patrick.de
Don Juan
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Preface (might skip):
I'm a freshman at university and didn't know anybody. There's a really cute girl and we knew that each other goes to the same course, but didn't talk much. I ride the same bus as her but only for 2 minutes so I randomly chattet her up once. Couple days later she approached me at the bus stop and we chatted for a couple of minutes. Then we had a party (hosted by our institution) where she tapped me on the back and I spent the evening with her, a coed and a friend of her. I basically invited myself to her place at the end of the party and she and her friend took me along at 3 in the morning, she cooked something, we talked and then I went home around 4.
I added her on facebook and told her to keep me a seat in university (this is the only time I ever chatted her up on fb), just a quick convo. Then we hung out a couple of times at university, always with friends around.
I wanna ask her out but don't really know how. Shall I just ask her if she wanted to "do something outside university" or if she wanted to "go for a coffee" or something else? I think I shouldn't use the word "date" as it might create some tension.
Could also be kinda awkward if she doesn't want to, that's why I couldn't force myself to do it when we were alone in the library while our friend went to get a book. Didn't want that awkward situation since we were gonna spend the next 2-3 hours in the library studying.
Party was on Dec-9th, just to give you a timeframe.
I have her phone number, she doesn't have mine tho (didn't stalk it).
I'm gonna go to my hometown on Saturday, won't see her until next year then.
I think I did pretty ok so far, a bit funny but not a clown, no excessive text or fb usage etc., but can't get myself to ask her out.
thanks
I'm a freshman at university and didn't know anybody. There's a really cute girl and we knew that each other goes to the same course, but didn't talk much. I ride the same bus as her but only for 2 minutes so I randomly chattet her up once. Couple days later she approached me at the bus stop and we chatted for a couple of minutes. Then we had a party (hosted by our institution) where she tapped me on the back and I spent the evening with her, a coed and a friend of her. I basically invited myself to her place at the end of the party and she and her friend took me along at 3 in the morning, she cooked something, we talked and then I went home around 4.
I added her on facebook and told her to keep me a seat in university (this is the only time I ever chatted her up on fb), just a quick convo. Then we hung out a couple of times at university, always with friends around.
I wanna ask her out but don't really know how. Shall I just ask her if she wanted to "do something outside university" or if she wanted to "go for a coffee" or something else? I think I shouldn't use the word "date" as it might create some tension.
Could also be kinda awkward if she doesn't want to, that's why I couldn't force myself to do it when we were alone in the library while our friend went to get a book. Didn't want that awkward situation since we were gonna spend the next 2-3 hours in the library studying.
Party was on Dec-9th, just to give you a timeframe.
I have her phone number, she doesn't have mine tho (didn't stalk it).
I'm gonna go to my hometown on Saturday, won't see her until next year then.
I think I did pretty ok so far, a bit funny but not a clown, no excessive text or fb usage etc., but can't get myself to ask her out.
thanks