I finally understand attractive women alot more after what has happened to me at work recently.
Prior to being on sosuave I was the type of guy who was shy and never spoke much. At work I used to pay alot more attention to people who made me feel good about myself because they were bringing something to the table (either hot chicks or some cool dudes).
Now I am the type of guy that uses his charm to make all people from all walks of life at work feel good, I throw some jokes around and naturally people like me. This helped me with being more at ease with women, because I am more comfortable talking to people on a general basis then thinking I have to impress them.
However there are some drawbacks which relates to my story. There is this warpig (a 5'6 250 LBS) at my work who has the hots for me. I guess the reason is that I might be one of the few (or only one) guy's at work that actually payed any attention to her. I am already used to women at my work liking me but this one is starting to take a serious interest in me. I frequently bump into her at work because I suspect she follows me around, she tried to invite me to her birthday but I smiled and said I already had a prior engagement to attend (in which she replied that I owe her a drink because of it) and now she has told some female coworker friends (who told another male coworker who told me, not before laughing his ass off) that she has a huge crush me. I might have to nip this in the bud before it escalates farther because one thing I know about warpigs is that they got nothing to lose so they tend to go for it.
Its now dawned on me that women are much more harsher in the game of dating for a reason. Attractive women have developed b1tchy or cold attitude towards majority of the male population not only because they feel entitled, but to ward off any unwanted AFC suitors. Lets face it, if attractive women are nice to men, we automatically assume they like us and try to hit that. The more attractive the woman is, the more she has to put up with a larger pool of the male population she isn't attracted too.
Now the question is this? should I develop a complex and not be so nice to everyone and be selective? or should I continue to be nice to everyone and expects that sh1t like this would occur from time to time? (it has happened before). Either way it seems to me that I will be inadvertently upseting people in a work environment by either acting like an pompous ass, or end up rejecting ugly chicks left and right.
Any thoughts?
Prior to being on sosuave I was the type of guy who was shy and never spoke much. At work I used to pay alot more attention to people who made me feel good about myself because they were bringing something to the table (either hot chicks or some cool dudes).
Now I am the type of guy that uses his charm to make all people from all walks of life at work feel good, I throw some jokes around and naturally people like me. This helped me with being more at ease with women, because I am more comfortable talking to people on a general basis then thinking I have to impress them.
However there are some drawbacks which relates to my story. There is this warpig (a 5'6 250 LBS) at my work who has the hots for me. I guess the reason is that I might be one of the few (or only one) guy's at work that actually payed any attention to her. I am already used to women at my work liking me but this one is starting to take a serious interest in me. I frequently bump into her at work because I suspect she follows me around, she tried to invite me to her birthday but I smiled and said I already had a prior engagement to attend (in which she replied that I owe her a drink because of it) and now she has told some female coworker friends (who told another male coworker who told me, not before laughing his ass off) that she has a huge crush me. I might have to nip this in the bud before it escalates farther because one thing I know about warpigs is that they got nothing to lose so they tend to go for it.
Its now dawned on me that women are much more harsher in the game of dating for a reason. Attractive women have developed b1tchy or cold attitude towards majority of the male population not only because they feel entitled, but to ward off any unwanted AFC suitors. Lets face it, if attractive women are nice to men, we automatically assume they like us and try to hit that. The more attractive the woman is, the more she has to put up with a larger pool of the male population she isn't attracted too.
Now the question is this? should I develop a complex and not be so nice to everyone and be selective? or should I continue to be nice to everyone and expects that sh1t like this would occur from time to time? (it has happened before). Either way it seems to me that I will be inadvertently upseting people in a work environment by either acting like an pompous ass, or end up rejecting ugly chicks left and right.
Any thoughts?
