b!tches gettin' blasted

[Luthor Rex]

An American Story: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/29663943/

Earlier data from the National Campaign shows that although having a baby after an unintended pregnancy can lead to a happy marriage, it’s more likely that relationships become strained. Nine months after an unplanned birth, 29 percent of women report frequent conflict with the father. And among couples living together when they accidentally got pregnant, two thirds are not married by the child’s second birthday. Nearly a quarter of the couples have split up — twice as many breakups as among married couples with unplanned pregnancies.

These facts are often contrary to expectation. The National Campaign study found that many single women, when they allow themselves to be completely honest, aren’t thinking pregnancy would be the end of the world. “Even though my boyfriend says he doesn’t want kids, I know he does,” says Holly, 21, who took part in the National Campaign focus groups. In fact, the organization’s research has found that nearly one in four pregnancies is considered intentional by the woman but not by the man.

Arrogance + stupidity = fail

Yet another article about how modern American women are clinically retarded. How anyone could believe the dumb **** that these women believe is just beyond me. Just paying attention to the world around you should tell you that happy endings from unplanned pregnancies aren't common.

She couldn’t stop thinking about it and soon took a pregnancy test. When she called to tell her boyfriend the test was positive, he was upset. They began arguing, both on the phone and across text exchanges. “I trusted you,” he messaged her. She resented the implication of his words.

“I didn’t do it on purpose,” she replied.

“I’m sure you knew when you were ovulating,” he texted.

Any sufficiently advanced incompetence is indistinguishable from malice.

“This idea of intended or unintended — it’s a distinction that doesn’t apply to many women,” says Lawrence Finer, Ph.D., director of domestic research at the Guttmacher Institute, a sexual-health research group in New York City. “They see pregnancy as something that occurs or doesn’t occur, not something consciously chosen.”

It's not consciously chosen because they aren't conscious!

has given her a new awe for single moms. “They develop a strong sense of survival and independence that makes you admire them and praise them for all that they do,”

And now the mainstream media must reinforce loser values.

The end.

 

[Desdinova]

It's amazing how many times I've been lied to about the woman using birth control or having their tubes tied. Most women don't think about the well-being of their child, they're just concerned about their own selfish desires to keep a guy around or use him to have a baby.

When couples have sex, they should keep any future kids in mind. If they don't want kids, then they SHOULD be using birth control. The child has no say in who his parents are going to be, so it's up to the future parents to decide if the person they're fvcking would make a good mother / father. Unfortunately, almost nobody thinks about this, and the child ends up with an alcoholic mother or a never-present father.

“I’m sure you knew when you were ovulating,” he texted.

This dumbfvck guy should have been wrapping it up if he didn't want kids. He should be making sure that he doesn't have an unwanted outcome no matter what kind of lies the woman was telling him.

A woman who wants a baby will make sure she gets one. When they find a guy who doesn't have a backbone to stand up to her, she will persuade him to avoid using a condom. And we all know how many men out there don't have a backbone.

 

[f283000]

A woman who wants a baby will make sure she gets one. When they find a guy who doesn't have a backbone to stand up to her, she will persuade him to avoid using a condom. And we all know how many men out there don't have a backbone.

or guys that are just desperate and will have sex any means necessary (no condom ok with them as long as they get *****)

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

"Accidental Pregnancy" has been a cottage industry for women since the dawn of time.

 

[Colossus]

It's amazing how many times I've been lied to about the woman using birth control or having their tubes tied...

Crazy, man. I dont think Ive ever caught a girl lying to me about it...doesnt mean it hasnt happened though. I actually dated a girl last summer who did have her tubes tied; and it was awesome. She was only 27. Of course I verified this, her family actually vouched for it.

These days I am wayyy too paranoid to not use rubbers. There is so much that can go wrong...it almost makes me not want to have sex. I used to be foolishly undisciplined about it, and frankly I consider myself lucky given all the girls Ive screwed bareback. The thing is, it's not like I wasnt aware of all that could go wrong, I just ignored it in the heat of the moment. This is how babies are made.

 

[Luthor Rex]

I'd like to highlight this again because it just blows me away:

“This idea of intended or unintended — it’s a distinction that doesn’t apply to many women,” says Lawrence Finer, Ph.D., director of domestic research at the Guttmacher Institute, a sexual-health research group in New York City. “They see pregnancy as something that occurs or doesn’t occur, not something consciously chosen.”

I just can't twist my brain enough to come to understand how such idiotic thinking works. If they were talking about something like cancer I could understand it (for the most part), but pregnancy? Give me a break!

But then, this goes with the whole thing of a woman saying an affair "just happened". I guess if you're really frackin' stupid and barely aware of the world around you it must really feel like you just slipped on a banana peel and landing on some random guy's penis and thus end up pregnant.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

I just can't twist my brain enough to come to understand how such idiotic thinking works.

There's nothing idiotic about it. It's very calculated thinking actually. In fact so perfectly calculated that it's become a social contrivance. Woman = victim, pregnancy = accident, male = provisioning. It's become so well established for so long that the meanings are now implied, and any critical thought about them is met with hostility.

 

[Luthor Rex]

There's nothing idiotic about it. It's very calculated thinking actually. In fact so perfectly calculated that it's become a social contrivance. Woman = victim, pregnancy = accident, male = provisioning. It's become so well established for so long that the meanings are now implied, and any critical thought about them is met with hostility.

Well I see it as idiotic because it has nothing to do with the reality of what happens. I wasn't thinking about it in terms of 'power' and now that you say it that way I see what you mean. There goes my silly male brain again, looking at things in terms of facts instead of terms of power.

God, no wonder I've taken so much heat over the years when I look at something like this and go 'wtf'? The funny thing is, now that you say it, it's so transparent I don't know how people get away with it... I guess most men just want a piece of ass, glass of beer and some peace & quiet in their lives so they go along to get it...

*sigh*

 

[Phenomenal One]

There's nothing idiotic about it. It's very calculated thinking actually. In fact so perfectly calculated that it's become a social contrivance. Woman = victim, pregnancy = accident, male = provisioning. It's become so well established for so long that the meanings are now implied, and any critical thought about them is met with hostility.

any mention of the "victim" of a situation being the cause of the situation and/or how it turned out can literally start a fight. one clear trait of a victim is that they never think they were the cause of what happened to them.

pregnancy being seen as an "accident" is something i've gotten a headache just think about.

 

[Raikojo17]

It takes two to tango.

any pregnancy is as much the man's fault as it is the womans

that dumbass guy in the article shouldn't be having sex in the first place seeing as he places all blame on his girlfriend. what a weak idiot


that being said, if you don't want kids, then protect yourself and take responsibility for your actions

 

[user43770]

It takes two to tango.

any pregnancy is as much the man's fault as it is the womans

that dumbass guy in the article shouldn't be having sex in the first place seeing as he places all blame on his girlfriend. what a weak idiot


that being said, if you don't want kids, then protect yourself and spray it all over her face.

Fixed.

 

[ketostix]

It takes two to tango.

any pregnancy is as much the man's fault as it is the womans

that dumbass guy in the article shouldn't be having sex in the first place seeing as he places all blame on his girlfriend. what a weak idiot


that being said, if you don't want kids, then protect yourself and take responsibility for your actions

That's not really the point. The point is the guy had made it clear in advance and they both agreed to not have kids and she intentionally got pregnant. Sure it's not smart to take a woman's word on anything and to not protect yourself, but failing that it doesn't change the fact that it's messed up women lie, deceive and then avoid responsibilty. it's not like society socialize men that women are manipulative, deceptive and just untrustworthy in general. Society socialize men to believe that women are perfect and great.

 

[Raikojo17]

Fixed.

lol