Attracting Girls

[Boombastic]

Hi, I've just signed up and have read multiple articles on this forum. But, I was wondering, how do I attract girls in my high school and surrounding high schools? I feel like I keep getting LJBF'ed. I am not a very touchy guy(which I am trying to fix with girls I am attracted to), and I feel like I am doing most things right. Do I need more confidence? Or is there something I am missing?

 

[Ajbobtom]

Hi, I've just signed up and have read multiple articles on this forum. But, I was wondering, how do I attract girls in my high school and surrounding high schools? I feel like I keep getting LJBF'ed. I am not a very touchy guy(which I am trying to fix with girls I am attracted to), and I feel like I am doing most things right. Do I need more confidence? Or is there something I am missing?

Well, you can start with what you don't like about your self. Say you're overweight and you don't like that. So you deiced your going to join a fitness program to change it.
You do not do this for others, you do it for you're self. There is only one person you should change you're self for, that is you.

Confidence goes a long way. I am starting to watch my life change as the days role by. This is because I am taking the initiative to become more confident. The other day on the bus to a learning center (I go there every day during school), I saw my self doing something I would have been reluctant to do in the past. I started a conversation with 10 different people, and had them all engaged and talking openly (this including my friends who are relatively quite).

Ask you'r self this question, "Am I willing to follow a leader that is not confident in his own abilities?" Men, and women alike tend to follow strong and confident leaders, no matter how intelligent, to the end. So if you want them to feel more attracted to you, bring out the true you, the confident you. Who does not give a fvck about what any one thinks about him.

For as far as touching goes, just go for it. Watch their reactions. This is the best way to learn. This thread is one of my favorite for this subject http://tinyurl.com/5up9srv . I saw the benefits of touching in a relationship, no matter how short it was.

Oh, and if you get into a relationship with these girls, treat it like an experiment. Do what feels natural, if you get friend-zoned, then just get right back up, put that cheesy ass smile on and go after the next girl. You will slowly start to learn what you did wrong, and how you can improve.

Go out and get them man!

 

[Mr. Suave]

Hi, I've just signed up and have read multiple articles on this forum. But, I was wondering, how do I attract girls in my high school and surrounding high schools? I feel like I keep getting LJBF'ed. I am not a very touchy guy(which I am trying to fix with girls I am attracted to), and I feel like I am doing most things right. Do I need more confidence? Or is there something I am missing?

There isn't really a "friend zone", you're just doing nothing to make them feel attracted to you. Girls are emotional and they will change their mind just like that if you hit the right buttons. If you get "LJBF"ded it just means that the way you're presenting yourself to them is not attractive, OR you are too physically unattractive without enough personality (/the RIGHT personality) to make up for the shortcoming (which can be VERY hard to overcome if she thinks you're repulsive).

Touch can be quite important. In fact, with quite a few girls who are "friends", if you actually just make a move and start being more touchy with them all of a sudden they change their mind.

It's similar to how a girl can say "I don't want to have sex with you!" or "I'm not like that, I don't do casual!" and all of that, but then in the heat of the moment when you're making out with her she'll **** you, no resistance, no problem. Same thing. Some girls like to be "taken", or ALLOW themselves to be "taken".

A couple of things I would suggest... First off, call the girl "sexy" at some point. It's quite an easy way to set the tone of your relationship and eliminates the confusion of a girl thinking you're there to be a girlfriend. You don't have to be outright first of all. Something like "I like how you did your hair it makes you look sexy"... And secondly don't be afraid to touch the girl.

Try it on the girls who've "LJBF"ded you too. You might see a change in their behaviour towards you when you do the things above. ASK THEM TO HANG OUT WITH YOU, and if she says "yes" that'd be the opportune time to try this **** out. Some girls will consistently react badly to you and squirm away from your touch. In short? **** THEM!

The MAIN THING to kep in mind, which is very important, is that a girl not being attracted to you means nothing. It doesn't mean you're ugly or an unattractive person. I've had experiences of average girls turning me down, then girls 10x better looking than them feeling an instant attraction for me when I meet them. And the other GOLDEN RULE is to not become attached to a girl in any way before she feels something for you or you've had sex with her.

 

[Smock]

@Boombastic
Read the goddamn DJ Bible. Or the Book of Pook. Simple enough Boombastic. Just about all of your questions will be answered.

 

[Mr. Suave]

@Boombastic
Read the goddamn DJ Bible. Or the Book of Pook. Simple enough Boombastic. Just about all of your questions will be answered.

This answer should be banned on this forum. It's all people ever say.

Personally I don't really like the "Book of Pook", and I never found anything in that "Bible" to be useful. Only some of Senor Fingerz (sp?) helped me and I still think about some of the things he said now, but everything else in my opinion is not all that great. Then again that bible was frickin' huge so I might be forgetting some stuff. But only that one user posted anything which still helps me and stuck in my head.

I've been reading up on pickup stuff and approaching girls since I was 11 too (19 now), so I'm not a noob who has to "read the DJ Bible".

 

[Boombastic]

@Boombastic
Read the goddamn DJ Bible. Or the Book of Pook. Simple enough Boombastic. Just about all of your questions will be answered.

Btw: I have read the DJ Bible, and so far, I have gotten much better advice from people like Mr. Suave and Ajbobtom.

Thanks so much.

 

[Boombastic]

One last thing, I live in a small town(bout 800 people) and rural community. Should I approach anything differently?

 

[Ajbobtom]

One last thing, I live in a small town(bout 800 people) and rural community. Should I approach anything differently?

Man, I thought my town was small. Well, if you change people are going to notice it rather quickly. That will spark interest in you. Repeat after me, "I WILL NEVER TELL THEM WHY OR HOW I CHANGED!" Learn from my mistake, reveal to much, and you will lose their interest.
If you get an opportunity to go to a bigger town, say like a place with a mall, and such. Go there and work there for a while. Not only will you get to meet different people, but you will probably won't be known by any one out there!