I have limited experience with chinese women but it makes me curious. AFAIK western men have high status in Asia which makes it much easier for us.
I've tried tinder setting location in asia and matches i got (with gorgeous women) was crazy compared to europe, confirming this theory. Just the reason that you're "exotic" makes you more attractive and interesting to them i would imagine. If this is not the case then china is different to thailand, phillippines etc.
Phillipines is the easiest country in the world for a white male besides maybe Columbia. I think it's Phillipines though. And the women are very lively acting and easy to deal with unless in a ltr ofcourse. Casual hookups are more socially accepted there too.
China is nothing like that and your average Chinese girl is looking to angle a man for marriage to give over half his assets to her family. That's seriously the tradition and culture here. Also, they tend to move slow on dating and are just robotic and monotonous in general with a few exceptions here and there.....most are highly racists as well regardless of how nice they act. You can definitely still clean up here ofcourse....but to top tier women usually you being foreign is never a plus.
Western exotic factor is counting for less and less each year in tier 1 cities such as Shenzhen.....I always hear stories of how even 10 years ago it was vastly different with the whole exotic factor thing.
Also the fact is, as a foreigner you will always be second pick to a top tier or even mid tier Chinese man...always...no exceptions. Maybe casual affairs with foreigners are very desirable but as far as settling down with someone you can bet she got passed over by all her top choices among the local men. Abd most only date with the initial intention of settling down.
If you are a wealthy good looking foreigner who is fluent in mandarin obviously be your smv is way higher but still because of their family values and brain washing in general that kind of foreigner would be second fiddle to a good looking weathy Chinese man. A lot of girls are even trained by their parents not to date Chinese men from different provinces because of cultural difference s and location. Chinese are just a very serious bunch of people in general.... everything is a big plan with them.
It's funny because most the ones I meet on OLD will say oh, I don't like Chinese man o l like foreigner better..which just means she either got pumped and dumped by her top choices before or just gets ignored by them now.
It's hillarious to listen to some of these delusional foreign men over here....usually drunk Brits...brag about their conquests and talk about how much more alpha and manly they are than the local men...then i ask to the pictures and it's some obvious used up skanky bar slut with tats or just plain trashy looking ....congrats on that leftover garbage man...so much expat trash here it's ridiculous....gives you a bad image by mere association.
