Attacking HER with LJBF

[becker]

Wow, another old post dug up from the grave...

One good way to do this is the "implied" LJBF tactic, where you act indifferent as to the fact that she has a BF, or make it seem like you're not interested in her, yet be irresistible yourself, so that you are sort of increasing her IL while making yourself seem like you're independent and non-needy.

I have never said the words "LJBF" before to any girl, but I've acted in an LJBF manner before, which I feel is better since it leaves things open to interpretation and keeps her guessing. Remember, this is for those girls who are playing games only!

 

[nefast]

Yeah, but don't put all the eggs in the same basket!

I tried this technique (well, I use this technique since im 9yo haha) and some girls like challenge, some don't.

I think the only thing to learn from this technique is : -----> independance is a plus to get fresh meat <---------


-nefasto

 

[SamePendo]

Originally posted by becker

I have never said the words "LJBF" before to any girl, but I've acted in an LJBF manner before, which I feel is better since it leaves things open to interpretation and keeps her guessing. Remember, this is for those girls who are playing games only!

Ok, 2 comments here:

This LJBF weapon can be used when you feel she is going to do the same thing. So you use it before she does.
You can always do the immplied LJBF, when you dont see her LJBFing you THAT close. But if its pretty close I say you go for the LJBF word by word, do we agree?

Then, why is it for girls who are playing games? Are you talking about LJBF in general, or the immplied one?

 

[becker]

Actually, SamePendo, I have never used the words "LJBF" explicitly, and I haven't had any problems. I've never gotten the "LJBF" from a girl, so I guess I couldn't tell you whether to use the express words. However, I can tell you that whenever I've done it as an implied thing, I tended to look better since, like I said before, it keeps it ambiguous, and you don't show neediness and at the same time the girl doesn't find a need to LJBF you. She sometimes starts getting more attracted to you because you start having sort of a "I don't give a sh*t" attitude, while at the same time, treating her nice enough with C+F so that you don't come off as a total jerk-off.

As for using it for girls who are playing games, it's a great defense since it cuts off the reason for the games, which sometimes are used to string you along when she might not like you that much. It turns the tables. If a girl isn't playing games, then there isn't much reason for it since she is likely to be attracted to you in some way, and you're in good shape.

I have been sort of playing the friend/flirting game with this girl who has a BF, and although we haven't done anything other than hang out and participate in some hobbies that we have in common, there has been some innocent flirting and she is a little nervous around me when she sees me in person. I don't make any unnecessary moves, and she doesn't talk to me about her BF problems as though I'm a friend (she actually tends to actively avoid that subject). I think that she is attracted to me because I'm not all over her, yet I make myself impossible to dislike