Average looking women who are a huge turn on.

[zekko]

I don't think the OP was attracted to the girl because she average. More like in spite of it. There was something about her, she had some sort of quality that made her sexually attractive. I know exactly what he's talking about.

you never want to marry a 9 or a 10!

I agree you should never marry a 9 or 10. But any woman is capable of putting the knife in your back, no matter how unattractive she is. They are fickle by nature. Actually, in the current culture, I can't recommend marrying anyone.

I think someone mentioned this before but with average-cute chicks you need to be a little more cautious with the C/F neg type stuff. One girl I think I overdid it with will not talk to me anymore. Not that it was a big loss anyway.

Good for her. Shows she's too intelligent to buy into that stupid "neg" ****, which is nothing but manipulative behavior.

 

[Uncharted]

Good for her. Shows she's too intelligent to buy into that stupid "neg" ****, which is nothing but manipulative behavior.

No she just thinks I hate her.

 

[Mike32ct]

i think is great man so what if she has no chest or butt if she is pretty go for it...

EDIT:

Mike what is the boner test?

Boner = erection <American slang>

Boner test = Is she attractive enough where you could get an erection and be physically capable of F-ing her?

 

[starfishandcoffee]

What does voice have to do with anything? I noticed that a woman's voice (a particular type) can really get me going.

 

[bukowski_merit]

What does voice have to do with anything? I noticed that a woman's voice (a particular type) can really get me going.

There's no doubt that women with more "womanly" voice (think Disney cartoon princesses), are more feminine.... Their voice (in a brutally slimmed down scientific explanation) sounds like that because they lack testosterone. Which is exactly what makes them more feminine/passive/submissive.

 

[Uncharted]

What does voice have to do with anything? I noticed that a woman's voice (a particular type) can really get me going.

There's a woman I work with that sounds like a phone sex operator when you talk to her on the phone. She's not even hot.

 

[pdx1138]

I don't think the OP was attracted to the girl because she average. More like in spite of it. There was something about her, she had some sort of quality that made her sexually attractive. I know exactly what he's talking about.

Zekko, that's exactly what I mean.

Look, I have the hots for a 10 like any other guy and average
looking women have redeeming qualities I'm willing to look over.
I've had many LTRs with average women.

This girl is VERY average....yet I'm turned on as if she IS a 10.
Every time I see her, I want to tear off her clothes and go to town and
I'm getting the signals she'd be all for it if she wasn't married.

 

[PapiChulo]

average is sexy because it is attainable. That's all to it.

 

[zekko]

average is sexy because it is attainable. That's all to it.

If that were all it was, then every average woman would be sexy.
What's going on is that some women have something about them that pushes your buttons, even if they might not be considered classic beauties. It's chemistry or something. I'm surprised more guys here haven't experienced this.

To clarify, these women aren't ugly, so don't mistake that. I'm thinking he's probably talking about maybe a 6.

I'm wondering if this is something akin to what average guys who are successful at pickup achieve. "He's not that good looking, but there's something about him that's really sexy....". Some sort of animal magnetism, that sort of thing.

 

[MegamanXL]

^^ Agreed. Pheromones all the way.

You don't even know that that is what you are picking up on......

It's animal instinct.....Scent....... Chemistry.

I hope you fooked her like the wild Zebra she is.

 

[Zerro]

I've been attracted to plenty of average or slightly better than average chicks.....

This might sound completely strange to everyone in this thread:

But when asked what attracts me most about a woman: my answer is normally her sexual vibe... I can almost sense how they'd be in bed.... Hell, i can almost tell you what her pvssy looks like before ever seeing it.... A lot of this is physical features and the way she caries herself, combined with her bubbliness, etc. But I just call it her "sexual vibe".

It works in opposite ways too. I remember there was this girl I worked with. Probably (at least) a HB8 in the average man's eyes. Blonde hair, blue eyes, on the tall side, nice body; had done some amateur modeling..... She was VERY into me..... So much so, that one of my co-workers said to me, "You better hit that man, she's falling all over you." My answer was, "nah... I'll pass... She's too boring in bed."

Doesn't sound strange to me at all: you can often make a good guess at what she'll be like in bed just from the way she carries herself. If she looks like she's probably the type to grudgingly blow you and then just lay there like a dead fish then it doesn't matter how to me hot she is. If she's lively and energetic in her everyday then she's probably just as so on the mattress.

 

[my1ken]

May not be a matter hot or average but what assets she has that turns you on about her.