I'm sick and tired of people NOT GETTING what attraction is. I'm also fed up with David D. bashers cuz they assume that just because he's a PUA that all his teaching is false. I read his book and saw ALL of his advanced dating series and agree with most of what he's saying. Unlike other PUA he actually includes field work in his facts and ALL of his teachings comes from his PERSONAL EXPERIANCE. I think his book combined with DVDs where he interviews real-life friends who are good with women are much better than than the DJ bible. Here is basic info on attraction.
- Attraction isn't a choice is true! Why do some girls choose to date drug-dealers, criminals, assh*les and jerks who are bad to them? They ignore criticisms from friends, family and sacrifice everything just to be with them. Why? because these types of men have a masculine APPEAL and they FEEL IT. Of course if a GOOD GUY aka. Don Juan came by with the same MASCULINE NATURE the girl would immediatly dump the jerk and go off with DJ. It's just that girls tend to stay with jerks cuz there's so many wuss bags / AFC men out there and they would rather be with a man than to stay single or date a AFC who has no masculinity. So basically most women are trapped, they want to find a hot good person but still is a man (JAMES BOND) but because of the society we live today they can't find any so they gravitate towards the bad men and stay in a relationship long enough to get confused.
- Another point that DD made was how women are more likely to have sex with buff/big guys and marry the skinny guys cuz they know that the buff guys are harder to control and more likely to cheat on them. Since they'll be cheating on her, she won't have anyone to protect her and the kids so they tend to marry the skinny beta-guys who are more likely to stay and take care of them. DD quotes the book "Sperm Wars" that women who are cheating on their wussy-boyfriends are more-likely to have sex with their lover in order to increase the chance of having their kids. Girls are attracted to sporty/bigger guys and more likey to have one night stands with them but if they don't have personality then they will ditch them cuz personality is more important. If your like JAMES BOND then it's highly unlikely that a girl will cheat on you cuz she respects him and believes that he's the prize.
- Pook made a thread on body image, he claimed that once he hit 205 lbs that his body did most of the attracting. I personally back this claim and agree with him that if your muscular and bigger your more likely to attract girls cuz they notice you more and they assume through their CHICK logic that your an ALPHA-MALE. Of course all of this won't matter if your an AFC and don't know how to talk/interact with women after the initial meeting.
- Guys should really focus more on attracting girls rather than seducing them. Seducing is partly manipulative and it's making the girl FEEL attraction. If you create attraction in a girl there's nothin she can do to control it. If there is lack of attraction the opposite is true there is nothing you can DO to change her actions/feelings. Easy ways to increase your attraction are being confident (self-esteem and respect how can anyone else like you if you don't like yourself), focusing on your goals (prizability/ambitious=ver alphalike) and personal improvement (part of goals it increases your prizability).
- Attraction isn't a choice is true! Why do some girls choose to date drug-dealers, criminals, assh*les and jerks who are bad to them? They ignore criticisms from friends, family and sacrifice everything just to be with them. Why? because these types of men have a masculine APPEAL and they FEEL IT. Of course if a GOOD GUY aka. Don Juan came by with the same MASCULINE NATURE the girl would immediatly dump the jerk and go off with DJ. It's just that girls tend to stay with jerks cuz there's so many wuss bags / AFC men out there and they would rather be with a man than to stay single or date a AFC who has no masculinity. So basically most women are trapped, they want to find a hot good person but still is a man (JAMES BOND) but because of the society we live today they can't find any so they gravitate towards the bad men and stay in a relationship long enough to get confused.
- Another point that DD made was how women are more likely to have sex with buff/big guys and marry the skinny guys cuz they know that the buff guys are harder to control and more likely to cheat on them. Since they'll be cheating on her, she won't have anyone to protect her and the kids so they tend to marry the skinny beta-guys who are more likely to stay and take care of them. DD quotes the book "Sperm Wars" that women who are cheating on their wussy-boyfriends are more-likely to have sex with their lover in order to increase the chance of having their kids. Girls are attracted to sporty/bigger guys and more likey to have one night stands with them but if they don't have personality then they will ditch them cuz personality is more important. If your like JAMES BOND then it's highly unlikely that a girl will cheat on you cuz she respects him and believes that he's the prize.
- Pook made a thread on body image, he claimed that once he hit 205 lbs that his body did most of the attracting. I personally back this claim and agree with him that if your muscular and bigger your more likely to attract girls cuz they notice you more and they assume through their CHICK logic that your an ALPHA-MALE. Of course all of this won't matter if your an AFC and don't know how to talk/interact with women after the initial meeting.
- Guys should really focus more on attracting girls rather than seducing them. Seducing is partly manipulative and it's making the girl FEEL attraction. If you create attraction in a girl there's nothin she can do to control it. If there is lack of attraction the opposite is true there is nothing you can DO to change her actions/feelings. Easy ways to increase your attraction are being confident (self-esteem and respect how can anyone else like you if you don't like yourself), focusing on your goals (prizability/ambitious=ver alphalike) and personal improvement (part of goals it increases your prizability).
