B!tches

[Rebound Material]

First off, if just like to say a little something about myself:

If you were to have first met me, you could have sworn that I got alot of chicks, slept around, had many past GF's, or basically really good with the ladies aka "pimp". I don't say this from my own opinion. These are opinions I got from people voluntarily and involuntarily...

Thats just the impression I make on people and thats just me acting LIKE ME. No faking, no acting, no BS. I wish all of the above were TRUE.

Now on the reals, I still hold the V-card, have never had a GF, and had only gone as far as making out and feeling eachother up through clothes.

Ill get get down to my point now: My new years resolution this year was to finally lose my V-card or at least be dating a chick. But naw...all the b!tches I met this year were either teases, or just straight up naturally flirty(or both). I met no chick REAL this year and it pisses me off because Ive been an SS user for almost a year, and since then ive been applying a good majority of the techniques(kino, CandF) to almost every b!tch I met. Just to add, im 21 years old...why are b!tches at this age so fcukin whack?!

Im proud to admit that Ive improved alot as a person ever since Ive used this site and im no longer that needy little pvssy ass AFC b!tch that I used to be yet, Im still not pulling b!tches...not even for an FB or an ONS...

It really is dissapointing...

So, to conclude this rant/b!tching, I just have a great feeling that Im about to fcuk up my most important new years resolution.

 

[DonDan]

Damn man, you need to build up A LOT of confidence for yourself.. Are you sure you're not just trying too hard?? Or following the "DJ" rules up the ass? I mean getting girls is really not that hard.... just relax, have fun and show her a good time while being very confident and also be sexual... Im sure there are a ton of parties in california u could go to and hook up with girls / lay them... anyways... The one advice i would give you, if you're still STUCK at this position after being on sosuave this long postin threads etc etc... and still a virgin...

I would turn off my computer, never go back to sosuave AGAIN, and just get yourself out there in the world like a new experience and just enjoy it ... ull get things done a lot faster.... and u will learn to stand on your own ..

 

[Rebound Material]

Damn man, you need to build up A LOT of confidence for yourself.. Are you sure you're not just trying too hard?? Or following the "DJ" rules up the ass? I mean getting girls is really not that hard.... just relax, have fun and show her a good time while being very confident and also be sexual... Im sure there are a ton of parties in california u could go to and hook up with girls / lay them... anyways... The one advice i would give you, if you're still STUCK at this position after being on sosuave this long postin threads etc etc... and still a virgin...

I would turn off my computer, never go back to sosuave AGAIN, and just get yourself out there in the world like a new experience and just enjoy it ... ull get things done a lot faster.... and u will learn to stand on your own ..

I got a good amount of confidence...actually, it almost comes off as arrogance. Im pretty sure that Im just trying too hard. hahaha, I just realized that I made this thread intoxicated.

 

[driveon]

I got a good amount of confidence...actually, it almost comes off as arrogance. Im pretty sure that Im just trying too hard. hahaha, I just realized that I made this thread intoxicated.

From that post, it sounds like you're angry at women on some level. Maybe you resent them for not giving you sex. My advice is to explore that and resolve whatever is triggering that anger. Learning how to get women is like learning math or anything else, it's impossible if you're just pissed off at it. It's better if you're not taking it personally, and instead, using your energy and time to find better ways of getting what you want.

Answer some questions.

What is the positive intention behind my anger towards women?

Is it to avoid feeling bad about myself when I'm rejected? If not then what else could it be?

How can I avoid feeling bad about myself when Im rejected without getting angry at women?

Once you find a way; is it better than being angry? How so?



I think the best PUAs/Djs know how to answer this question.
How do I love all women and get them to pursue sex from me?

 

[JPFromTally]

I am in sales. When I first started selling I never met quota. I would blame the market, the customers, my boss or anybody that wasn't me. I would say the market isn't right, people aren't buying, they are cheap.

Then I took some sales courses and learned from great salespeople. Now I'm able to always be above quota. Did the market or the customers change? No, I'm just able to close the deals more often.

 

[DonDan]

Rebound, if you give people the idea by your "look" that you would have banged millions of girls and ur a pimp etc etc etc... Maybe its best not to follow the DJ rules anymore... or worrying about when to call and how long to talk for etc etc and negging and ****y and funny... you know? maybe thats whats killing you...

so try being a complete afc for once, be very sweet with a girl and compliment her and by her a thing or two.... haha.. see how that works out.... cus she might take it really well and open her legs to you...

 

[TONYMONTANA523]

I dont know why everyone follows these DJ rules to the heart I aint sayin tell them you love them on the first date but you can be sweet, nice, better yet be a gentleman and youll be cool.

 

[Themanthatcan]

"Knowing the path and walking it are two different things".My advice to you:Screw this site.This is more of a fallback sorta thing anyway.Just read most of the info once,get a technique or two down,then get out.Just have all the stuff in this site in your head as reference.You prob. won't notice,but your attitude will be a little different anyway just by reading this stuff.That's all you want.Now go out there,live life,make something of yourself.You'll pull chicks naturally.

 

[Rebound Material]

Rebound, if you give people the idea by your "look" that you would have banged millions of girls and ur a pimp etc etc etc... Maybe its best not to follow the DJ rules anymore... or worrying about when to call and how long to talk for etc etc and negging and ****y and funny... you know? maybe thats whats killing you...

so try being a complete afc for once, be very sweet with a girl and compliment her and by her a thing or two.... haha.. see how that works out.... cus she might take it really well and open her legs to you...

I actually thought about this haha. I noticed that chicks were closer to me when I was an AFC. The friendzone is where I landed a majority of the time, but I still ended up dating at least 2 chicks...I wanna go back to my old ways, but keep the new mentality I now have.

 

[Incog]

You have 2 days, 14 hours, and 33 minutes to get laid.

That's ticking down. Just have the time of your life for the next 2 days and 14 hours so that even if you don't complete your resolution, at least you had a hell of a time.

But hopefully that hell of a time includes a lay.

 

[Serialized3]

Ill get get down to my point now: My new years resolution this year was to finally lose my V-card or at least be dating a chick. But naw...all the b!tches I met this year were either teases, or just straight up naturally flirty(or both). I met no chick REAL this year and it pisses me off because Ive been an SS user for almost a year, and since then ive been applying a good majority of the techniques(kino, CandF) to almost every b!tch I met. Just to add, im 21 years old...why are b!tches at this age so fcukin whack?!

Just as a figure, could you estimate how many chicks you tried to game this year? As many djs have said before, it is all a numbers game, and maybe you stopped at girl #25 when girl #26 was the one you could have been with.

As for why 21 year old b1tches are whack... my best guess is that the ones who didn't have fake IDs before are just starting to hit the clubs/bars and that stupid 'party girl' lifestyle. But hey man, chicks in their mid to late twenties don't seem to be much better off. The craziest chick i met this year was 26. And yeah, it seems like all the hoes out there are fake. Damn.

 

[S.S.N. 318]

And yeah, it seems like all the hoes out there are fake. Damn.

if thats the case, I might as well move out of the U.S.A. and move to the Carabeans (The Island..) and neva commin back, g. And thats real doe. We living in a sad world and thesem hoez iz making it worse than it iz.....real talk....

 

[Rebound Material]

Just as a figure, could you estimate how many chicks you tried to game this year? As many djs have said before, it is all a numbers game, and maybe you stopped at girl #25 when girl #26 was the one you could have been with.

As for why 21 year old b1tches are whack... my best guess is that the ones who didn't have fake IDs before are just starting to hit the clubs/bars and that stupid 'party girl' lifestyle. But hey man, chicks in their mid to late twenties don't seem to be much better off. The craziest chick i met this year was 26. And yeah, it seems like all the hoes out there are fake. Damn.

dood...i can't even name a number at the moment, but I do have to say that I have a type(asians, cuz i guess im asian myself) and the numbers werent too many. As far as getting laid, that of course was part of my whole quest, but to trully find a REAL chick that isnt fcuked up in the head or doesnt play some fcuked up games with you...naw. I guess thats the harsh lesson I learned this year thus far.

S.S.N. 318 - You're right. I hope that it is just this country that is full of some messed up ass hoes....

 

[typical]

Nah bro its the world over man, they think just cause they got a pvssy that they own you or some sh!t aye.

I've stopped wasting time with any chick that gives me any crap at all in the first 2 months aye, not worth my fvcking time.

What you needa do is sit down and list your qualities then find a chick with similar qualities, them wacked chicks out there want nothing but a fvck thats all just go as far as they let you and if you dont get any, next the chick.

 

[S.S.N. 318]

S.S.N. 318 - You're right. I hope that it is just this country that is full of some messed up ass hoes....

yep, proabably majority of them iz anywayz. Dont care....finna tour around da world (M.O.B. IV R.E.A.L.). These hoez anit finna stress me. Fa real. The world iz already bad enough as it iz anywayz cuzz....like I said b-fore....

if thats the case, I might as well move out of the U.S.A. and move to the Carabeans (The Island..) and neva commin back, g. And thats real doe. We living in a sad world and thesem hoez iz making it worse than it iz.....real talk....

 

[Vulpine]

I got a good amount of confidence...actually, it almost comes off as arrogance. Im pretty sure that Im just trying too hard. hahaha, I just realized that I made this thread intoxicated.

<---- See the name? "Vulpine". "Of, or like, a fox; especially in cunning."

I can't even tell you how many times I've been pre-determined "player" before opening my mouth. I can turn on the "player mode" if I'm feeling naughty, but, I get 50% more "you're not my type"s. Are you following? Women know what you're after - and if you're "too smooth to be true" their ASD alarm goes bonkers.

"So, 'Vulpine', what about it?" Ok, well, first off, shame the fuxx on you for making women and fuxxing them a new year's resolution. You're head is wrong.

Since your priority isn't yourself, you end up trying too hard, worrying too much, and fuxxing up opportunities that would have naturally happened without meddling. Men and women are SUPPOSED to be fuxxing, that's how it works, that's how we're here.

So, when I've had the same problem you've had, sure I talked to women, but I didn't give two ripe sh!ts to bed them or bother with dating them. And guess what, I was washing the bed clothes 3 times a week instead of never. Soooo many nut stains... big turn-off for chicks (unless the nut stains are from the same chick, then it's funny).

Anyway, you know all the tips and tricks.... great and fine. However, all the C&F, EC, Kino, Confidence, Frame, Patterns, Gunwitch, and Cube aren't going to do you one ounce of good if you don't have your head right behind the technique.

Right now, you're a slave to the puzzy. :nono:

What about you? Who cares if women are bidges, what about you? Ok, I'm going to give you simple steps.

1. Tone it down.
-Make an effort to dress down a bit. You're obviously too smooth to be true. Mess up your hair. Be imperfect - people are intimidated by perfect.

2. Stop caring about women.
-Women are people too. That's all. Just people. They're fun to lay, smell nice, and sound nice... pssssf - I'm fun to lay, smell nice, and sound nice too. So, whoop-dee-do.

3. You first.
-You claim to have "confidence". Hmm... I don't. Not right now. Which is why I'm not actively cold approaching. What do you have to be confident about? Yourself? What, you have a good job, fat stacks of cash in the bank, a hot car, the best smelling cologne, a suave wardrobe, and a secure future? Yeah? Cool, then. Good for you. But, are you HAPPY? Let me answer this one... No. You're not happy. And why? How do I know? Because women are your priority, and you aren't getting laid. Dumbazz. Get a hobby besides "trying to get laid". "Confidence" and "Happiness" are often mistakenly interchanged around here.

The correct formula is: "Happy" + "Yourself" = "Happy with Yourself" = "Confidence" = "Confident that you'll be 'Happy with Yourself' regardless of any woman"

The first part of the equation is "Happy with Yourself". It's crucial. Do productive things that make you happy. A lot of guys lift weights, but if it doesn't make you happy, put that off for things that DO make you happy. Like working on your car? Do that. Hype up your ride like a man possesed. Like being 10 miles into the woods? Go hiking. Whatever... do those things YOU WANT TO DO. Go nuts for a while and put women out of your head. You've got a long life ahead and plenty of lonely nights to look forward to: find who you are and what you like to do... FOR YOU!

Women want to be around guys that are happy. Happy people have more fun. Women can't distinguish happiness from confidence because... (see the above formula).

When you get the priorities right, everything falls into place naturally. You'll be calm and relaxed around women because you know that when you'll walk away from the interaction, you've got plenty of sh!t to do this weekend that will last longer and provide much more happiness than some slime on your worm would have.

An exercise:

I'll leave you with a little gem. Go somewhere quiet by yourself for a weekend. Have some "Just me" time. Try to not say a word for the entire weekend - why would you? You're alone. Get some beers, smoke some weed or whatever, and sit staring at a campfire considering this:

"The happier you are being alone, the less it seems you have the opportunity to get to enjoy it."

Then, when you get back into civilization, remember: you haven't spoken all weekend. You haven't said a single word. You've been saving those words up. Who are you going to give those special words you saved to? Who will get the gift of hearing your voice? Try not to speak until you say something to a smoking hot chick. Give her the gift of hearing your voice. Don't try to pick her up, don't be Mr. Slick: "Excuse me, do they have an ATM here?" is fine. You'll find that YOU missed the sound of your own voice. Watch their reaction to your voice... it will irritate you. It will be the perfect punctuation to the weekend. Women will seem silly, and you'll be flooded with a warmth of... well, try it. You'll see what I'm saying. You'll find the difference between confidence and arrogance.

 

[DJF or John]

Rebound

Here Rebound, read my post.......

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=108677&highlight=djf

Don't do anything else until you read it.

 

[Rebound Material]

oh sh!t. hahaha, I didnt notice my thread was bumped...give me a chance to read this all guys.

 

[djbr]

<---- See the name? "Vulpine". "Of, or like, a fox; especially in cunning."

I can't even tell you how many times I've been pre-determined "player" before opening my mouth. I can turn on the "player mode" if I'm feeling naughty, but, I get 50% more "you're not my type"s. Are you following? Women know what you're after - and if you're "too smooth to be true" their ASD alarm goes bonkers.

"So, 'Vulpine', what about it?" Ok, well, first off, shame the fuxx on you for making women and fuxxing them a new year's resolution. You're head is wrong.

Since your priority isn't yourself, you end up trying too hard, worrying too much, and fuxxing up opportunities that would have naturally happened without meddling. Men and women are SUPPOSED to be fuxxing, that's how it works, that's how we're here.

So, when I've had the same problem you've had, sure I talked to women, but I didn't give two ripe sh!ts to bed them or bother with dating them. And guess what, I was washing the bed clothes 3 times a week instead of never. Soooo many nut stains... big turn-off for chicks (unless the nut stains are from the same chick, then it's funny).

Anyway, you know all the tips and tricks.... great and fine. However, all the C&F, EC, Kino, Confidence, Frame, Patterns, Gunwitch, and Cube aren't going to do you one ounce of good if you don't have your head right behind the technique.

Right now, you're a slave to the puzzy. :nono:

What about you? Who cares if women are bidges, what about you? Ok, I'm going to give you simple steps.

1. Tone it down.
-Make an effort to dress down a bit. You're obviously too smooth to be true. Mess up your hair. Be imperfect - people are intimidated by perfect.

2. Stop caring about women.
-Women are people too. That's all. Just people. They're fun to lay, smell nice, and sound nice... pssssf - I'm fun to lay, smell nice, and sound nice too. So, whoop-dee-do.

3. You first.
-You claim to have "confidence". Hmm... I don't. Not right now. Which is why I'm not actively cold approaching. What do you have to be confident about? Yourself? What, you have a good job, fat stacks of cash in the bank, a hot car, the best smelling cologne, a suave wardrobe, and a secure future? Yeah? Cool, then. Good for you. But, are you HAPPY? Let me answer this one... No. You're not happy. And why? How do I know? Because women are your priority, and you aren't getting laid. Dumbazz. Get a hobby besides "trying to get laid". "Confidence" and "Happiness" are often mistakenly interchanged around here.

The correct formula is: "Happy" + "Yourself" = "Happy with Yourself" = "Confidence" = "Confident that you'll be 'Happy with Yourself' regardless of any woman"

The first part of the equation is "Happy with Yourself". It's crucial. Do productive things that make you happy. A lot of guys lift weights, but if it doesn't make you happy, put that off for things that DO make you happy. Like working on your car? Do that. Hype up your ride like a man possesed. Like being 10 miles into the woods? Go hiking. Whatever... do those things YOU WANT TO DO. Go nuts for a while and put women out of your head. You've got a long life ahead and plenty of lonely nights to look forward to: find who you are and what you like to do... FOR YOU!

Women want to be around guys that are happy. Happy people have more fun. Women can't distinguish happiness from confidence because... (see the above formula).

When you get the priorities right, everything falls into place naturally. You'll be calm and relaxed around women because you know that when you'll walk away from the interaction, you've got plenty of sh!t to do this weekend that will last longer and provide much more happiness than some slime on your worm would have.

An exercise:

I'll leave you with a little gem. Go somewhere quiet by yourself for a weekend. Have some "Just me" time. Try to not say a word for the entire weekend - why would you? You're alone. Get some beers, smoke some weed or whatever, and sit staring at a campfire considering this:

"The happier you are being alone, the less it seems you have the opportunity to get to enjoy it."

Then, when you get back into civilization, remember: you haven't spoken all weekend. You haven't said a single word. You've been saving those words up. Who are you going to give those special words you saved to? Who will get the gift of hearing your voice? Try not to speak until you say something to a smoking hot chick. Give her the gift of hearing your voice. Don't try to pick her up, don't be Mr. Slick: "Excuse me, do they have an ATM here?" is fine. You'll find that YOU missed the sound of your own voice. Watch their reaction to your voice... it will irritate you. It will be the perfect punctuation to the weekend. Women will seem silly, and you'll be flooded with a warmth of... well, try it. You'll see what I'm saying. You'll find the difference between confidence and arrogance.

That was rock solid advice.