Assertive Women

[taiyuu_otoko]

Like I said before, I think a lot of guys in this thread are confusing "assertive" with "aggressive."

There's a HUGE difference.

Let's say your taking a sunday drive with your girl. She's got to pee.

A NON-Assertive girl will hold it, for as long as she can, and hope you stop before her bladder bursts.

An assertive girl will say something NEUTRAL like this: "I gotta pee, do you mind stopping when you see a restroom?"

An aggressive girl will say "Pull over fucktard, I'm gonna pee all over your seat!"

Truly assertive people are not loud or obnoxious. Nor do they try and force their opinions on others. They merely speak their mind, solicit the opinions of others, and try to find a workable solution.

An assertive woman, in a relationship with an assertive man, knows her place AS A WOMAN.

She asserts her femininity, and naturally and eagerly succumbs to male energy when he asserts his masculinity.


Also, passivity is the flip side of aggression. Nobody is ALWAYS aggressive or ALWAYS passive.

Unless your completely assertive, you're usually flipping back and forth between the two.

This may be difficult to see these days, because a truly assertive woman is very, very rare.

Most of the bitches these days are either passive or aggressive. Neither one is good, in my opinion.

 

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Let's say your taking a sunday drive with your girl. She's got to pee.

A NON-Assertive girl will hold it, for as long as she can, and hope you stop before her bladder bursts.

An assertive girl will say something NEUTRAL like this: "I gotta pee, do you mind stopping when you see a restroom?"

That first example seems more like a retard who's unable to use her grown up voice.

An "assertive woman" to me would imply her nature is to assert her opinion, that is part of who she is. Again this is not a feminine trait. Men in general don't give a rats ass about a womans opinion, what a woman has to say is white noise a good 90% of the time. Thus an "assertive woman" meaning one who speaks up on her opinions and random thoughts is by default just creating more problems. She not only creates more problems she's also mimicking a masculine trait, and not even doing it properly.

Thats second example is just a woman asking if I can stop so she can take a piss. There is nothing in that example to suggest she's an "assertive" type.


On a side note is it just me or does this thread really suck ass for some reason?

 

[sodbuster]

we NEED to get back to some "black and white" thinking. It used to be a shame for an unmarried woman to have a kid, now they do it because they can. Then they make up some story to make it OK.

Being on welfare was a shame, now it's a "lifestyle choice"...with the newest smart phone in their pocket and an attitude that I owe them MORE.

I could go on, but why bother?

 

[timmylivingalie]

Think good looking high class business executive that works out 5 days a week, takes care of herself, and has fake boobies.

They'll come pick you up in their Mercedes, take you to an expensive restaraunt, pay for it. Show you around town, do most of the talking. The only work you have to do is when you're d1cken them down. And remember a few key lines when you're doing that to these women: "little girl" and "spread your legs for daddy". Then the next day, after giving them your d1ck again the next morning, they'll take you out to breakfast and then take you shopping. Yes, they will be picking the restaurants and they will be picking the stores to buy you clothes from, but you know what, I don't really give a fvck, pick away. As long as you are doing one thing for them, and controlling one situation (the bedroom), you don't have to worry.

I personally love these types of women. It's just going for a ride on their theme adventure park. The only difference is, you don't have to pay to get in. If you are laying it down they will spoil you.

These are the types of women that will tell you what's on their mind. Very little game playing. They go after what they want and they get it. One day, if what they want is you, then I feel fortunate for you my friends. Have fun and enjoy the ride.

Now that's the kind of woman I would like to find.