If you can't be man enough to ask me for my daughter's hand, I don't believe you deserve her and I wonder what sort of creep you are. She has my last name for a reason, I put in the work, I've loved her, raised her and cherished her. I helped make her the woman that you love and if you want her to have your last name, then you better show me you deserve it. That's a Dad's point of view.