Bad experience last night...

[Befuddled]

So, the new semester is just about to begin and everyones just meetiing everyone else. I had absolutely no intention of hooking up with anyone. Just wanted to get to know ppl since it's the begining of semester.

So anywho, i do the usual thing introduce myself, and vice versa, some ppl were/are great others kinda flaky. Totally understandable, not everyone is outgoing.

So we all descided to goto the bars and i went along. Along the war i introduced myself to this european chick and turns out we grew up in the same town which is friggon weird. But i wasnt looking to get anywhere with her just kinda surprised, so we made friendly conversation to the bar and back for about 20 minutes. So at the bar i was talking to a group of girls mostly new ones, and just joking around...i kept trying to get her to get another drink but she wouldnt. not a big deal, but i think i was a bit too persistent on that drink...just being funny/friendly.

The next day she comes over (not to see me), i didnt get any good vibe from her, but i thought she was preety hot(kinda stuck up as well). We were going to another bar, and i didnt reaaly know if she was coming or not, didnt really bother me. So she had a smoke with my roomies while i was cooking food. there were probably 6-8 ppl in the apartment. So she was walking out the door, i said "See you later"... she replied "I dont think so"(preety loud). i was just stunned !! lol. i think that was preety hard considering i wasnt even flirting or anything. The other ppl at the place were preety shocked as well .... so i said "what ?" she said "never mind" and left. it was friggon cold.

Then this other dude who was in the apartment at the same time was telling everyon i got shot down... i was like greeaaatttt nice first impressions. On the way back from the bar, this chick started ragging on me too... i hardly even talked to her and she was taking cheap shots at me as well. like...oh you got shot down today and oh you dont even have an arse...being preety friggon rude..... just not my day/night.

I'm feeling kinda depressed and not motivated..... any of you been through anythign similar ?

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

HAHAHAHAHA,

Dude you have to laugh at this shyt..don't be so serious!

You got stunned by a hor, this is a good experience for you...this is only the beginning, the shyt gets worst LOL!

Hors do this all the time. You have to have some quick responses prepared to throw back at them...there is a thread on this. Anybody recall the name?

Be prepared DJ, be prepared!

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Why do you bother if a girl is like this? Just throw the comments back like a tennis ball.... Don't let her walk over you...


Please PRL, stop calling girls for hors they aren't...

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Kinetic, I beg to differ.

I don't have to see a hors panties wrapped around her neck to know that she is a hor! I look at her mindset - yes the 'hor mindset' - I wrote a post on it in the thread "women's sexual past" by mystery woman.

Read it - this chick has that mindset - as a woman thinketh in her heart, so is she! I'm speaking from 25 years of experience (since 16). How old are you?

Dj befuddled did nothing to deserve such retaliation and public rebuke from this ho, and she lashed out at him. WHY? Because she has the huaghty hor mindset, and she did this before to other men. You don't think this was her first time speaking so disrespoectfully to a man, do you? Let alone in a man's home in front of his friends and other strangers. What is their image of him now? He is a freaking stalker is what they are thinking and a low-life for harassing a hor.

This was a classic case of what I've been talking about the last 3 months, unless dj befuddled is not telling us the whole story!

 

[Befuddled]

whole story ? hmmm..... that was about it. i didnt know her too well, couldnt even pronounce her name. i dont know if she was being funny or a *****. i wasnt even paying that much attention....was more worried about burning my arm . But yeah i was just stunned. My guy friends were like yeah , you should have told her to **** off, or i got 'shot down'. i agree i probably did. Bu tat the bar i was talking to all the women as much as i was with her. maybe a bit more to her cause we grew up in the same hometown.

I was probably being a ittle rude trying to get her to join in on a beer with the rest of us at the bar cause all she did was just sit there and pout.
And oh.... another girl i knew pointed out that we were all going to the bar on the night of the comment and she wasnt coming, so she probably could have meant that she wasnt going to bet here.

But im taking it as a total shot down right now. And yeah personally i didint and dont care much about her to begin with. I was just annoyed that other ppl heard it. I talked to her roommate whos been a buddy for a good 6 months and he told me that shes preety stuck up and flaky....dont get me wrong, i knew this girl had 'hoe' tattoed all over her, just from the way she dresses, but in the spirit of a new semester and lots of new ppl i was just being friendly to everyone, and wasnt treating her special in any way at all.

Feedback ? and yeah it is a bit funny...wasnt funny yesterday though ....

 

[Shot Callin]

Originally posted by Befuddled


And oh.... another girl i knew pointed out that we were all going to the bar on the night of the comment and she wasnt coming, so she probably could have meant that she wasnt going to bet here.

You know that could be the answer. She is european... how good is her english? Maybe she thought you were expecting to see her at the bar later, and she just meant "no, I won't be there"

But if she didn't, I would have told her to fvck off and laughed really loudly to turn the tables on her.

 

[Befuddled]

I'm taking it as a shot down, cause after the initial stun of a reply other than 'cya'/'later'/'bye' to 'cya laer', it felt like a shot down. A friend in the room told me he thought the same so im going with that. Dosent really matter cause i knew from the very begining that she had a shyte personality, i was just trying to be friendly just like with everyone, if she thinks shes a princess then she needs to get a dose of reality.i happen to know tonns of more ppl than her. i really dont care for her, was just pissed that it was so public, with ppl i didnt know.

We all went out to the bar today as well. she was there.... didnt say a word to each other at all. i didnt even notice her all that much. I managed to meet every other girl there, which was like 3-4 aquaintances from the previous night(strawberry blondes with great personalities) and 5-6 new girls. And a lot of new drinking buddies, while she sat in the corner and waited for ppl to come upto her and talk to her. I had a great time while she just sat in one spot.I played a game of ppol with a couple of buddies, and i think she played the next game just to act as though she was having a good time. i didnt really pay any attention to her....was having much better time with other ppl.

oh well

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Befuddled,

You have a lose/lose situation here -

1.If you approach her and tell her that you didn't appreciate her outburst the other night, she might go spastic and make another scene.

2. If you say nothing then it seems you don't have a baclbone to stand up against a hor.

However, option two is best because you don't care what a hor thinks of you anyway!! But this may happen again, either with her or another hor, so be prepared to have her clarify what the hell she is talking about and put her in her place and make them look silly!

Anyway you see it, she'll pay for her snide remark and hor attitude by the alienation she'll receive from your friends and her group of friends. Eventually this bad attitude only hurts her and diminshes her esteem with those who know her best...the best action may be no action on your part. She shot her ownself in the mouth!

But make sure your friends and those who know you know what really happened, just to clear the air. Also make sure that they (those you personally know) tell anybody else that was there (those you personalyl don't know) what went down, so that they do not think badly of you. If you care to do this.

 

[AMF]

Originally posted by Befuddled
So, the new semester is just about to begin and everyones just meetiing everyone else. I had absolutely no intention of hooking up with anyone. Just wanted to get to know ppl since it's the begining of semester.

Ok ok, so its start of a new semester, youre surrounded by new chicks, and your on an internet forum askin for help! It tells a tale dude

Go fetch that ass

 

[Befuddled]

HAHAH true dat.

No i really have been going out almost every other night and already have a few prospects. PRL, thanks for your reply, even i didnt think that deep/far into it as you did.

Yeah it was humiliating, and a bit of an ego diminisher for me, but most of all it was just a surprise. I didnt really want to get it on with this chick at all anyway. But yeah the ppl in the room (all but one) were/are 'on my side' and i told my posse' (the popular ones) what went down, and they just laughed and brushed it off and just agreed with me that she does seem like a hor and very stuck up (some of my close friends are house mates with her, and they feel the same way.

I dont run into her often and if i do i just dont initiate anything really, just go about what im doing. People do think shes rude, and no one really likes her, and they know what went down. But it's nots omething to be spreading around, im sure her 'type' will form a group, and it dosent really bother me all that much anymore. im getting on with it.

But seriously guys.... what a way to get 'shot down' eh. that was like the least expected time too, since i wasnt even trying anything to get shot down on. hehehe... i mean, whod have thunk that saying 'cya later' to a girl would end up in a shot down. lol.... a couple of days later and it does seem funny.

 

[coldcoal]

Yeah, it's funny. Sucks too. But being snappy with responses definately helps!

Want to talk about shocking/embarrasing? I was at this party once, drinking quite a bit, and a woman showed up that had an ongoing thing for me. Well I got pretty lit up that night and ended up in one of the bedrooms with her as the party continued on.

We were getting all into it, stripped each other down, she rolled me on my back and straddled me and then zZzZzZ..I fell asleep on her! The next day it seemed like EVERYONE heard about it.

Anyway, a big group of us got together later that night and there she was. So I throw her an exaggerated seduction look and she gave me the finger. Ouch. OoOo..said the group. So I said, "You wish", and she said, "I don't have too."
OOOOOH!!! said the group. I was on the edge of utter defeat, but came back with, "Oh! That's right! Getting them into bed isn't your problem, your problem is KEEPING THEM AWAKE!"

"OOOOOOOOOOH!!!!!! HAR HAR HAR!!!!!!! NICE ONE DUDE!!!!!!"

 

[Omega]

Yea, getting shot down sucks. Just whipe her off your windshield like you would rain, cause she's nothing more then an annoyance when your driving down a city road at 60 mph.

Although outside the car of DJ'ism, it's funny to watch them actually fly past and smack into the ground like rain. It's an ongoing cycle, like life. Stay on top of it all, litrally.

 

[Befuddled]

HAH !!! we all went to the clubs tonight and well... i had my posse' with me, and we were out to have a great night. she was there. at the entrance i noticed a looser trying to get her past the bouncers , which didnt happen. we all got in and me n my buds were dancing wth a large group or girls n tearing up the floor. it was awesome. then she tries to attract my attention by trying to dance near me n grind n ****, but i just totally look past her n dance with every other girl.... it was amazing. n im going to bed.....im wasted

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Befuddled - I've encountered the same attitude before - this woman has made herself look like a complete idiot and she knows it. Don't even bother with her, even as a friend/acquaintence.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

She was probably expecting you to come up to her and say, "what's wrong?" "Is there something I said or did that made you upset?". Since you didn't wimp out, she respects you more and wants your attention. Avoid her before she purposes embarasses you again, by setting you up and then shooting you down!

 

[Befuddled]

hehe... guys guys guys. i'm not a beginner anymore. i just totally looked past her last night. i had my pick last night... quite possiblydanced and talked with a dozen girls sans this one. and yeah, the first time i got shot down, it was her fault. if i set myself up for another shot, i can only blame myself.

Cheers.