Attracted to a girls personality but not her body?

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Im confused. I like this girl but I dont think shes hot. Ive been debating on asking her out but I dont feel sexually attracted to her. Is this an affect of lack of sleep or what?
 

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Skel said:
Is this an affect of lack of sleep or what?
No, it's the effect of a lack of options.

Spin more plates.
 

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Yeah I guess so. Ive been working like 70 hours a week and havent been out in months because im so exhausted. Havent met anyone in a long time.
 

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Skel said:
Im confused. I like this girl but I dont think shes hot. Ive been debating on asking her out but I dont feel sexually attracted to her. Is this an affect of lack of sleep or what?
I think she would be categorized as a "friend." Guy's can actually know females that they don't want to bang; strange but true.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Working a lot and no sexual desire sounds way too suspecious.. I think you're just working too much and need a PTO. Paid Time Off..
 

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I like this girl but I dont think shes hot. Ive been debating on asking her out but I dont feel sexually attracted to her.
After encountering tons of women, I ended up feeling like this with just about every woman I met. They had to do a lot more for me than just look good, and I found out how many of them actually did more for me. The answer was not many. The minute many women opened their mouth, I was completely turned off.

Sometimes you need to be stimulated mentally before being stimulated sexually. I'd say take her out and see if she actually works to stimulate you. You'd be surprised at how much effort a woman is willing to put into getting your d1ck to stand up straight. You might also be surprised at WHAT will make your d1ck stand up. Women REALLY DO enjoy a challenge!
 

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Desdinova said:
After encountering tons of women, I ended up feeling like this with just about every woman I met. They had to do a lot more for me than just look good, and I found out how many of them actually did more for me. The answer was not many. The minute many women opened their mouth, I was completely turned off.

Sometimes you need to be stimulated mentally before being stimulated sexually. I'd say take her out and see if she actually works to stimulate you. You'd be surprised at how much effort a woman is willing to put into getting your d1ck to stand up straight. You might also be surprised at WHAT will make your d1ck stand up. Women REALLY DO enjoy a challenge!

I'm with Desdinova here. There's a "looks is all" myth here at Sosuave.
 
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Is she obese and/or deformed?

If not, then stop beatin' it.
 
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Desdinova said:
After encountering tons of women, I ended up feeling like this with just about every woman I met. They had to do a lot more for me than just look good, and I found out how many of them actually did more for me. The answer was not many. The minute many women opened their mouth, I was completely turned off.

Sometimes you need to be stimulated mentally before being stimulated sexually.
This is actually very true for most women, as well. :up:
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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