Attention Admin: Your 10-post rule sucks

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Quiksilver

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Unless you're on here for 3+ hrs a day, it's not easy to make 10 substantial posts...

In two weeks no one will care.
 
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I am obviously against it. Until this rule is lifted, I am not going to waste any posts giving relationship advice to guys who don't listen anyway. I need those posts to complain about the 10-post limit, and still fit in some off-topic talk about fighting, cars, and motorcycles.

Hahaha.

I've been a member on this board for around 4 years and have never posted ten times in one day.
 

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Quiksilver said:
Unless you're on here for 3+ hrs a day, it's not easy to make 10 substantial posts...

In two weeks no one will care.
If ten is too much make 1 a day. If it's good, use one of your ten for the next day to bump it.

There's tons of ways to work with what you have. And that's what we should be doing. This thing hasn't even been on for a week and no one is sure of the effects. One thing is certain, and that is that these bloody murder post being made aren't going to help change his mind. He's use to our lunacy by now after all these years. He'll want to see for himself what the effect is so it's gonna play out for a while. Why not try to find the positive of change instead of focusing on the negative.
 

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An honest way around the 10 post rule for anyone who cares - I dont

You simply keep replying in your original post by editing it every time you want to feed back to them. You can cut and past what you want to quote of theirs into your 1 post, and keep updating it there. Rather than threads reading top to bottom, they would read more circular. I dont see this being against the rules, you are just compiling your insights in one post.
 

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Master Bates said:
Sounds like a retarded rule made up my bored mods who feel the need to justify being a mod in the first place. The limit is retarded, even if I've never made ten posts in one day.

Mods had nothing to do with this. I think thats obvious by the announcement from the Admin himself. We had no idea this was coming.

Even as a Mod I've never posted ten times a day!
 

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You may as well have just called this thread "Can the mods please ban me?"
 

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My third post against this stupid rule.

I don't like the fact that I am LIMITED. I AM BEING LIMITED in what I can post.

I don't like the fact that I'm being controlled by how much content I put out. It doesn't make me FEEL like I'm free to post. I'm free to post, but only 10 post. I don't like it.

Since when does posting a lot on this site stop ANYONE from improving their lives or getting laid?

Go look at post counts from STR8UP or Joekerr. Look at MY LRs for Christ's sakes !! I post one every other week!

The goddamn fact of the matter is is that I decide how much time I want to spend posting on this board, not the MODS; I'm doing okay in my life. I'm not okay, IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THESE BOARDS.

Nothing.

Don't tell me I "need time away". I decide that. Not you. This isn't a highschool football game where the coach puts you back on the benches because you're not performing up to par. We don't have coaches here, we have comrades.

Screw you.

I'm not posting because I need to go out and do something with my life. It's already being done.

I'm not posting because this rule is horrible.



I'm in support of having the rule lifted. I want to smack whoever thought of it.

Edit: Quick, I might not come to this site in two weeks to NOT care.
 

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I admit it is a limiting rule, how can anyone deny that?

Think of it this way though... Everyone on the board who likes to post a lot is now being told to take that number of posts, and increase the quality and readability until you can't even fathom posting 10+ a day. So if we start putting real time and effort into constructing opinions, we won't even feel this limitation.

It benefits people who would rather read than open their mouth. Who wants to read posts by members who put little thought into their work before they press the Post button? "Don't read it then" . However, for someone coming here now and then, its disappointing that 80% of the discussion on this site is UNREADABLE, because people put so little value in their own writing. I can't sit and watch a discussion even in the mature man forum, because there are a hundred off-topic interjections for every post of substance. We are now in a place that WILL have fewer posts because of this rule, but each post will hopefully be valuable and interesting. What happens when you reduce the supply? The demand goes up.

Try not to feel that this is a limitation of any kind, but rather an opportunity for you to join others and spend that little extra time thinking and writing before you press Reply. I said above that its HARD to make 10 good contributions a day, and that is exactly how I feel.

Do as you will though, no one is forcing you to sit shackled at your computer on sosuave.
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
My third post against this stupid rule.

I don't like the fact that I am LIMITED. I AM BEING LIMITED in what I can post.

I don't like the fact that I'm being controlled by how much content I put out. It doesn't make me FEEL like I'm free to post. I'm free to post, but only 10 post. I don't like it.
Just think, if you hadn't made this reply complaining, or the other two, you would have had 10 posts to talk about whatever you wanted. Instead, YOU CONTROLLED yourself to make 3 posts about a new rule that LIMITS POST.

Come on people, this isn't rocket science. Instead of complaining about having 10 posts a day to use, why not use those posts productively instead of wasting them on complaints? You are only doing it to yourselves here.
 

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I find the opposite is happening. I'm scared to use up my 10 posts, so I don't post anything at all. I just end up lurking. I don't bother with the new AFC's who come to the site looking for advice because its going to take more than 1 post to get through to them and even then, I know from experience its not going to make a difference most times, so I don't post anything.
 

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PMing is a horrible idea because not everyone wants a specific poster's advice.

Its intrusive and can even be considered insulting.

Whereas with threads different people make a bunch of posts and the OP decides out of all of these people whose advice they like best and who they want helping them.
 

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If we are going to have a limit to our post than whats the point of having the discussion forum part of the site?

I agree with Kontroller X that not everybody wants PM's from certain users....
 

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Microphone Fiend said:
^^^Why not PM the AFCs?
because the inbox is not big enough to suit those sorts of needs.
i am not complaining about the inbox, because some people do not fill theirs up like others of us.
i am just saying, on a normal day, i have to go to the inbox and clean it out daily, then go to my email account and try to find out who tried to pm me while the pm box and shoot everyone back pms asking if they were trying to find me , and then i have to clean it out again in order to receive those pms again.

by the work and effort it goes in to pm other people, many members are simply not going to take the time out to do it.

the only idea i can come up with, is to continue to tell everyone, that if they can not seem to get replies to their thread, and can not seem to reach anyone via pm, is to jump into the chatroom and see if anyone is lurking there. somehow we will find a way to get everyone's issues addressed, even if we have to hunt down fellow members to go and help the member in need.

however i do agree with macavoy with less people responding to help others due to not wanting to waste their limited posts for the day. please sticky some reminder at the top of each forum to help newbies learn to use the search button function properly. that way they can find decent material to help themselves perhaps without having to make a thread.
 

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From:KontrollerX:
Whereas with threads different people make a bunch of posts and the OP decides out of all of these people whose advice they like best and who they want helping them.
From: ProDJ26:
If we are going to have a limit to our post than whats the point of having the discussion forum part of the site?
Since the announcement was made, I have noticed either a DECLINE in the frequency of posts, or an unmistakeable lack of ENERGY within the posts that are made------this is more true in some sections than in others.

True, this "rule" may add a positive benefit to some of the forums here over time, however, the Mature Man section, in particular, seems a much more sterile, lethargic, and increasingly desolate place over the past week or so. But is that just MY imagination????

It would appear that So Suave is flirting with the possibility of becoming more a Discussion "BORED", as opposed to a Discussion Board. But who knows, I could be wrong.

I also concur with Macavoy and Thundermaverick when they mentioned how just the very "idea" that there is now an imposed "Posting CAP", it has only presented them with a deterrant FROM posting, as opposed to filling them with a desire to post "MO BETTER".

And YES, I realize it's "just a message board", but what might be in jeopardy here is the something BIGGER----yet more intangible:

The sense of camaraderie, the strength of the online, bond of brotherhood that has been formed, and MOST IMPORTANTLY------the danger of extinguishing the "almost" unbridled ENTHUSIASM with which many of the more knowledgeable of us here ordinarily reach out to our brothers IN NEED.

In "real life" my commitment to be the best man that I can be by pursuing my spiritual, relational, and financial goals is NEVERENDING. And so is my willingness to reach out to help others that I encounter along the way. But I also enjoy being an asset to my brothers (and some sisters) on here as well.

It saddens me to think that instead of Global Warming (a TEMPORARY attempt at shaking some things up), what we COULD actually be experiencing is, in fact, a Climate Change (a PERMANENT decision to begin making snowball-like changes in the So Suave atmosphere).

Sure, there could be a lot of overreacting going on here, but what's really at stake here (for ME, at least), is the close-knit community that So Suave has previously fostered. In essence, I have observed that it very well may be "BECAUSE" of our freedom to post so frequently that valuable "online" relationships of MUTUAL RESPECT are even born.

And there IS an argument that can be made that it is also BECAUSE certain posters DO post frequently "enough" that the visitors are actually able to get a good enough grasp of those poster's personalities and mindsets-----a grasp strong enough to discern which posters to pay closer attention to, depending on the specificities of the problem.

For a man's body of work, his consistency of output, in real life, or even on a message board, tends to tell the story of WHO he is.

In fact, it was the CONSISTENCY and the FREQUENCY of many of the legendary So Suave posters that inspired ME to join and contribute to this particular site a few years ago.

Here's some questions:

What if I had not found them?

What If they had not posted enough for me to come to respect their viewpoints?

Here's the answer:

Life would have been great regardless. But would it have been AS great, AS quickly? Who knows...

In conclusion, it is my HOPE that this new rule is NOT merely a precursor of others to come. MORE rules that are even MORE restrictive------that may accidentally douse the fire burning in the hearts of some of the better CURRENT posters on here------thus DISCOURAGING them from contributing as much as they would like, or worse-----not contributing AT ALL.

But regardless, I have thoroughly ENJOYED my stay here so far. And who knows what the future holds, it COULD all turn out for the better...but if it doesn't, remember one thing, troops:

When the going get's tough, the tough always go UNDERGROUND.


This is Victory Unlimited...and I "approve" this message.

And as always...MARCH ON.
 

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Victory Unlimited said:
True, this "rule" may add a positive benefit to some of the forums here over time, however, the Mature Man section, in particular, seems a much more sterile, lethargic, and increasingly desolate place over the past week or so. But is that just MY imagination????
No, the place is dead.

I guess they just don't want the forum, the way we know it, to continue. To tell me how many posts I can make.. it's the principle behind it. I'm sure SS will continue but it's not going to the be the active, vibrant, insane place it was. Oh well.
 

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lol

If you guys posted all your 10 nuggets a day, it would be more than the norm anyways.

Whats this about holding back because you are afraid to waste a post? That's not the fault of the rule, that's the fault of your own stupidity. Most of the prolific posters here rarely exceed 10 a day anyways, so whats the big deal?

Make your 10 contributions, then go outside and play. The concept of 'holding back because a better topic might come along' is absurd, and indicates an addiction to this place.

Just join in a few discussions, then go do something else!

Perhaps we are all still adjusting to the concept of real Value in our posts, but not posting at all because you cant post 11 times a day is not the Admins fault, its yours.
 

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A Simple Algorithm would serve the purpose better,

Amount of Green Bars * 10

Quality Posters are rewarded with the FLEXIBILITY to contribute more Quality.

Quantitative Posters are motivated to STEP IT UP.
 
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