Asking her out w/o looking desperate

[jaybeezi]

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O.k. I posted here earlier about a girl I went out with to a club, and she was dancing with and talking to other guys, and I did nothing, just stood there. God i'm pissed that I just stood there. but that is in the past, it wont happen again.

I still like this girl and want to give her one more chance, (she told me "she becomes too friendly when she drinks" before we went). But I want to ask her out again, in a way that she doesnt think that I really really like her and will continue to put up with that kind of behavior, but dont want her to think I dislike her.

It seems like any way I ask her it will seem like I dont mind her doing things like that. I dont want to comfront her on it because that seems like an AFC move.

So far I havent talked to her since 2 nights ago at the club, before we went to the club we had talked about going to see a movie next weekend (Dawn of the Dead).

She is an odd girl, she seems very shy, and told me she used to be shy but that she isnt anymore, (but she still is), and underneath that shy exterior she is a little freak. She is getting a playboy bunny tattoo, and is about to have a certain private part pierced. Not to mention her freakin with my 2 friends on our 1st date.

 

[popcorn]

She sounds like a lot of pain to me. I have been burned by too many people like this, if your VERY good with women then you do what you think. Me personally thinks otherwise leave her alone she spells trouble.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

I just posted on your last thread only to see you start a new thread on this hor - here is my post again...

This ho was looking at you while she was 'freakin' other guys on the dance floor - and this is on your first date!!! What a friggin great first impression she wanted you to have of her. When women get drunk their true nature comes out and when they are 'too friendly" this means that their horish hidden self becomes visible.

Then this ho tells other guys that she is there by herself and you, her 'date', are standing right next to her!!

This biatch disrespected you severely and only chumps will let it slide and pursue her after such disrespect! Be a man and tell her you do not wish to see her after her slanderous comments and actions.

This should be your first mission if you are sincere in being a true DJ. You must show these hos that you do not 'need' their company and you are not willing to sacrifice your dignity for their presence.

Good looking women are dumbfounded when men reject them for their ill conduct - this shows them that a man has principles and character and that he demands respect. There are things more valuable to a man than the lust he has for a woman - they are his honor and dignity!!!!

If you go out with this girl I will hunt you down and find you and torture you!! Where is my toolbox!!!!!!

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Dood WTF is wrong with you!!!! This girl DOES NOT LIKE YOU the way you like her!!! She's a fukin' little 2 dollar *****!! All that "shy" stuff is bullshyt!!! I don't know any shy girls who get their **** pierced!! Fukin' NEXT this byatch!!! You need to show her that your willing to walk away and not put up with her little bullshiat. Trust me I know its hard when the girl is a freak, but as Player Supreme has told me, girls who are freaks in the bedroom use their sexuality to sux a guy back in when they see him slipping away.

If you want to constantly put up with her bullshiat and mind games, and torture yourself into a severe case of one-itis (cuz your headed down that road, trust me!) then continue to pursue this trix.

On the other hand if you want to become the womanizer you've always dreamed of, then let this byatch fuvk with some other chumps head. She's not worth a minute of your time, trust us on that.


NEXT NEXT NEXT!!

If you even call her to set up that movie date then you truely are a chump.

Think about it this way. If she has any interest in you, let her call you. Yeah that's right. Don't contact her, and see if she even chooses to remember that you two arranged a date this weekend. I'll bet 20 bucks that she won't even call and act like she forgot.


This girl is playing you bad!!!




PIMP

 

[JohnJones]

I would drop your feelings for her. Ask out other girls; you will not convert this one.

On your real question, she probably only likes you a little (as in, I wouldn't mind hanging out with him). If she is sexy to you or teases you its because she has little to lose since she isn't pressed about it anyway. If she is free and wants an opportunity to go out, she'll probably say yes -- just ask regularly: maybe wait a few days to get your self under control then call her up and ask her out to club.

Everyone else says no clubs, but my view is you cannot approach her like you want to date her. I say put yourself into the club and talk to other girls (mayby friends of yours or something) and dance with them, etc. If she gets "friendly" when she drinks, make sure its you she gets friendly with.

She is probably not a bad human being but she likes performing for you (not to give you pleasure but because she has an audience). It makes her feel safe and secure that she is attractive and wanted. She likes when she hangs with other men at the events telling them that she is there with you, not as your date but as a "friend." She sends them mixed signals, and you mixed signals and creates a stage where she is the star.

She is not going to come to some mature decision that she wants a relationship with you or that she should sleep with you. You could probably sleep with her though if you get a little mean inside and stop being too nice.

But aren't there other girls who are more worth your time? Hang with her or whatever, but either move faster to sleep with her or just make her into a hang out pal (more often than not when I was your age, a hook up with a "friend" was almost inevitable anyway).

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Dude, listen to PRL, he's right.

I had a similar situation with some ***** a few months back. So I walked out on the date. Next time I saw her, I brought another girl along and fooled around with her right in front of the *****, which, of course, drove the ***** insane!!

That was some sweet revenge, plus the other girl I brought was better looking.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Originally posted by JohnJones
She likes when she hangs with other men at the events telling them that she is there with you, not as your date but as a "friend." She sends them mixed signals, and you mixed signals and creates a stage where she is the star.

This is very common behaviour, especially amongst the young, self centred princesses.