PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
It seems as if this AW syndrome has become so prevalent that there is a need to examine it somewhat closer. Upon running into many AWs, I have compiled some of the common traits these creatures share that should be useful to everyone.
What’s an AW?
Attention Whoritus or the AW, as the name implies, is a member of the human species who seeks attention at all costs regardless from whom this attention comes from. Think of AW as a prostitute who will have sex with pretty much anybody in exchange for currency. The currency in this case is the attention You intentionally or unknowingly provide. It is rooted in their very nature to seek attention and all women regardless of age, status, looks crave attention as it translates into power. Why do you think women are so concerned with their appearance? The problem lies in the amount of the attention they require and the means one is willing to use in order to acquire it. The old term for AW used to be “drama queen”, but it doesn’t quite apply in our days, even though they both share similar traits.
The male equivalence of an attention wh*re is the infamous ‘douchebag’.
Causes of the disorder:
It is the ego-oriented propaganda utilized by the media and technology that has been blasting our brains for almost a decade. In the 90’s, there was strong emphasis on being genuine, thus lacking hypocrisy, shallowness, and pretentiousness. Anti-commercialism was strongest during this era, but it was still about ‘you’ and your ability to express yourself as an individual. It all came crashing down with the new marketing strategies which allowed this longing for “your own identity” to be realized at the cost of buying into the commercial and popular. At this point, Myspace, Facebook, blogging, etc. started offering these outlets to create narcissistic fantasies of being a “celebrity” in your own right and also liking yourself for it. All these new trends shared one thing in common – the word “My” and “Me”- it’s almost as if everyone has acknowledged their love for themselves. It’s also attention wh*ring made easy that doesn’t require many social skills or face time. In turn, this mentality has embedded itself in the female mind resulting in unhealthy egos.
How to spot the AW:
- She comes on strong!
- Gives complements
- Considers relationships more intimate than they really are
- Sentimentality, shows shallow emotions and
- Expression may be somewhat “plastic”, Barbie like
- Sexually seductive, at times inappropriate
- Shows too much cleavage (flaunts other “decent” body parts)
- Lots of makeup, changes hair often
- Hangs out with guys where she is the only female to attend
- Doesn’t like to share attention with other females
- Provocative, rude at times
- Ditsy, theatrical
- Has 1000s of pics of herself on facebook (including the half-naked pics) available to strangers
- Lies and fakes to appear in better light
- Doesn’t accept criticism
- Lacks in creativity and talent
- No real hobbies
- Has the air of “fake” around her
- Not very intelligent
Purpose of AW:
All this is to win you over, as soon as you show that you are into her, she withdraws and makes it look like it’s your fault that you fell for her. She may turn completely cold, flake or ignore your calls or messages all together. If you are a complete chump some may even attempt to use you. Keep in mind that even though there is a parallel between a prostitute and AW, the AWs will flirt and play with you only if you meet their so-called ‘standards’. This means that you have to show “some value” in her eyes in order for her to benefit from it. Lets call it the Price. *give yourself some credit here
Types of AWs seen in the wild:
The psycho AW (the one to avoid) is an extremely dangerous social predator willing to manipulate their way into receiving gains, material or not. Most of these have been spoiled rotten by their idiot parents; others may have daddy-issues, or exhibit the usual psychopathic traits. In any case, their goal is to manipulate you to their advantage. This type of AWs is usually the extraverted women with inflated egos that need a regular “fix”, whereas you provide the fix.
The “nice” girl AW is a peculiar type of AW that usually has a poor self-image and rather low self-esteem. They might be the types of girls that have been denied attention in the past for whatever reason, and now they seek to validate themselves. It is very easy to fall for these seemingly nice women, only to discover their true nature.
The “old” AW – is your typical mature woman who simply wants to feel desired again.
The Solution:
If you ever encounter the AW who is crazy as a bat you might as well run as far as possible. If it’s the nice type that you are dealing with, keep your distance and explore her weaknesses, thus qualifying her. Her attention and advances might be of use with other ‘normal’ women as well. In other words, lightheartedness is the best strategy with them. The most important thing is that you don’t overlook the warning signs before you make a move on AW and fall into her trap.
:nono:
What’s an AW?
Attention Whoritus or the AW, as the name implies, is a member of the human species who seeks attention at all costs regardless from whom this attention comes from. Think of AW as a prostitute who will have sex with pretty much anybody in exchange for currency. The currency in this case is the attention You intentionally or unknowingly provide. It is rooted in their very nature to seek attention and all women regardless of age, status, looks crave attention as it translates into power. Why do you think women are so concerned with their appearance? The problem lies in the amount of the attention they require and the means one is willing to use in order to acquire it. The old term for AW used to be “drama queen”, but it doesn’t quite apply in our days, even though they both share similar traits.
The male equivalence of an attention wh*re is the infamous ‘douchebag’.
Causes of the disorder:
It is the ego-oriented propaganda utilized by the media and technology that has been blasting our brains for almost a decade. In the 90’s, there was strong emphasis on being genuine, thus lacking hypocrisy, shallowness, and pretentiousness. Anti-commercialism was strongest during this era, but it was still about ‘you’ and your ability to express yourself as an individual. It all came crashing down with the new marketing strategies which allowed this longing for “your own identity” to be realized at the cost of buying into the commercial and popular. At this point, Myspace, Facebook, blogging, etc. started offering these outlets to create narcissistic fantasies of being a “celebrity” in your own right and also liking yourself for it. All these new trends shared one thing in common – the word “My” and “Me”- it’s almost as if everyone has acknowledged their love for themselves. It’s also attention wh*ring made easy that doesn’t require many social skills or face time. In turn, this mentality has embedded itself in the female mind resulting in unhealthy egos.
How to spot the AW:
- She comes on strong!
- Gives complements
- Considers relationships more intimate than they really are
- Sentimentality, shows shallow emotions and
- Expression may be somewhat “plastic”, Barbie like
- Sexually seductive, at times inappropriate
- Shows too much cleavage (flaunts other “decent” body parts)
- Lots of makeup, changes hair often
- Hangs out with guys where she is the only female to attend
- Doesn’t like to share attention with other females
- Provocative, rude at times
- Ditsy, theatrical
- Has 1000s of pics of herself on facebook (including the half-naked pics) available to strangers
- Lies and fakes to appear in better light
- Doesn’t accept criticism
- Lacks in creativity and talent
- No real hobbies
- Has the air of “fake” around her
- Not very intelligent
Purpose of AW:
All this is to win you over, as soon as you show that you are into her, she withdraws and makes it look like it’s your fault that you fell for her. She may turn completely cold, flake or ignore your calls or messages all together. If you are a complete chump some may even attempt to use you. Keep in mind that even though there is a parallel between a prostitute and AW, the AWs will flirt and play with you only if you meet their so-called ‘standards’. This means that you have to show “some value” in her eyes in order for her to benefit from it. Lets call it the Price. *give yourself some credit here
Types of AWs seen in the wild:
The psycho AW (the one to avoid) is an extremely dangerous social predator willing to manipulate their way into receiving gains, material or not. Most of these have been spoiled rotten by their idiot parents; others may have daddy-issues, or exhibit the usual psychopathic traits. In any case, their goal is to manipulate you to their advantage. This type of AWs is usually the extraverted women with inflated egos that need a regular “fix”, whereas you provide the fix.
The “nice” girl AW is a peculiar type of AW that usually has a poor self-image and rather low self-esteem. They might be the types of girls that have been denied attention in the past for whatever reason, and now they seek to validate themselves. It is very easy to fall for these seemingly nice women, only to discover their true nature.
The “old” AW – is your typical mature woman who simply wants to feel desired again.
The Solution:
If you ever encounter the AW who is crazy as a bat you might as well run as far as possible. If it’s the nice type that you are dealing with, keep your distance and explore her weaknesses, thus qualifying her. Her attention and advances might be of use with other ‘normal’ women as well. In other words, lightheartedness is the best strategy with them. The most important thing is that you don’t overlook the warning signs before you make a move on AW and fall into her trap.
:nono:
