Aaron the Great
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Your Ideal Self aka The God Within
One year ago I stood 6’2” at 155 pounds. I was a 19 year-old toothpick. I had a cute boyish face, but you couldn’t even tell because of all the acne that was hiding it. I got girls on occasion, but most of them were less attractive than I wanted, and I didn’t have a clue how to treat them. I drank most nights of the week, I smoked pot every day. I had a poor relationship with my family, most importantly my mother. I was at rock bottom, but I still insisted to myself that everything was fine.
Too many choose to accept who they are and refuse to change. They justify their faults and learn to live with them instead of even entertaining the possibility that they could be living a fuller life.
Today I still stand 6’2” but with 180 pounds, nothing but lean muscle. My face is growing to that of a handsome young man. I still have a couple beers with my boys on the weekend, but alcohol doesn’t own me. Pot doesn’t own me. I speak (and play) naturally with beautiful women anywhere and everywhere. They don’t scare me anymore because my standards have grown far past physical attraction. My relationship with my family is unbelievable. I now consider my mother the most important woman in my life.
So at rock bottom I denied needing a change. Now that I’ve turned everything in my life around for the better, I know change is still needed. Even the thought of what I will become in another year excites me. The challenge in change lies in getting the ball rolling. Once you start to see results in your mind body and soul, nothing can stop you!
These are a few suggestions that I follow which have made my transformation possible. This advice is no joke. It will not be easy, but if you live by it you will become someone greater.
Forget Women. You really think sex is the answer to all of life’s problems? Many before you have studied and mastered the skills of deceit, achieved more women than is responsible or even reasonable, and still they find themselves empty inside. You will be no different. Sex is a wonderful thing, but just because it is the cause of life does not mean life should revolve around it.
Get in shape. I don’t just mean lose your gut, I mean aim for the perfect physique. It is your right to look exactly the way you want to look, but you must find the strength to make the change in yourself. Everyone has the potential to be beautiful, it’s all in how you see yourself. I encourage you to read and re-read Pook’s skinnyguy and Be a Man articles.
I can’t stress enough how important working out is. Changing your physique will magically change all other areas of your life. Your self-esteem will skyrocket, you will actually begin to think of yourself as a MAN, you will learn to appreciate hard work and its benefits. GIRLS WILL FIND YOU ATTRACTIVE! Quit trying to deceive girls into putting out! You can truly become the man that they want to nail them!
Lose all addictions. Cigarettes, alcohol, pot, prescribed medications, women, food, television, thinking (for the over-analytical crowd) and even Sosuave forums (for those who spend more time reading these articles than living their lives). Excess of ANYTHING is unnatural and unhealthy. Yes you could maintain your current lifestyle with these addictions, but know that they are roadblocks holding you back from growing into something greater. Your Ideal Self does not need these things to be happy. He may enjoy them from time to time, but He has balance in all areas of His life.
Have Faith. It doesn’t matter what you believe in, just believe. Many names are applied to the same universal energy which gives life to all being. Allah, Brahman, Christ, Yahweh, Buddah, God. Whatever name you choose, they all describe the same source. Awaken the spiritual side of your being. Trust in the infinitely-wise guiding voice in your head and it will never let you down. Until you come to terms with your spirituality you will continue to live in fear.
Love Your Mother. I can’t explain it, but I can’t deny it either. Your relationship with your mother will be consistent with your relationship with all women in your life. Your mother brought you into this world. Respect her. Love her. Thank her for everything she’s done for you. Forgive her for all the times she’s hurt you. Beg her forgiveness for all the times you’ve hurt her. No matter what you think you know, your mother wants to see you happy and successful.
Follow the advice of this article, change your life, make your mother proud. Make me proud. Be proud of yourself.
When one finds the God Within one will change the world. We’re waiting for you.
One year ago I stood 6’2” at 155 pounds. I was a 19 year-old toothpick. I had a cute boyish face, but you couldn’t even tell because of all the acne that was hiding it. I got girls on occasion, but most of them were less attractive than I wanted, and I didn’t have a clue how to treat them. I drank most nights of the week, I smoked pot every day. I had a poor relationship with my family, most importantly my mother. I was at rock bottom, but I still insisted to myself that everything was fine.
Too many choose to accept who they are and refuse to change. They justify their faults and learn to live with them instead of even entertaining the possibility that they could be living a fuller life.
Today I still stand 6’2” but with 180 pounds, nothing but lean muscle. My face is growing to that of a handsome young man. I still have a couple beers with my boys on the weekend, but alcohol doesn’t own me. Pot doesn’t own me. I speak (and play) naturally with beautiful women anywhere and everywhere. They don’t scare me anymore because my standards have grown far past physical attraction. My relationship with my family is unbelievable. I now consider my mother the most important woman in my life.
So at rock bottom I denied needing a change. Now that I’ve turned everything in my life around for the better, I know change is still needed. Even the thought of what I will become in another year excites me. The challenge in change lies in getting the ball rolling. Once you start to see results in your mind body and soul, nothing can stop you!
These are a few suggestions that I follow which have made my transformation possible. This advice is no joke. It will not be easy, but if you live by it you will become someone greater.
Forget Women. You really think sex is the answer to all of life’s problems? Many before you have studied and mastered the skills of deceit, achieved more women than is responsible or even reasonable, and still they find themselves empty inside. You will be no different. Sex is a wonderful thing, but just because it is the cause of life does not mean life should revolve around it.
Get in shape. I don’t just mean lose your gut, I mean aim for the perfect physique. It is your right to look exactly the way you want to look, but you must find the strength to make the change in yourself. Everyone has the potential to be beautiful, it’s all in how you see yourself. I encourage you to read and re-read Pook’s skinnyguy and Be a Man articles.
I can’t stress enough how important working out is. Changing your physique will magically change all other areas of your life. Your self-esteem will skyrocket, you will actually begin to think of yourself as a MAN, you will learn to appreciate hard work and its benefits. GIRLS WILL FIND YOU ATTRACTIVE! Quit trying to deceive girls into putting out! You can truly become the man that they want to nail them!
Lose all addictions. Cigarettes, alcohol, pot, prescribed medications, women, food, television, thinking (for the over-analytical crowd) and even Sosuave forums (for those who spend more time reading these articles than living their lives). Excess of ANYTHING is unnatural and unhealthy. Yes you could maintain your current lifestyle with these addictions, but know that they are roadblocks holding you back from growing into something greater. Your Ideal Self does not need these things to be happy. He may enjoy them from time to time, but He has balance in all areas of His life.
Have Faith. It doesn’t matter what you believe in, just believe. Many names are applied to the same universal energy which gives life to all being. Allah, Brahman, Christ, Yahweh, Buddah, God. Whatever name you choose, they all describe the same source. Awaken the spiritual side of your being. Trust in the infinitely-wise guiding voice in your head and it will never let you down. Until you come to terms with your spirituality you will continue to live in fear.
Love Your Mother. I can’t explain it, but I can’t deny it either. Your relationship with your mother will be consistent with your relationship with all women in your life. Your mother brought you into this world. Respect her. Love her. Thank her for everything she’s done for you. Forgive her for all the times she’s hurt you. Beg her forgiveness for all the times you’ve hurt her. No matter what you think you know, your mother wants to see you happy and successful.
Follow the advice of this article, change your life, make your mother proud. Make me proud. Be proud of yourself.
When one finds the God Within one will change the world. We’re waiting for you.
