RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Actually your date was pretty good, sounded like she was interested, agreeing to a change in venue, good sign. Ended well. But you made some mistakes. Keep in mind that this was no guarantee that if all had gone well without any errors, so even if you had done everything right, she still could not like you.
A woman that likes you will not confuse you. If you are 'confused' take that as a sign that she is not interested. She may use you for entertainment and attention, but that is all you are to her.
Not sure what you mean by 'persisted' but it could be that you tried to hard. You should ask a woman out once, wait a week or so, then again... if she will not go out or counter she has low interest and you should move on. If you didn't do it this way then you wodl have come off as needy and weak.
Social media is meaningless. She might have just added you to get some attention. Being 'friends' on social media actually hurts your game. Facebook should be for friends and family ONLY... not for women you want to date.
It sounds like you were trying to set up another date before the end of your first date. Not a good idea, unless a woman is actually begging to see you again... then you invite her to your place for dinner. Otherwise you should wait a few days to try and set up something else.
**** test you failed. You should have asked her "So, what are you going to give me for another kiss?" or better yet "What do you want to kiss?" When she asked you to text her when you got home, you should have again asked her what she was going to do for you to do that. OR... tell her, "It'll be early morning.. I have plans with friends." Never agree to do anything for a woman unless you get something in return.
It's not you. You have to understand that women do not take responsibility for anything... everything has to be your fault. She has low interest and she is putting it on you. Do not take it personally, do not think you could have done anything different.... she has low interest and she is blaming your 'supposed' rudeness. But because of the way you acted, she expected you to respond right away, when you didn't she had an opening to call you rude. If you had not been more compliant earlier she would have found another excuse to blame you for her low interest. She might have just declared you an @ss-hole. She knows you like her, so you have given her licence to treat you poorly. Yea I know.... women to not think like men, if she knows you like her, she has to test you to see how much she can get away, she is instinctively driven to mate with the best possible option, she will continue to push you to see just how much she can get until you push back. Then she will decide if what you can provide her is enough to keep her interest. Really all you can do is be the best man you can be, and not put up with any stupid female testing and silliness.
Nothing you do or say at this point will do anything to help you. All you can do is break contact and move on. Don't send this kind of text to another women who has rejected you, sooner or later you will be embarrassed by stuff like. Just move on without comment. If you get a text like "Rude" from a woman again, just ignore it..... then wait a couple of weeks and call to ask her out... if you screens your call or won't respond then move on to other women.