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[GQzSwagStarFamous]

i been trying to deny it but its true i fell off. Since me and my ex broke up its been a struggle for ladies and i have been only sucessful with way less than what i deserve. I dont know what happened its like i lost all my charm game mojo everything. I cant build attraction, I cant set up dates nor get chicks to spend time with me, i cant get chicks to want me to show enough interest. To make matters worst i have to put up with an arrogant roomate who out shined me in tripple the time it took me to make friends around here and im sitting back watching my friends have all the sucess and feeling sorry for me ...its so bad that they are trying to set me up with people ...i need to bounce back im desperate for my game ...i feel like i have caveman game in the yr 2032 tokyo so outdated

can someone tell me how to build attraction with out story telling and tension loops and push and pull?

and how can i get girls to crave me to want to feen to spend time with me?

 

[rick92f]

You suffer from the most evil of diseases.

CAN'T


What you can do is go out and do all of the things that you enjoy doing without women. Truly stop giving a rip about them. As soon as your act of not caring genuinely turns into not caring, the flood gates of quiff will open. To maintain the flow, continue to not worry about them and they will keep coming. When a woman leaves you, she takes your shackles with her. Be free my brother.

 

[DaveHart]

okay quick tips for you to get back up on your feet, I'll give a short step by step:

Open- do this however you feel comfortable... doesnt much matter. direct, opinion, situational, whatever.

questions and statements- now you want to ask her question and make statements yourself about things that interest you. The goal here is to hit a common interest, so talking to her about things that do not interest you is utterly useless at this point.

Be observant, most of the time you can find your common interest by looking and a couple questions or statements. whats she wearing? whats she doing? whats she buying? whats she drinking? whats she reading? Any and all of these things can lead you toward a common interest.

Then you use that interest to build a bridge to a day 2. You suggest something involving the interest thats non-invasive and you set the day 2.

THEN you get the number. Do it this way and watch your #close % go way up and your flake % go way down.

do that and you should be able to start getting day 2's again every weekend (if you want)... getting out with girls who already are interested, so you can move it on up the ladder.

That would be my suggestion to get you going again.

 

[kingsam]

i have been only sucessful with way less than what i deserve.

haha
yeh right im sure every guy gets less than he "deserves" (whatever!), you only deserve what you put in....(most guys whilst they think they deserve to get laid DONT deserve to as they are useless idiots)

dude you need to go and see a thereapist! thats how you are going to get rid of these really bad negative views you have and can give you some self esteem, and confidence back.

 

[Ease]

Single life is up and down, you are experiencing a down.

 

[GQzSwagStarFamous]

thanks guys im just going to stop caring