Assualted a chick, I think..

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Last night there was a little get together at a workmates place. Anyway there were a few chicks there from work. I was chatting to HB8 and I had like 6 beers in me.

She was leaning against a wall and I just got a urge over me to kiss her, even though she gave me no prompt to do so. I pinned her to wall, and kissed her pretty roughly. I backed off when my mind clicked and I said "Sh!t, what the fvck am I doing.." she just pulled back after I jammed my tounge in her mouth and then licked her cheek.

She gave me a look of sheer shock:eek: and disbelief(I'm not normally like this) I just looked at her and walked away. ****e is thisclassified as assault? Also, I see this chick at work :( What the fvck should I do when I see her?!
Too aggressive I think... Damn I fvcked up. Should I apologize when I see her next, or act like it never happened?:confused:
 

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what the hell were you thinking? even after 10 beers i wouldn't do that. yes, it is sexual assault. you need jail time.
 

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Knicknack: I highly dount that that would be classified as sexual assault.

Mr Hash: Did she say anything after you did it? What type of girl is she? Quiet or outgoing?
 

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LOL 6 beers and you mouth raped a chick?
 
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yes, it is sexual assault. you need jail time
Dude, I forced a KISS on her, I DIDN'T RAPE her! I don't think jail will be happening for a forced kiss bro. Is it "sexual" assualt though? I didn't whip out my kock or anything..

Sh!t what should I do when I see her at work again?:(
 
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silverwex, she's more of a shy girl, not ultra shy though. Also she didn't say anything to me, she just gave me a look of total disbelief and shock. Not in a pleasant way either..
 

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i had that happen to me once but i didnt know the guy. i was more shocked than angry. You didnt rape her but you did invade her physical space. I think you should apologise profusely and see what she says about it. that is just my opinion as a woman though.
 

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^ yeah this is one of the threads when female opinions are actually more useful hehe
 

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Hmm I wouldnt think its much of a prob. Just learn from your mistake tho! Its certainly NOT sexual assault. IT WAS ONLY A KISS!

Use the oldest excuse in the book if all fails: "It was the drink making me do it!".

Maybe you should apologise IF she brings it up.

If she doesnt, just act normal and take it from there.

Hope that helped.

Keep us updated bro.
 

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Originally posted by silverwex
Hmm I wouldnt think its much of a prob. Just learn from your mistake tho! Its certainly NOT sexual assault. IT WAS ONLY A KISS!

Use the oldest excuse in the book if all fails: "It was the drink making me do it!".

Maybe you should apologise IF she brings it up.

If she doesnt, just act normal and take it from there.

Hope that helped.

Keep us updated bro.
Silverwex, I dunno about this one. He forcefully pushed her up against a wall and jammed his tongue in her mouth. If that isn't assault, then the line between that AND assault is so fine I dont' wanna walk it. :eek:

And "I was drunk" doesn't hold up in court. I guarantee that if it by some miracle ISN'T assualt, she COULD feasibly and very easily sue you for sexual harassment.

You messed up here, dude...no two ways about it. I'd say an apology is nothing short of mandatory.
 

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Squirrells, I honestly dont think this isn't as serious as some of the guys are making it out to be.

I reckon, the worst it can get is minor assault. Not sexual tho. He didnt rape her. Or touch her private areas (i hope not anyway!).

I say we all wait to see what she says to him and then discuss what he should do...

Mr Hash: Go to work and see her and tell us what happens. Then we'll be much more help to you.
 

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Hell yeah you better oppologize to her.

This is another reason not to fawk with women at work!

Your reputation is now fawked at your job man.

I hope the other fella's will learn from this.
 

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I would not worry too much about "assault" or not.

Apologize at work. Say plainly and earnestly that you are sorry,that you were drunk,invaded her space and behaved like an *******.


If other people saw you kissing her show some balls and apologize when you are in a group at work.

Do not act as if you did something criminal bnut rather that you bahved like a complete *******. I do not know about Aus but I could imagine it will be alright.
 

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ok, if people can just touch a girl and get filed for sexual assault, I think kissing could fall underneath that category. I really dont think shes gonna try to charge you just for kissing her though. And yea, an apology is mandatory for this. Do it as soon as you can.
 

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BIG PIMPIN!!!! 8)

Bro, you Aussies know how to party!

...ladies and gentleman, our new leader!!!! LOL!!!

You f'n rock dude!! ...not a very wise thing to do, but you rock!! I would give my left nut to see that entire moment unfold!!!

DUDE!! ..YOU LICKED HER CHEEK!!!! LOL!!!!!!! :) \m/BIG PIMPIN!!!! 8)
 

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after you apologize profusely, offer to let her slap you. i am dead serious. that is what she shouldve done when it happened, everyone wouldve felt better! she was too shocked to react. besides, if you let her slap you, and you offer it smoothly, it will come across as charming and maybe she'll laugh. always good.

you never know, she might decide to kiss you back, instead of slap you.

but you owe her a slap to your face for that.

and yes, that is assault. you could get probation and be required to take classes just for that.
 

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"I dare you to touch her boobs..."

"Thats assault brotha...." Billy Madison

I'd apologize, put on a raincoat, because a $hitstorm is coming thorugh......
 

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Its not sexual assault its sexual harrassment. If she wants to make a big deal of it then you could be in a bit of trouble.
 

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Originally posted by Mr.Hash wid da Stash
She was leaning against a wall and I just got a urge over me to kiss her, even though she gave me no prompt to do so. I pinned her to wall, and kissed her pretty roughly. I backed off when my mind clicked and I said "Sh!t, what the fvck am I doing.." she just pulled back after I jammed my tounge in her mouth and then licked her cheek.
F*CKIN A BRO!!!!! 8)
 
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