Kick yourself in the balls for trying to have sex with a co worker. She can cause real trouble for you at your place of work if things don't go right. I've seen a few guys get fired over an attempted work romance. Guess what happened to the girl? Nothing, she kept her job.Zion said:
Asking her to come to your place?
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Zion
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Appreciate the concern but I can handle my sh!t in that regard. We work in different departments. Different technologies for that matter as well. Besides sharing the same office there's little relevance.
Huffman
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Haha, that printer pretext was golden! Goes to show that guys and girls alike will know what's going on... pretext is as good as any.
Well she didn't give it up. I know it's irritating like hell, but happens to me alot. Some posters will suggest that you didn't turn her on enough but that's bullsh1t, or at least I wouldn't know how, if you were already dry-humping with her breathing heavily.
Girls will just have a very firm plan to make you wait. This is not about passion, it's about control. What works for me is to accept it the first time (but still give her a great time making out and all), maybe also 2nd time, but then become distant. Don't have to go ghost, but definitely pull back. If she is interested at ALL, she will pursue, and if you play this right she will really want to have sex soon because she's just not sure if she can keep you.
Well she didn't give it up. I know it's irritating like hell, but happens to me alot. Some posters will suggest that you didn't turn her on enough but that's bullsh1t, or at least I wouldn't know how, if you were already dry-humping with her breathing heavily.
Girls will just have a very firm plan to make you wait. This is not about passion, it's about control. What works for me is to accept it the first time (but still give her a great time making out and all), maybe also 2nd time, but then become distant. Don't have to go ghost, but definitely pull back. If she is interested at ALL, she will pursue, and if you play this right she will really want to have sex soon because she's just not sure if she can keep you.
Huffman
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Hate playing those games. I always thought girls liked carefree sex. I enjoy feeling girls up, they enjoy it too. Why else would they get wet and breathe hard? Girl is wet, she wants sex right? WRONG, she'd much rather make a crazy bid for power! Even if it means you can't sleep because you're both horny as hell but she's making it hard for you BOTH! This always makes me furious. I think "why the hell don't you want to f*ck? Aren't you attracted to me? it's an insult!"
Girls tend to throw themselves at me like the dirtiest wh*res but, even if they don't flake, they'll do a 180 and try to enter a relationship, even before sex! Actually one girl told me - "sex isn't a big deal to girls, it's much nicer just being held by you". Thankfully I already had some experince (my ex LOVED sex) and I knew that was bullsh1t. This one sentence immediately killed all my desire for her. After all you want to be desired too! I was disgusted and dumped her.
So is it really like that? Having sex is just a favor done to the man? A commodity coldly manipulated in a quest for power? F*ck this, what happened to passion, romance, spontaniety?
Girls tend to throw themselves at me like the dirtiest wh*res but, even if they don't flake, they'll do a 180 and try to enter a relationship, even before sex! Actually one girl told me - "sex isn't a big deal to girls, it's much nicer just being held by you". Thankfully I already had some experince (my ex LOVED sex) and I knew that was bullsh1t. This one sentence immediately killed all my desire for her. After all you want to be desired too! I was disgusted and dumped her.
So is it really like that? Having sex is just a favor done to the man? A commodity coldly manipulated in a quest for power? F*ck this, what happened to passion, romance, spontaniety?
Zion
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Tell me about it. She initiated with me last Wednesday, Sunday, this Monday and today. That's basically 4 times in a row. I never even got the chance to hit her up first myself.Huffman said:
I did talk to her when she did, but kept it short and flirty.
I got this.
Pretty much this.Huffman said:
Girls love to give you the idea that they aren't interested in sex and use it as a bargaining chip for them to control you like a little puppy. It's a complete fabrication to take all power from you.
You have to call their bluff and tell them it's OK I can be your friend and I can get you to meet one of my cute friends, then walk towards the door before they tell me to wait and throw themselves at me. Or "it's OK if you're not interested in sex" - stand up, hand on door hand, then listen to her saying "WAIT". :crackup:
Zion
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She obviously wanted it, she was just being cheeky and was not hiding that to any extent.LMFAO said:
Shameless little prick. Loving her for that though.
You didn't fvck it up but could have likely banged her if employed the standard LJBF, freeze outs and the like techniques. Remember it's all a power play, you have to be prepared to walk away and she needs to know that.Zion said:
You will most likely have sex next time. Personally speaking I would act half interested and see how far it goes. Employ the techniques above if necessary. If you don't get any further and not even a blowj0b out of it I would just NC her. Don't put up with her sh1t.
blind_one
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Zion, I would be on "Don't **** where you eat" bandwagon but you explained that and I see that you have a head on your shoulders. Good job and as others have said, that printer is now diamond.