Asking Who She's With

[Fela Kuti]

Just wanna ask your opinion. Say, your girl texts or calls you, and she tells that she's having a lunch or watching a movie. Do you think it's an insecure thing to ask who she's with, everytime she tells you that?

 

[JDA70]

Do you feel insecure?
That maybe shes with some guy?
Are you nosy?

 

[skirtChaser]

why would you care?..........just text respond with ...."and your point is?" or "great...I'm tied up, call me in a couple of days, enjoy the movie"

 

[Fela Kuti]

nah, she doesn't really have a point of informing me that. she just likes to tell me what she's doing everyday. but sometimes i'm just curious who she's with. it maybe some guy or something..

 

[dav22]

Don't ask. I think you already know it's an insecure thing to do, or you wouldn't have made this topic

 

[Fela Kuti]

Don't ask. I think you already know it's an insecure thing to do, or you wouldn't have made this topic

Yeah, that's why i don't (rarely) ask, although i'm dying to know :crazy: Just wanna ask you guys' opinion here.

 

[Mr. Wolf]

why would you care?..........just text respond with ...."and your point is?" or "great...I'm tied up, call me in a couple of days, enjoy the movie"

That says I don't care.

Instead tell her to have a great time and enjoy her self.

 

[Fela Kuti]

why would you care?..........just text respond with ...."and your point is?" or "great...I'm tied up, call me in a couple of days, enjoy the movie"

yeah, that's too cruel i think.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

.... Do you think it's an insecure thing to ask who she's with, everytime she tells you that?

Why wouldn't it?

 

[ready123]

once in awhile is ok, all the time will make it seem like you're trying to put her on lockdown

just remember if she was with another dude she was feeling more than you, either the vibe would wierd or she wouldn't pick up her phone in the first place

 

[LostAndConfused]

You could change the subject, making sure not to ask who she's with.

Be like "Thats nice (this works because its pretty dismissive)."

Then say "How's your day going?" because it shows you care, but at the same time you don't seem too insecure or too cruel.