I was just wondering if these to things go hand in hand with women. I have been reading the BPD thread below and I am frickin amazed how familiar my last relationship was with one of these.
These were the facts:
First night together we had sex and it was unbelievable! When I met her I was a plate spinner and having a blast. Well this chick kept on and on until she hooked me (Must have been the sex). She was 29, Married twice, two kids from different husbands. Parents were no longer married and had remarried 1-2 times after that. Said she had been raped when she was 14. She was constantly putting revealing pics on her myspace page some with her boobs hanging halfway out and when I would tell her that a mom with two kids shouldn't be doing that she would freak out!
The first few months we dated everything was great, then one night she fricken flipped out at a halloween party we went to because I was talking to other people and she thought I had taken her there to break up with her. And I'm talking really flipped out,...Screaming,...crying this look of horror on her face I had never seen. Well I took her home and on my way home that night I was like what the fvck! I shoul've ran then but I didnt. Well long story short we broke up got back together all the time. We even broke up for 3 months when she tried to get back with her ex husband but by then she had sucked everything out of me and I went into depression. I texted her and told her I missed her, i would try and call her,...I know, i know WRONG thing to do,..I know. Well after 3 months,...just when I was beginning to get my self back to normal and getting the plates spinning again she realized that i was losing interest in her and she started contacting me again and my dumbass got sucked in again. That lasted about 4 months until I just finally got up enough courage to say fvck it. I called her about a week after I left her to see how she was doing cause for some reason I felt sorry for her and she was as cold as ice. Told me if was calling her to be friends with her that wasn't going to happen. So i said ok fine and I haven't contacted her since.
I'm just teling you guys these women have some kind of poison or something that will suck the life force out of you and bring you down into a chump. It's even embarrasing for me to tell this story cause I am not this kind of week person,..never have been. They love you, or at least they show they do until they get you hooked then when you show them love back they become bored and seek attention elsewhere. They are never happy. They suck you in until they have you then they back off and watch you suffer. Then when they see you recovering and moving on they try and suck you back!
Thank god this forum is here because people need to know what to look out for with these women. I just wish I had known sooner before wasting 2 years of my life.
These were the facts:
First night together we had sex and it was unbelievable! When I met her I was a plate spinner and having a blast. Well this chick kept on and on until she hooked me (Must have been the sex). She was 29, Married twice, two kids from different husbands. Parents were no longer married and had remarried 1-2 times after that. Said she had been raped when she was 14. She was constantly putting revealing pics on her myspace page some with her boobs hanging halfway out and when I would tell her that a mom with two kids shouldn't be doing that she would freak out!
The first few months we dated everything was great, then one night she fricken flipped out at a halloween party we went to because I was talking to other people and she thought I had taken her there to break up with her. And I'm talking really flipped out,...Screaming,...crying this look of horror on her face I had never seen. Well I took her home and on my way home that night I was like what the fvck! I shoul've ran then but I didnt. Well long story short we broke up got back together all the time. We even broke up for 3 months when she tried to get back with her ex husband but by then she had sucked everything out of me and I went into depression. I texted her and told her I missed her, i would try and call her,...I know, i know WRONG thing to do,..I know. Well after 3 months,...just when I was beginning to get my self back to normal and getting the plates spinning again she realized that i was losing interest in her and she started contacting me again and my dumbass got sucked in again. That lasted about 4 months until I just finally got up enough courage to say fvck it. I called her about a week after I left her to see how she was doing cause for some reason I felt sorry for her and she was as cold as ice. Told me if was calling her to be friends with her that wasn't going to happen. So i said ok fine and I haven't contacted her since.
I'm just teling you guys these women have some kind of poison or something that will suck the life force out of you and bring you down into a chump. It's even embarrasing for me to tell this story cause I am not this kind of week person,..never have been. They love you, or at least they show they do until they get you hooked then when you show them love back they become bored and seek attention elsewhere. They are never happy. They suck you in until they have you then they back off and watch you suffer. Then when they see you recovering and moving on they try and suck you back!
Thank god this forum is here because people need to know what to look out for with these women. I just wish I had known sooner before wasting 2 years of my life.