?badly dissed by g/f?

wvpimp00

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me and my girlfriend have been dating for one month but friends for like 10..

well i left her as a friend like 2 months ago and refused to talk to her because she disrespected me badly and just blew me off badly and well she wrote me notes saying she had changed and took me places os we became frineds again but we started dating one month ago, well thing went good for 2 weeks until one day we went walking and i guess she must have been pretty horny and we went back to her house and she trying to get me ot eat her.. i told her No... well we hugged and said good bye at the end of that day..
teh next day it all started, she started ignoring me and not calling and making excuses so we coudlnt be together..and well it went on for 2 weeks now..
We talked online last night at like 6 so we coudl talk about what was going on between us and for me i was wanting to knwo why she didnt want to be around me.. she told me it was because before we hung out a lot because she was happy to have me back and now it had changed since she had me back.. and thats why we werent hanging out that much anymore..
well i then told her I wanted ot come see her and she started making excuses about having ot clean some old ladys house and they were going to her frineds house and it was an hour away and when I aksed if i coudl come see her at her house for just a few she asked me how sure I was ..etc.. being a smart ass, so finally when she said again that it was an hour awya and i woudl get lost if I came to see her i said :"your right, its a waste of my time"... she then said FU and logged off..
what woudl you gusy do if you were me?
and i am thinking about breaking up with her, how can I do it in a big way since she always blows me off when she wants and treats me liek dirt>? and always has, but i guess she thinks shes cool since she has thsi new frined and she said ot me last night, if you had friends maybe you coudl go do stuff too, i pushed alll my frineds away for her.. stupid huh?
any help is appreciated... and thank you!
 

wvpimp00

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come on guys help me out, this is a really sticky situation..
I want to dump this girl so she see's what she's realy doing then at the same time Im afriad ot break it off because what if I dont want to go back to her or she dont want to come bakc ot me? but last night she said it'll be harder this time for me to come back, i didnt come bakc the last time she kissed my ass ot get me back by taking me fishing..etc...
 

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Sounds too fishy bud. She drops you because you didn't want to eat her out? I've never had a girl tell me to eat her out. If you got something in return why not?? Anyways it sounds like she is giving you the boot. I'd say just walk away from this situation because it's added drama to your life and you'll probably just get hurt more in the process. Or maybe you could call her up in a week and be really horny and go after her. It might work, you never know. I'd try and hook up for a face to face in a week. Enough time to cool down the emotions.
 

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my suggestion is to just walk away. And yes it was a bad idea to push your friends away from her. You need to have a life outside of her. Pushing your friends away for her sounds AFC to me. Get away from the situation and start hanging out with friends again and having fun.
 

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yeah i do need to walk away, we have been frineds for liek 10 months and its been an off and on situation with her, one week she loves me ot death and teh next she wont call or even bother with me like she has been doing now for 2 weeks..
she said she has stayed away from me because she has issues with herself and she cant talk ot me but she can go to amusement parks and boating and drinking with her frineds.. lol, yep sounds fishy to me too..

she told me she still likes me, in a way i believe it and in more than one way I dont because she's wishy washy and a spurt of the moment type of person.. i knwo if i walk away now she will call me crying and begging me ot come back, before she cried when we were in school together because I woudlnt talk ot her, well she did this game crap then too so thats hwy i ignored her..

what is a goood way to go out with a bang? liek brake up with her? she has treated me liek crap and she curses me and i need a little revenge for the pain shes been for the past 2 months..

Thanks guys...
 

LouieVaton Don

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Fall Back!

Im not sure your even aware of whats happening, you put this chicks interests before even your own. Even by still thinking about her, your wasting time you could be spending on yourself.

Also you dont need to get revenge, you just need to lay low until you cool off to look at things objectively.


Isn't funny how the chicks wit issues tell you they have issues yet we still bother with them.
 
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