the hottest chick in the bar grabbed my ****!" Lol.

He was proud to be the victim of an act usually labeled as sexual assault/harassment, if executed on a woman. What if he chose to respond to her act a little differently?

For a while now, if a bar w*ore decides to grab me, I immediately look in her eyes, sternly, and shake my finger, telling her what she did was NOT acceptable. ALSO, dont be afraid to grab their wrist while you educate them.This catches a lot of women by surprise and many apologize right away. They suddenly want to win you over; buying you drinks, introducing you to their friends etc.

Another gutsy but appropriate response is to grab them right back! Again, gazing into their eyes sternly like an animal who's been teased, while doing so. And, then walk away.

I'm seeing too many mistakes in this area and even though it's just a butt/wiener grab, the RIGHT response to this scenario can create a snowball effect putting women in their place in a bigger picture.

 

[backbreaker]

i agree. lol let me just put my hand on a woman's crotch and count the seconds it takes for someone to call the police.

i like for a woman to let it known she wants to be puresued. when a woman reverts to overt behavior to let me know that i shoudl talk to her i don't like that. it is a red flag to me
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once in was in a night club with my GF just chilling on the dance floor and this broad came up to me and started whispering in my ear and started licking my ear lobe. sh ewas pretty cute but that was not the point. that's pretty ****ing disrespectful. i just look at her and shook my head nad walked off.

 

[SecondHalf]

Man, times have changed since I frequented a bar.
Never happened to me.
I think if it happened it would shock me completely.

SH

 

[BMX]

I had a fatty grab my ass in a bar this past winter. She had the nerve to ask me why her hand was on my ass and said it was very nice. I told her "I was hoping you would enlighten me as to why you grabbed my ass." Meanwhile a decent chick who was into me stayed distant and didn't act like that. That proved to me that she was not desperate like the fatty.

 

[timmylivingalie]

As long as they look good I dont care.

 

[Blackmm]

i agree. lol let me just put my hand on a woman's crotch and count the seconds it takes for someone to call the police.

Get ready for the wintery freshness of mace.

 

[AW1983]

As long as they look good I dont care.

Epic Fail man. It's dudes like you who let the HB's get away with murder and contribute to their ridiculous entitlement mentality. Maintain self-respect regardless of whether it's a girl or guy, hot or not.

 

[timmylivingalie]

Epic Fail man. It's dudes like you who let the HB's get away with murder and contribute to their ridiculous entitlement mentality. Maintain self-respect regardless of whether it's a girl or guy, hot or not.

I was just joking. If they do that to me I normaly say something like you have to earn the privelige to do that. Or hands off the merchandise.

 

[Greasy Pig]

I had a HB7 grab my arse a couple of weeks ago.
Not blowing my own trumpet but it's happened a few times over the years so I know how to handle it.
A woman doing that is usually just being a stupid flirty drunk bytch. I used to fall under their spell and think I was definitely "in", but now I immediately up the ante and put them on the back foot.
It's awesome to see them go from confident, too cool alpha-bytch in to a stammering, wide-eyed little schoolgirl.
With this one the other week, the first time she did it I ignored her. The second time she did it I intentionally looked at another girl on the other side of me.
The third time, I looked at her and she's standing there with her straw in her mouth winking at me and I just shook my head.
The fourth time, I looked at her and walked off.
Sure enough, she came over and struck up a conversation. I immediately escalated and said: "Hey, I'm going to another club. You should tag along and come for a drink. I know the club owner and there's a private room we can go to."
Well she flaked almost instantly and started making all these excuses and then "had to go look for a friend".
"Wait here, I'll be back," she said.
I laughed and walked out.
I'm sick of schoolgirl sh1t. I'm sure the next guy she did it to would've bought her drinks all night and got nothing.

 

[Nutz]

I've gotten this forever, ever since I started going to bars & clubs. Usually it's either really young girls, or really older women. The younger ones do it and giggle and run away, but the older ones are creepy as hell and just stare, like they're challenging you to do something about it.

 

[Atom Smasher]

This is what women do in bars nowadays?!?

I've always hated the bar scene and I avoid it, so I haven't been in one (to pick up girls) in ages. This sh!t is MEN's fault, plain and simple. When will we learn to administer punishment for bad behavior. Hardly any man thinks in those terms, yet WE, as men, understand punishment as a result of bad behavior.

 

[SoldMySoul]

I am quite funny about my personal space! I may have seen this once or twice personally, and if I did, it was by someone whom I was with or comfortable with in the first place.

Just like in my younger days, when I would frequent strip clubs, good looking strippers would want to get in my space...I did not like that for a multitude of reasons, but to have your jewels groped does NOT get any more personal than that!

If women do not like being sexually groped and it is illegal, why is it any different for a man? I say it is not! Even if she was hot doing it, I would not approve still.

 

[SharinganUser]

This is a new one. A thread where men complain about getting touched sexually by women on a site that teaches guys how to get more women to touch them sexually. Irony abounds!

 

[backbreaker]

This is a new one. A thread where men complain about get touched sexually by women on a site that teaches guys how to get more women to touch them sexually. Irony abounds!

i mean **** i don't know where that girl's hands/lips/touge has been. actually if she is that brazen i know exactly where it's been and i don't want her spreading her T virus bacteria to me lol.


you know wht would be funny? what if I started to carry around pepper spray and in a clup and a woman grabs my ass or just grabs my **** i turn around and just unload a can of peper spray in her face. you will see the legal double standard take place at that moment beucase they will lock me up

 

[5string]

If some chickie grabs my unit, I hope she'll keep pulling on it till it throws up.

 

[Love's Orphan]

Generally, this is a $hit-test.

Just another attention-wh0re getting a guy to chase her. The way to win is to not play. The guy she cannot get a reaction from, is the guy that fvks her.

Once a girl starts that $hit, throw in a neg and then start qualifying her. But never give her your full attention, because then you will have nothing else of value to give her.

Negging her... Hmm... Like "ooh your hands are rough like a construction worker's" ?

Edit: i thought the jewel grabbing was something someone dared them to do...

 

[Love's Orphan]

Ah.. i see... Removing her from the attention and creating competition anxiety.

 

[yuppaz]

Awesome example of too much game / over analysis. Dude if some chick (that I think is hot) grabs my junk in the bar... you better believe my fingers are going to be inside of her in the next 5 seconds... and my d*ck about 20 minutes later.

 

[AW1983]

Awesome example of too much game / over analysis. Dude if some chick (that I think is hot) grabs my junk in the bar... you better believe my fingers are going to be inside of her in the next 5 seconds... and my d*ck about 20 minutes later.

Well more power to you man, but maintaining my standard of integrity is more important to me than a random nut.

So basically what I'm saying is I'd put her in her damn place, THEN put the fingers inside her...

 

[yuppaz]

Your going to "Put her in her place" for her showing you she wants your **** badly enough to skip all social convention of hiding her sluttitude and grabbing your ****...?

I hope you joking.!?@!?@?@!????

Got to say this is the kind of thing that shows that some of the sosuave group-think is REALLY twisted and strange