which is much more fun than the guy who SAYS everything he's doing and why/how it is supposed to work AKA demonstrate, don't explicate.
this doesn't mean that the more rational guy is wrong, is in his nature to behave like that, kinda more rational and logical, more masculine.
You should establish from the first that you're comfortable with silence, so she'll start to fill the silence with talk and all you have to do is kindle the banking embers.
Oh. this happened many times to me. I am mostly quiet and rational and usually women would try to fill and I can also hear they get nervous or their breathe its like they're running. (the last thing happened me more than 10 times with 3 different women).
If you can figure out what a woman is insecure about and then genuinely throw praise towards her about that part of her, what do you think will happen? Fortune favors the bold.
This advice is not only for women, but can be broadened to apply to people of any gender.
I love your post because it reflects what is really happening in real life.
It would be awesome to know more about how to figure out what a person is insecure about and then genuinely offer praise about that aspect of them, basically applying this approach to anyone.
This seems to be a psychological technique, right?
So how does one go about figuring out the insecurity, and how can you make sure to secure the connection with that person?
I love this approach because it is not centered on manipulation, but if you can genuinely make someone feel better, you become a better person yourself, and you also feel better for having done so.
ps: also, how do you do this without getting caught in the friendzone and keeping your frame it's important
