Banged the hottest girl I've ever banged Saturday night

[bukowski_merit]

- Connected with her on MeetMe. Yes! I found her on quite possibly the worst site (statistically) for banging women... ever...).
- She's 18 yo Russian/Rican mix...
- She posted that she was looking for a baseball player to "date". I play baseball. Messaged her... It was really that simple....
- Meet up took work... Lots of excuses... Lots of "my mom won't let me borrow the car" (seriously). Etc. Had to act like I was her boyfriend. She was calling me her man before we ever met each other... She asked me if I was going to take her out for her birthday... Which is August 10th... Etc... YOUNG GIRL SH!T...
- One day she messaged me and said, "if you ever take me out to dinner, will you let me get dessert? because my mom's a b!tch..." I couldn't stop laughing at the "young girlness" of that!
- Friday night she messaged me and said she'd come over if I could find a hot friend for her friend to hangout with too. That we could all 4 hangout then. I told her I'd do no such thing... That the first time we hung out - it had to be me and her only. She said ok.
-Finallly got her in the right state and she came and stayed Saturday night. I asked her for her license just to verify that she's 18. Check! Let's go...
- In person: Near perfect body/face..... Thick shaped tits and @ss, and slim everything else... Was wearing minimal makeup; just effortless sexy...
- Doesn't know her value yet; especially the value of her near perfect body/looks and what it can bring her.

All this stated.... She was the worst fvck ever! EVER!

I could have been fvcking a blow up doll with more gusto than she had...

- She stated after the sex that she doesn't enjoy sex. That she just does it for the guys enjoyment. And she does it for the intimacy (which i took to mean the kissing).
- Said she's never came. I asked "even when playing with yourself?" And she said...... "I've never played with myself; it grosses me out."
- Then basically said she doesn't even like talking about sex and got up and began cleaning my bedroom (sign of guilt for having sex perhaps)...

My guess is some kind of sexual hangup exist in her. The fact she's never played with herself and finds the idea sick - confirms this to me even more. I don't want to guess molestation, because most girls who are molested are 100% freaks because of the damage it does to self-esteem (low self-esteem almost always = freaky in bed.) I'd lean more towards someone early on beating it in her head that enjoying sex as a woman is wrong... Or something along those lines.

But... Regardless of reason...

I'm way too freaky in bed to enjoy much more of this... so...



My basic question is: Has anyone out there ever fvcked a girl who was an absolute bore in bed, but kept fvcking her and "turned her out" eventually? Like, turned her into a freak... Not just fvcked a girl who was reserved and got her to show her real self. But fvcked a girl who wasn't into sex and eventually got her to enjoy the sex....


This is a real first for me... But I don't dip my d!ck in girls as young as this one very often. And when I do, it's normally girls who are already freaks (like most girls are).

 

[backbreaker]

My basic question is: Has anyone out there ever fvcked a girl who was an absolute bore in bed, but kept fvcking her and "turned her out" eventually? Like, turned her into a freak... Not just fvcked a girl who was reserved and got her to show her real self. But fvcked a girl who wasn't into sex and eventually got her to enjoy the sex....


This is a real first for me... But I don't dip my d!ck in girls as young as this one very often. And when I do, it's normally girls who are already freaks (like most girls are).

the girl that brought me to this site, i changed that broad for 6 years and when i fianlly got it i was like "really" I mean.. bottom 3 lay ever. no emotion, no movement, like i should just be happy that i'm having sex with her.

i know she wasn't shy she was just boring. after 3-4 weeks of this **** i said screw tihs i dont' care how much i liked you lol this isn't gonna work

 

[Fatal Jay]

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all girls who hold out on sex, end up being horrible in bed. If a girl is horrible in bed, I always bang once, never give her another chance.

 

[Uncharted]

Has anyone out there ever fvcked a girl who was an absolute bore in bed, but kept fvcking her and "turned her out" eventually? Like, turned her into a freak... Not just fvcked a girl who was reserved and got her to show her real self. But fvcked a girl who wasn't into sex and eventually got her to enjoy the sex....

I gave up after the second time with this one chick. Not interesting enough and I didn't need a project to work on

 

[5string]

When I was a senior in college, I met a 10 who actually had a modeling contract with Fabrege. She was pictured in Cosmo and Elle magazines among others. Drop dead gorgeous.

Fun to look at naked but the worst ever. Hated to do it because she was so hot, but kicked her to the curb.

I'll take a little less on looks in return for some serious enthusiasm.

 

[JoeMarron]

That's a damn shame. So much genetic blessings wasted. Give her her first orgasm and I bet those walls will start coming down real quick.

 

[bukowski_merit]

the girl that brought me to this site, i changed that broad for 6 years and when i fianlly got it i was like "really" I mean.. bottom 3 lay ever. no emotion, no movement, like i should just be happy that i'm having sex with her.

i know she wasn't shy she was just boring. after 3-4 weeks of this **** i said screw tihs i dont' care how much i liked you lol this isn't gonna work

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all girls who hold out on sex, end up being horrible in bed. If a girl is horrible in bed, I always bang once, never give her another chance.

When I was a senior in college, I met a 10 who actually had a modeling contract with Fabrege. She was pictured in Cosmo and Elle magazines among others. Drop dead gorgeous.

Fun to look at naked but the worst ever. Hated to do it because she was so hot, but kicked her to the curb.

I'll take a little less on looks in return for some serious enthusiasm.

Yeah. I think the combined opinion of each of you is becoming more and more my opinion. She's been texting me most of the day about when we're going to hangout next. I think she's extra hooked because i have my own place, job, car... etc. And She's never been with a guy with all that (she's dated older men, just none that had their sh!t half way together.)

I'm barely responding to her. ... I guess this will start her down her path towards bitterness towards men! haha...

I gave up after the second time with this one chick. Not interesting enough and I didn't need a project to work on

Yeah, i defintely feel like this is a project, and if I thought I could turn her into a freak in say... a month... I might be willing to work on that project because the payoff would be tremendous. But, I honestly don't even know what would work. I think most things I do to get women to open up more would most likely freak this girl out... Like talking to them in bed... Being extra rough... Etc.

I've given thought to pulling back completely - and when she asks what's wrong, just telling her she's not "bad girl" enough for me... not freaky enough... This might make her at least "act" more wild in bed.... and acting is better than being a dead fish lol...

That's a damn shame. So much genetic blessings wasted. Give her her first orgasm and I bet those walls will start coming down real quick.

I really didn't know ahead of time that she'd never orgasmed before. Didn't touch herself. Wasn't into sex.

If i had known - I would have done things differently. Def starting with a lot more tension/teasing/etc. If she can just get 1... I'm positive she'll open up more. They all do. But... I don't know if i want to be the one to put in that much effort.

 

[5string]

Maybe get a few martinis in her and tear it up one more time and see what happens. What the heck.

 

[pdx1138]

so try getting her more hot the next time! good job!

 

[plate's_empty]

I had a chick like this, took for ever to give it up, and when she did, it was just to get it over with. She loved the kissing and dry humping and all that but when it came to sex she was horrible. She would just lay there waiting for it to end. She was older than me and had been married before too....it didn't make any sense.

I had to kick that one to the curb as well because of this, she was hot too and we got along amazingly well. She just didn't get it, even after having sex with her that one time she thought it was perfectly ok to come over, give me blue balls, then leave. Horrible.

I think my chick, because she was experienced was a hopeless case. Your girl on the other hand there may be some hope. I'm thinking she just hasn't found what turns her on yet. I'd try different things, maybe she's got an unrealized fetish or some kinkyness to her that needs to be discovered.

Otherwise, since she's a beauty, you could have her around for validation. Bring her to a restaurant where you're trying to bang the bartender. Bring her to your work party Stuff like that.

That's what I'd do.

 

[Zarky]

Nice report OP. Young girls are awful in bed, hot girls are awful in bed, I can only imagine how awful a young, hot girl would be in bed.

I think the only "solution" to that is: let her age.

most girls who are molested are 100% freaks because of the damage it does to self-esteem

From what I've seen I'd have to disagree with this. Let's face it, until the late 20th century they used to marry girls off in their early teens and you don't hear widespread reports of women with "low self esteem" from the beginning of human existence until then.

However, I think that molestation simply introduces them to sex at a very early age; it becomes no big deal to them before the average guy has even lost his viginity; and so they become "freaks" compared to the guys they later have sex with as adults.

So if you meet an 18 year old who is awful and frigid in bed, chances are she was NOT molested. Whereas if you meet an 18 year old doing ass-to-mouth and letting multiple guys blow loads down her throat, chances are she WAS molested.

 

[5string]

IMO this girl a sexual abuse victim.

I'm dating a 7.5 now who is amazing in bed but yeah I'd prob rather sleep w/ a 10. Sex is more visual than physical for me.

You just might be right. Who would tend to be more sexually abused, a real hot chick or one not nearly as hot. Think about it.

 

[bukowski_merit]

On her being sexually abused: I have given it more thought and you guys could be right. I wholeheartedly stick by my statement that being sexually abused (truly sexually abused) will damage a woman's self-esteem, and low-self esteem is a trait almost all hardcore freaks have. But, I remember some talks with these women from my past (who i knew to have been abused) and remember them talking about how when they were younger they hated sex....

Well, this girl is younger. So who knows? She could be in that period where she hates sex (it could have been recent as well; but if she's never touched herself - probably not).


As far as looks being more important than freakyness to some: I canh understand that. I need a little of both. Not a lot of one and none of the other. I like at least a little talking, at least a decent amount of roughness, and most of all - I like for the woman to be enjoying it and acting like she was built to fvck. I also need to be attracted to her...

Without these things - I either won't be able to bust, won't be able to get hard, or won't enjoy the sex in the end.


As far as marathon sex: I used to love that stuff. And I'd get annoyed if a woman was "finished" after 30-40 minutes. I can't really explain why. I was just into it; and I guess I got a lot of value out of trying to break a woman. And getting ego boasts from women telling me how amazing I was.

Now... I can't be bothered with that. I give 15-30 minutes, and that's about as much as I care to give.


As far as this girl: I wasn't really responding to her text messages yesturday so she called me. I answered, and we talked about 10 minutes. I tell her - I think she needs more experience.... That i like women that enjoy sex.... Etc. She said "what do you want me to do? act like i enjoy it even if i don't." And i said.... "yeah..." haha.... she said she would try....


So, I might see her one more time and see if there's any improvement. If not - i'm done trying.... She's pretty annoying overall as well. Says way too much young girl stuff and write her words like "thiiiiissssss". And is now asking me to come pick her up instead of her borrowing her moms car and stuff like that (which im not going to do because she doesn't live close at all). Will report back if anything changes.... So don't expect another report.

 

[plate's_empty]

Says way too much young girl stuff and write her words like "thiiiiissssss". And is now asking me to come pick her up instead of her borrowing her moms car and stuff like that (which im not going to do because she doesn't live close at all).

^^^Minor issues, can easily be handled.

she said she would try....

^^^Yes, a project. Seems like it could be a fun one.

I'd at least put in some effort. I don't know about you guys, but I'm not knee deep in 18 year old HB10 pu$$y.



I'm guessing she hasn't had anyone who's honestly put in work doing the proper sexual build up. If you can make it enjoyable for her, make it so she wants it.....from you, because you do it right....


It seems like you know what you're doing but I'm going to say how'd I'd try to crack this one:

Plan a day to hang out. A day when nothing's really going on, where you both have the whole day open. After she comes over tell her you're not really interested in having sex. That it's not that big of a deal for you. Take the pressure off. Then begin an all day tease, build up.

Do all of the normal stuff, make out with her lightly, little hair pulling, light kisses....kneck and shoulders, light brush of your hand on boobs, inside her thighs. Light touches. Then stop. Wait till she cools down, then go again. Light. Turn your cheek when she goes in for a kiss.

Take a break, go to lunch, go for a walk. Keep the pressure off, let her marinate. If she brings up not being able to have and orgasm again respond by saying it's okay, it doesn't bother you. Then go again.

Try different things, see if something sparks. Has she been spanked? Take control, see how she reacts to it. Let her get on top. Light kisses erogenous zones. Try different things, but don't go all the way even if she says she's ready. Tease more, get her going... Make it so finally she has no other option than to rip your clothes off....



You may have a similar strategy but this is what works for me.

 

[JoeMarron]

I agree with plate's empty. There are far worse things you could be doing with your life than bringing the freak out of a young hot chick. Lol think of this as your service to your fellow man, your good deed for the year. Her next man will greatly appreciate it.