OK… so I’ve been chatting lately with this girl that I used to hang out with a lot and occasionally hook up with (a year ago). I live in a different city now, about 2 hours away from her. She’s an attention wh0re… no doubt about that, and I’m even fairly certain that she may have traces of Borderline Personality Disorder and/or histrionic personality disorder.
While I have been a DJ for about 3 years and have had a lot of success with most women, I was a total AFC with her… for those of you who have dealt with a very intelligent and manipulative AW, you’ll know that it’s very easy to get sucked in. Lately, as I’ve been talking to her more and more, I have acted much more dominant and alpha, as I do with other girls, mostly because I’ve stopped caring as much, have a lot of hot girls that I’m dating and read this site every time I need an additional kick in the ass.
I’ll cut to the chase… I had invited her up to come see me this past weekend, which she was very excited about (probably because of the fact that I’ve been an alpha with her lately… 6 months ago, she would have rejected the invite). I cancel on her on Thursday because a better offer came up (my high school buddy, who now plays in the NHL in Ottawa, invited me to party there to celebrate Canada Day). I very rarely get to hang out with him anymore, but I never pass up a chance to do so because he’s a big celebrity in that town and the girls flock. I always get laid and make out with lots of girls, not to mention get free drinks and line bypass wherever we go to barhop.
She says it’s cool when I cancel (all I told her was something came up and I want to go to Ottawa for Canada day… she had no idea who I was going to be partying with there). I tell her we’ll do it another weekend. Then, last night, she calls me cell at 3am (right after I had just finished fvcking a random girl who lives next door to my buddy). She starts crying to me about how she loves me, how gorgeous I am, how jealous she is when she hears about me dating other girls through mutual friends, etc etc… I told her she’s just drunk, and she said “no it’s not because I’m drunk, I love you and I’ve been thinking about this for the past few weeks.” I tell her that I’m not interested, we’d just fight all the time anyways, but we can be friends.
Then, a few hours later at 7am, she calls AGAIN to “apologize” for the phone call, and to tell me that she didn’t mean any of it. She says “it’s like that sex in the city episode, where Mr. Big tells Carry ‘I felt it last night but I don’t feel it now.” I just laughed (even though this bothered me slightly) and told her to stop playing fvcking games with me. I hang up.
Then she calls me back immediately, crying, and says “no I DID mean that stuff I said last night… I just didn’t want to seem weak to you.” This girl is all over the map. THEN she tells me that doesn’t find me attractive physically, but she loves my personality (even though, not to sound ****y, I am a very good looking guy who gets girls approaching him all the time). I told her to seek professional help. Then she says “no you are good looking, but just not attractive to me.” Then I told her that 2 mins ago she said she was attracted to me.
Confused? Yeah, me too. I know this post is a ramble and all over the place, but this is how it always is when I talk to this girl. I’m also very tired and hung over (and maybe still a little drunk)… haha
My question to the DJs out there is this… how do I get a girl like this to be a consistent fvck buddy? Anytime I withdraw from her, she falls hopelessly in love with me it seems, but then she changes her mind a few hours later. What is the best way to behave to get her to fvck me whenever we see each other? What buttons do I need to push? I’m reluctant to invite her over for a weekend because she has a tendency to just c0ck tease, or even worse start giving me head and then stop halfway through.
I know you’ll say to fvck it and next her, but I’ve been with close to a hundred girls in my life, and she kisses and fvcks better than any girl I’ve ever been with. I want this girl wrapped around my finger, because the sex is just unbelievable and so hot.
Also, if any of you have had similar experiences with one of these mentally unbalanced chicks, please share.
Thanks.
While I have been a DJ for about 3 years and have had a lot of success with most women, I was a total AFC with her… for those of you who have dealt with a very intelligent and manipulative AW, you’ll know that it’s very easy to get sucked in. Lately, as I’ve been talking to her more and more, I have acted much more dominant and alpha, as I do with other girls, mostly because I’ve stopped caring as much, have a lot of hot girls that I’m dating and read this site every time I need an additional kick in the ass.
I’ll cut to the chase… I had invited her up to come see me this past weekend, which she was very excited about (probably because of the fact that I’ve been an alpha with her lately… 6 months ago, she would have rejected the invite). I cancel on her on Thursday because a better offer came up (my high school buddy, who now plays in the NHL in Ottawa, invited me to party there to celebrate Canada Day). I very rarely get to hang out with him anymore, but I never pass up a chance to do so because he’s a big celebrity in that town and the girls flock. I always get laid and make out with lots of girls, not to mention get free drinks and line bypass wherever we go to barhop.
She says it’s cool when I cancel (all I told her was something came up and I want to go to Ottawa for Canada day… she had no idea who I was going to be partying with there). I tell her we’ll do it another weekend. Then, last night, she calls me cell at 3am (right after I had just finished fvcking a random girl who lives next door to my buddy). She starts crying to me about how she loves me, how gorgeous I am, how jealous she is when she hears about me dating other girls through mutual friends, etc etc… I told her she’s just drunk, and she said “no it’s not because I’m drunk, I love you and I’ve been thinking about this for the past few weeks.” I tell her that I’m not interested, we’d just fight all the time anyways, but we can be friends.
Then, a few hours later at 7am, she calls AGAIN to “apologize” for the phone call, and to tell me that she didn’t mean any of it. She says “it’s like that sex in the city episode, where Mr. Big tells Carry ‘I felt it last night but I don’t feel it now.” I just laughed (even though this bothered me slightly) and told her to stop playing fvcking games with me. I hang up.
Then she calls me back immediately, crying, and says “no I DID mean that stuff I said last night… I just didn’t want to seem weak to you.” This girl is all over the map. THEN she tells me that doesn’t find me attractive physically, but she loves my personality (even though, not to sound ****y, I am a very good looking guy who gets girls approaching him all the time). I told her to seek professional help. Then she says “no you are good looking, but just not attractive to me.” Then I told her that 2 mins ago she said she was attracted to me.
Confused? Yeah, me too. I know this post is a ramble and all over the place, but this is how it always is when I talk to this girl. I’m also very tired and hung over (and maybe still a little drunk)… haha
My question to the DJs out there is this… how do I get a girl like this to be a consistent fvck buddy? Anytime I withdraw from her, she falls hopelessly in love with me it seems, but then she changes her mind a few hours later. What is the best way to behave to get her to fvck me whenever we see each other? What buttons do I need to push? I’m reluctant to invite her over for a weekend because she has a tendency to just c0ck tease, or even worse start giving me head and then stop halfway through.
I know you’ll say to fvck it and next her, but I’ve been with close to a hundred girls in my life, and she kisses and fvcks better than any girl I’ve ever been with. I want this girl wrapped around my finger, because the sex is just unbelievable and so hot.
Also, if any of you have had similar experiences with one of these mentally unbalanced chicks, please share.
Thanks.
