Attention Wh**e?? YOu Betcha!!

[ozzfest]

Let me tell ya a little about this girl I know and you tell me if this ain't the biggest attention w***e you ever seen/heard?

Might wanna even play a game....spot how many things she does that cry of Attention W****...mind you this all happened in the range of about 1 hour. here goes...

1st of all she invites me to lunch. She drives. Recently purchased a convertible. I get in and she says "ya might wanna move the seat back cuz Carlos wanted to drive my new car and I was sitting in the passenger seat yesterday". Now I have no clue who this Carlos is (fyi she is single) so at this point I assume I am suppose to ask "who's Carlos"? I didn't ...but she brought it up again later at lunch and I felt obligated to finally ask who he is.

Get to lunch. Waitress seats us and she makes a comment that the waitress is probably eyeing me up to see who she is with this week. She says " I came here with Todd and then the next week with George and now this week its with you". Again I have no clue who Todd and George are and don't really wanna know but as the conversation goes she almost forces me to ask who they are."

Proceeds to tell me stories about her past and how she once had a stalker. Guy was psycho for her. Another story of how a recently divorced co-worker is hitting on her. The kicker here is that this guy who is hitting on her is also the ex-husband of a good friend of hers who also works with her. The thing that struck me about this story is that the guy she said was hitting on her is by no means a good looking guy. I've seen him. He is however a player. Now although I don't believe she finds him attractive she didn't come right out and tell him "no" based on that but made up a line about "your ex wouldn't like it if we hooked up". Thereby giving this player no real stop sign and he further proceeds to try and run his game at her telling her how his ex wouldn't mind at all. Basically won't take no for an answer. So in essence she doesn't stop him in his tracks but leaves the door open to future flirting and possible hope for this guy.

Well thats about all I can think of that she did for now..but whattya think? is she a Grade A Attention W**re or what? You decide.

 

[Omega]

Todd? George? Did she have lunch with Bob and Fred too?
Come on, who names there kids George anymore :
Kidding, kidding.

Anyways, point being, throw it back at her. Take HER to lunch (dont pay), and then say the same ttings. Pick her up in your car and say the samet hing she did just replace the name Carlos with like, Diane. Don't make it obvious, but don't make it subtle.

 

[Mr. Delicious]

can we say low self esteem? Wow When girls start telling me stuff like that its a total turoff. How old is she? If shes in middle school its more understandable but then again she wouldnt be driving and you would be a petterass for going out with her

 

[Ice Cold]

She likes you
She wants you
She's trying to make you jelous
She doesn't have guys flirting with her in the setup you were in, so so makes up guys to make her seem desirable.

It's not an attention ho you chump, it's a HIGH IL girl.

Should've flirted and kissed her right there.

 

[ozzfest]

well i don't think she's making up the guys and yes as previously stated it is a turn off. Show your interest in me....not by telling me about all these other guys but just flat out gimme attention or compliments...tired of head games and ********!

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by ozzfest
well i don't think she's making up the guys and yes as previously stated it is a turn off.

For you maybe. But that's how they flirt

Show your interest in me....not by telling me about all these other guys but just flat out gimme attention or compliments...

And put her ego on the line? Why would she do that?

Did you demonstrate all the character traits she wants in a man?

 

[E-Z Rider]

I know what you're talking about, and agree that it probably is flirting.

But it's a very middle-schoolish way of flirting that would turn me off.

I like it when women are a little more sophisticated and subtle in their flirting,- it's more fun =)

 

[becker]

Your situation sounds sort of similar to mine, although not so drastic. Ozzfest, how hot is this girl that you're talking about?

 

[MVPlaya]

NeXt!!!

 

[chili kat]

Sounds like the girl in that beer commercial 'The Wingman'. Only, you're not taking one for the team here. Get out. Get out as fast as you can.

 

[ozzfest]

Becker - you ask how hot she is...interesting question cuz I've been asking myself this very same thing. Sometimes she looks just ok..depends on how she is made up, what she's wearing...etc. But there are those times when she is drop dead gorgeous. Certain outifts or how her hair is done. Overall I'd say she is an 8. Therefore, I know guys want her (have heard them with my own ears many many times).

I am not a DJ nor am I an AFC. I don't know all the tricks of the trade,but when you guys said this was her way of flirting ... well it kinda took me offguard. Not sure how her telling me all this is flirting. I guess its a woman's way of making a guy jealous and forcing his hand...making him take action before another guy scoops her up. Boy these women will drive ya nuts huh

 

[Ice Cold]

I guess its a woman's way of making a guy jealous and forcing his hand...making him take action

Now you get it

 

[becker]

Originally posted by ozzfest
Becker - you ask how hot she is...interesting question cuz I've been asking myself this very same thing. Sometimes she looks just ok..depends on how she is made up, what she's wearing...etc. But there are those times when she is drop dead gorgeous. Certain outifts or how her hair is done. Overall I'd say she is an 8. Therefore, I know guys want her (have heard them with my own ears many many times).

I am not a DJ nor am I an AFC. I don't know all the tricks of the trade,but when you guys said this was her way of flirting ... well it kinda took me offguard. Not sure how her telling me all this is flirting. I guess its a woman's way of making a guy jealous and forcing his hand...making him take action before another guy scoops her up. Boy these women will drive ya nuts huh

Ozzfest, I'm wondering if we know the same girl. Are you from CA?

 

[ozzfest]

Becker..no i don't live in Cali but wish I did!

 

[becker]

It's so funny, ozz, since your story sounded like a page out of my book. I would have bet money that we were talking about the same girl. The only thing different is that the girl I'm after always looks good.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

NEXT NEXT NEXT NEXT NEXT!!!

This girl reeks of insecurity. All these types of broads are good for is ****in'!! So hit it, quit it and move on!!!


PIMP

 

[Squid]

I dated a girl just like this as well, she was a classic attention wh*re. She was constantly telling me how everyone she knew wanted her, were constantly hitting on her, etc. She would flirt back enough that everyone thought they had a chance and would laugh about how she loved to lead guys on. It became old pretty fast.

She would say, "why does it matter, I'm only going home with you", but to be honest I thought it was childish and I was anoyed with everyone giving me the "I could have your girlfriend" look. I honestly don't think that these girls are worth the effort, because evetually the flirting will reach the next stage one night when your not around.

 

[NatureGuy]

Ozz: My interpretation is she's very insecure,
could be "borderline". If she has other
redeeming qualities, and calms down next
time you see her, she may be worth it.
Otherwise, she is likely to be alot of hassle and I would Next her.
By the way, my thanks to you for your comments on my posts.

 

[DJ Jr.]

My response to all this would simply be:

So I take it your not into relationships? See where she goes with it and learn something from her about it rather than coming here asking all of us what shes thinking.

If shes BSing you call her on it dont ignore it but at the same time you dont have to give her what she wants...

Typical repsonse to my question from a girl would be along the lines of "No, I am with the right person...just none of these guys are the right person".

Take it from there and break her down...ask her why she hangs with em if "They aren't the right person" Typical response...because they are good friends. "So are all your good friends guys?" "No my best friend is a girl"..."So why do you only mention the guys to me?"

Break her down man...shes just another human being if shes a bull**** artist cut through the **** dont get caught up in it, make a conversation out of it and have fun with the situation.

 

[Befuddled]

I dont think it's attention ***** behaviour. she didnt beg for attention from all the guys around her, u know ? to me an AW would be a girl who craves attention to the point where it appears that shes leading guyS on at the same time, but has no intent of taking it further than friendship.

This girl seems like she likes your company, i can t say anything about her IL though. maybe she was just making conversation as well ? it's hard to say, but i dont think ur right in labeling her an AW.

what i do know for sure, is that...the fact thats shes getting to you, means u got the hots for her .

Cheers.