Francisco d'Anconia said:
:yes: Guys need to learn how to read a woman to be able to tell if she wants to or not without asking.
I think that goes for any kino in general. For example, I was giving this one girl a back rub or whatever, and thought she liked it, but later found out that I was just making her uncomfortable and she didn't tell me to stop cuz she was being nice. I also had a friend tell me that i've been making 2 or 3 other girls uncomfortable, and although he wouldnt tell me who it was or what i did, I could only imagine that it was kino related since i've been experimenting with it and trying to perfect my use of it, and I have some ideas who it might have been.
Needless to say I was greatly discouraged at this turn of events.
I can imagine that it was my lack of ability of being able to read body language, and my incorrect use of kino, that attributed to this.
*sigh*
sometimes I just feel like isolating myself socially and not coming out of my hole again when i make blunders like this. I know I have to continue to resist my natural tendency to avoid this kind of pain and keep going out there till i get it, but it still sucks when I find that reality isn't what I think it is.
