AW or interested?

[JMoneyINC.]

No problem dude! Best of luck.

I think that if I had to pick a piece of knowledge to give back to this community it would be to not get too caught up in winning or losing, and to just have fun with it. If you make it your goal to go out and meet as many interesting people as possible, get to know them, be genuine, and be the best version of yourself you can be you're going to be just fine.

I'll post back with how things go, I've turned up the heat on this girl lately with suggestive conversations and kino and am trying to lock on for the kill. It's been fun, I felt a turning point the other day when she playfully pushed me as we were walking around and joking and said "hey you, what's up with you lately, you've been acting different" with a big smile on her face. I told her she was crazy and to stop walking so slow. lol

That's definitely a great piece of advice. Be sure to keep me updated, hopefully we'll both be f-closing before the month is up hahaha.

 

[jafyk]

Here's a brief update. Went to the bar again with her, but this time with mutual friends. Sat down, she sat next to me. Initiated kino, she was accepting, didn't move from my touch, but actually seemed to lean into it.

While there, mutual friend commented on "how it's obvious we like each other." Supposedly she blushed, (couldn't tell, I was sitting behind her) by mutual friend's comment of "your both blushing."

Left bar, walked her to her car (we park in the same lot). That was that. Plan to go in for the kill within the week. Will def keep you updated.

Come on man what kind of suspenseful story is this? I thought you were going in for the kill, lol sorry I mean kiss.

 

[jafyk]

Mr.Bill any advice for me?
Just a few moments ago before I started writing this the girl I had talked about sent me another IM "you've been ignoring me for no reason"and I didn't respond. A part of me feels bad because she's partly right considering we had a fun weekend, lol. Anyway you guys know why I'm ignoring her. I guess after she gave me that suspension for 4 days I promised myself I would have a good time with her and when she least expects it I'm gonna trump hers with a week of mine. I guess to a certain degree I'm trying to prove something to myself (but what if it backfires huh?)

 

[Cherokee]

The biggest turn on for a woman, is a man who knows what he wants.

Just make sure what you want the most isn't the girl, as that will place her on a pedestal, and that is far too much pressure for her fragile little mind.

 

[JMoneyINC.]

Come on man what kind of suspenseful story is this? I thought you were going in for the kill, lol sorry I mean kiss.

LOL, patience. Got class today w/ her so I plan on setting something up, I'll post back later.

 

[Groovy]

You needed a push.... If you had gone in for the kiss she would have let you.

But she is still attracted so I got to say, props to you my friend! Whatever you did, it worked.

I have only one question, how would you rate this girl?

And one suggestion: Try and make it happen! GL, keep us posted.

BTW I've had lots of fun reading this topic. Ty guys.

Then she suspended me for a few days saying she needed to be alone. So, 4 days later she contacts me saying she hopes that by now my feelings are gone, lol. To which I told her my feelings are my problem and I will deal with them.

LOL.

She was interested. "She came to my place to pick me up the next day and we shopped." I don't know what happened in that day... So I can't tell if she still is. Next time try and go for it IMO. GL keep us posted too.

 

[sirBill]

Just gonna update this thread with a field report.

A few days ago she left her boyfriend, mostly because of me. The whole thing was just quickly falling off a cliff, so she manned up (heh) and broke up with him, I think mostly out of respect.

Being the awesome guy that I am, I decided to comfort her this weekend and help her keep her mind off him (I am just such a good friend!). She was home for easter so we hung out a bunch.

Sunday I made a hardcore push to escalate with her, she always is kind of half into the kino and we push/pull back and forth a lot with it. Well, I wasn't pulling back this night. We ended up wrestling on the floor and keeping really good contact the whole night.

At the end of the night I said "**** it, I'm not leaving without a kiss". I took her into the other room as I got ready to leave. She gave me the typical goodbye hug, and as she did I whispered to her "that's just not going to cut it tonight" and gave her a big kiss. Hah! I took her by surprise but she kept smiling the whole time. As I left we hugged again and had another quick kiss. I left with a big confident grin on my face for sure, I didn't give her much time to process what just happened.

Feels good, man.

I'll probably hit her up later this week to hang out, she's back to college now so it's not as convenient to go and see her.

What did I do right? I'm not out of the woods yet, but I think I've made it this far by simply being confident. At no point in time did I ever doubt that I was going to succeed. I didn't sit there and try to convince her that her bf was no good for her, I didn't even mention the guy. I never awkwardly asked her if she liked me, or if we might date one day, or tried to inquire about the status of our relationship, I just plowed towards my goal with absolute confidence.

She told me what happened when she changed her facebook status, we were making fun of all the losers that thought they had a chance. Some guys are just pathetic. She got a pile of messages offering 'shoulders to cry on', and 'someone to talk or vent to'. **** that noise, I called her up and told her we're seeing a movie, the last thing I wanted to do was talk about her ex. I wanted to have fun darnit.

We'll see how it goes, I'm focusing on school the next few days but I'm planning on spending a day or two this weekend hanging out with her.

 

[vwmaniac]

...said let me know what classes your taking next semester...

...She texts me, saying hey here's my number, looking forward to another semester.

Given her behavior at dinner she's obviously interested. I'd just be careful she's not a potential stalker. By now everyone is signed up for fall classes, and if she purposefully got into classes with you, things could get interesting. Screams LTR to me, so just be careful if that's not what you're looking for. Kinda like when a crazy buys tickets to a concert that's 5 months out after meeting her twice, lol. You just tip-toe away and hope she doesn't hit you with the chloroform.

 

[JMoneyINC.]

Update: 4/25

I have only one question, how would you rate this girl?

I consider myself to have some pretty high standards, but I'd rate this girl an HB8.

And one suggestion: Try and make it happen! GL, keep us posted.[/QUOTE]

Here's an update. After the night @ the bar, HB8 literally disappeared for a week. Didn't come to class, didn't respond to phone call. It was a complete 180, and only God knows the reason for this.

Fast forward to last week, HB8 comes to class, and apologizes for not coming to class. Why? I don't know, I told her no need to apologize, it was her grade not mine.

Told her I was going to X after class, meet me there if she wants to have a drink and catch up on what she missed

I go there. She comes, we drink. At this point, I'm feeling pretty good, figure i got nothing to lose, go in for a kiss. She denies. Unfazed, I smile, finish my beer tell her I gotta go meet up with a friend.

Go to leave, she says wait, she'll walk with me to my car. I said cool, we go, she follows, bout to get in my car, go for the kiss again, this time she accepts. Told her the kiss was terrible, laughed, kissed her again.

So after 5 months pursuing this chick, all it took was NC for a week, and not giving up after the first kiss. Is she still dating her b/f? I don't know, didn't ask. All i know is I wrap it up, fcvk, then leave. No strings attached it seems.

BTW I've had lots of fun reading this topic. Ty guys.

I don't know if you're being sarcastic or not >.<

 

[JMoneyINC.]

You just tip-toe away and hope she doesn't hit you with the chloroform.

hahaha i'll def keep an eye out for the red flags, thanks for the post man.

Just gonna update this thread with a field report.

A few days ago she left her boyfriend, mostly because of me. The whole thing was just quickly falling off a cliff, so she manned up (heh) and broke up with him, I think mostly out of respect.

Being the awesome guy that I am, I decided to comfort her this weekend and help her keep her mind off him (I am just such a good friend!). She was home for easter so we hung out a bunch.

Sunday I made a hardcore push to escalate with her, she always is kind of half into the kino and we push/pull back and forth a lot with it. Well, I wasn't pulling back this night. We ended up wrestling on the floor and keeping really good contact the whole night.

At the end of the night I said "**** it, I'm not leaving without a kiss". I took her into the other room as I got ready to leave. She gave me the typical goodbye hug, and as she did I whispered to her "that's just not going to cut it tonight" and gave her a big kiss. Hah! I took her by surprise but she kept smiling the whole time. As I left we hugged again and had another quick kiss. I left with a big confident grin on my face for sure, I didn't give her much time to process what just happened.

Feels good, man.

I'll probably hit her up later this week to hang out, she's back to college now so it's not as convenient to go and see her.

What did I do right? I'm not out of the woods yet, but I think I've made it this far by simply being confident. At no point in time did I ever doubt that I was going to succeed. I didn't sit there and try to convince her that her bf was no good for her, I didn't even mention the guy. I never awkwardly asked her if she liked me, or if we might date one day, or tried to inquire about the status of our relationship, I just plowed towards my goal with absolute confidence.

She told me what happened when she changed her facebook status, we were making fun of all the losers that thought they had a chance. Some guys are just pathetic. She got a pile of messages offering 'shoulders to cry on', and 'someone to talk or vent to'. **** that noise, I called her up and told her we're seeing a movie, the last thing I wanted to do was talk about her ex. I wanted to have fun darnit.

We'll see how it goes, I'm focusing on school the next few days but I'm planning on spending a day or two this weekend hanging out with her.

strong moves. keep us updated on how things work out.

 

[sirBill]

Congratulations on your success dude!

I'm sure you're as pumped as I am. I've had a thing for this girl for years now, we've just always had crummy timing and I've been locked in a LTR for the past little while. When everything goes right it feels great.

She texted me this morning and invited me to some party at a club with her this weekend with a bunch of her friends. I've built up some mad social proof with them, we've hung out a few times and every time she'd leave the room they'd all swarm on me and tell me how I need to steal her, god knows what they were telling her when I wasn't around.

I'll be staying the night in her dorm, here's to hoping for a f-close.

 

[sirBill]

Update, we ****ed and life is good! She's a dancer and it was fantastic.

So there you have it, a girl I've known for years, I was friends with her first, contacted her via Facebook message after falling out of touch, hung out over a period of 4 months or so, successfully avoided the friend zone, got her to leave the boyfriend, and finally fcked. Mission accomplished!

She's LTR material for sure, we get along great, she is really respectful/intelligent/etc and she has a great body, so I'm going to go enjoy my summer with her.

See you later sosuave.

 

[5string]

Forgive me, but you all are over thinking this.

Good job though.