Backbreakers DJ Apptitude Test

[CHICAGO27]

Answers:

C. This is a flag! It could be the first flag. It really depends on her state. I mean, if she is still buying YOU gifts and putting effort into your relationship you are still in a good place. I would count this as strike one. I would be a bit more guarded. If she continues shifty behavior I would end it.

D. Play it off and move on. Have fun! She failed your test!

B. Tell her to go home. You need to firm and establish rules. If you become weak you set a precident for the rest of your relationship. Sex so many times clouds our judgements. Stick to your guns.

A. Respect. Hold women accountable for their actions. If they don't hold up to their end of the bargain they are not worth your time. Even small things like this can lead to deluges of disrespect. Always respect yourself and women will respect you.

5. Like Rollo said, once you move in with a woman you lose all privacy and control. I made the mistake to move in with one of my ex girlfriends. Forget about your sex life. Forget about having your own time. Expect her to go through your stuff, your cell phone, your laptop. You can forget about looking at porn as well. You become a caged animal. You become married! Keep your finances and living situations separate before marriage. You can still spend time with her on your terms. Living together should be an ultimate reward for her.

 

[synergy1]

Everyone is playing, I might as well too.

1. None of the above. Switching roles, I never knew my girlfriends size, and even goofed on her bday gift. Didn't mean I was sleeping around, or even interested in doing so. I just messed up her size. She returned it and got one one size larger ( from very small to small), and she loved it.

now if she continued to **** up stuff in our relationship like forget I was lactose intolerant, and didn't seem to care, I would start paying attention. One mistake is NOT worth flying off the handle over.


2. (D) we aren't in a relationship and she can do what she wants. This also means I can do what I want, and if that happens to be another chick...than so be it. I wouldn't be 'nice', but I wouldn't be an ******* either.



3. (A), but I would go to bed early anyway. She would likely complain I am no fun, but than I would tell her she knew the score.

4. What a dumb girl. If it was my girlfriend, she would need a time out. If it wasn't, I wouldn't even waste my time. Disrespecting my time is the quickest way to the indifference list.


5. Don't need a paragraph. It comes down to you losing your freedom. What happens if she gets board, and sleeps around ( or the other way around). Feelings are going to get hurt, plain and simple. compounded with payments and money, it could be a really bad situation really fast. Some couples might have the maturity to live together for indefinite periods of time, but most don't...present company included.

Its a rough place out there right now, and putting ones self in a precarious situation at the whim of someone elses issues is a way to make **** go from bad to worse...
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[backbreaker]

it was just for kicks guys lol. calm down

fyi, every last even has happened to me which is where i got the questions from


1. thought nothing of it. i assumed it was an honest mistake and i to this day believe it was. my dad and i by clothes for each other all the time and sometimes i forget what size he wears, and he's the same size as me lol

2. i went to the club one night after leaving chili's to find the girl i was macking quite hard all up on some other dude. at first, i did get kinda hot truth be told, but then i said you know what, let's be real, if i ran into another girl i wanted to talk to, i'm going to talk to her. we aren't dating, she'st here to have a good time and so am I, so that's what I did. she spend that night and the next few days trying to explain what happened, then, when i showed, i really didn't give a damn, she wanted to know why i did not give a damn lol. drove her crazy.

3. dont' let her in. say what you mean and mean what you say. if i'm not dating you, i can have a woman starch naked in my living room covered in honey and it's none of your damn business. that was not the case, while i was sleeping with other women, in this instance, i really did just need to get to sleep. i had no one over. I did not want to set the precident for her to think that i half ass mean what I say, so I told her to turn her pretty ass around and go home.

(this is the same girl as the club girl btw). to this day she still thinks i was ****ing someone else. i let her think that, even though i wasn't. I told her once, i wasn't, i told her my rationale for doing what i did, she never should have came anyway


4. bye.


5. I think it's a case by case senerio. I personally do not have a probem living with a woman before you are married. my dad has done it 3 times and my dad is the biggest pimp on earth, ****s just as many women when living with a woman then when he's not. so i never equated living with a woman - game over. dad lived iwth his current wife, what..4 years before they got hitched.

the mistake that men make, is that, they move in and become financially intertwined to that woman. imho, its' not the move in that kills you, its' not being able to move out when you damn well want to that gets you. i dont' have that prob elm becuase this is my place, but for instance, my dad those 4 years, he made sure he had a backup plan where he could leave somewhere if he wanted. he owned a house for 2 of them, that he just did not live in. they got in a spat, he'd just go home.

imho, it's not the living with that makes you unfree, it's not having the ability to leave on a moments notice. I've lived with my current GF for what...a little over 2 years. we have sex quite often, actually got a nice hummer this morning lol. it's too simplistic to think that once you move in a woman just doesn't want to **** you anymore, if that is the case what is the point of getting married.

yes you give up some of your privacy, and the ability to **** other woman at a moments notice, but that's a conscious decision i made when i let her move in with me in the first place so that's a moot point.

the only downside i see to it, let's say, i go to starbucks tomorrow and see her tounge tied with some guy. ovbiously it's over. but, the schematics of kicking her out, are easier said than done.

the last girl i let live iwth me, that is basically what happened, except it was a club. i put all her **** in a bag and put it outside and had the locks changed. that was that. this woman however is the mother of my son, i'm not going to do her like that, but she would have to GTFO if something like that were to happen

The key to me, is staying deserible in general to the opposite sex. AS long as you are able to attract attention from other women, your woman will be in line, rather you live with her or not. The second she KNOWS that she is your only POSSIBLE source for sex, the game is over. Every relationship I had that i screwed up, that, was the turning point. not becuase i got fat or got ugly becuase i got too clingy. I learned form my mistakes. I'm crazy about my girl but i still go out, i still work out, i still dress the way I want, i do things I want.

 

[SoldMySoul]

and finally............ THE AUTHOR SPEAKS!!!

 

[Warrior74]

BB. No chic is above being put on the curb. Seriously. Its just less painful that way. Put her on the curb, charge her with abandonment, get full custody and then if she's good, give her shared custody. Its easier than you getting dragged through the misandrist court system bs. Preemptive strike for the win. Wish I would have done that.

 

[SoldMySoul]

Preemptive strike for the win.

You my friend are totally obsessed with "the win" and who can blame ya!!! In it to win it!!!!!!!!!!!