Asking a girl to go out flat
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Hmmm, I don't know if anyone had ever done this in the history of man.
If you know her pretty well, then do it. What's the worst that could happen? Right, she MIGHT say no. The fact that she will probably say yes (if she's single) should be reason enough for you to ask her out.
Make sure you have some kind of rapport already built with her. I would never go up to a girl I didn't know and ask her for a date right off the bat. She doesn't know anything about you, and you don't know anything about her.
Make sure you have some kind of rapport already built with her. I would never go up to a girl I didn't know and ask her for a date right off the bat. She doesn't know anything about you, and you don't know anything about her.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Why bother with long distance?
Are you asking to go out on a date, or asking for exclusivity?
When I ask a girl out, I'm asking her out to go play pool or something. That can be pretty much done flat out. Within a few minutes of meeting her.
Are you asking for exclusivity? That is something else entirely.
When I ask a girl out, I'm asking her out to go play pool or something. That can be pretty much done flat out. Within a few minutes of meeting her.
Are you asking for exclusivity? That is something else entirely.
Kev07
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Go for it, not like much would happen from a long distance relationship anyways.
You have nothing to lose
You have nothing to lose
darkjedi
Don Juan
This advice is golden. Before I joined this site, I figured ultimatums were the way to go... They're not. What worked for my past relationship was just to keep dating and after a month she asked me to be exclusive. I also noticed that's how many other guys I know hooked up with their woman.Bvbidd said:
A woman if her interest is high enough will ask "YOU" for the relationship.
Long Distance
The problem with this is the fact that it's long distance... and i don't want to "date" if there isn't enough interest to begin with. so basically what i want to know is if i should ask her "if there is anything worth pursuing".
thanks in advance,
Atldude
The problem with this is the fact that it's long distance... and i don't want to "date" if there isn't enough interest to begin with. so basically what i want to know is if i should ask her "if there is anything worth pursuing".
thanks in advance,
Atldude
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
If she thinks it's worth pursuing, she'll say yes to the date.
Play the Game
Master Don Juan
It's a double standard but it's true. Sometimes i feel like its total bull****, but i never go against it, because i know better. I've learned from experience.darkjedi said:
In the end, we all have to figure it out for ourselves to believe it. We can't just trust some dude on a forum that we've never met in our life.
So, if you want.... try but when you fail, try to learn something from it. Don't go doing the same thing. There's an Emerson quote that says: "All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better."
You want to know if she's interested in you? Tell her you'll be running through her town to meet an old friend and you'll have a few hours to see her. Ask her to go out on a date. If she says "Yes" and doesn't counter, she's interested. If she says "No", she's not interested. If she counters, well, she's somewhere in between.
A better way to see if she's interested is to see if she'll come over to your town just for a date. Then you know she's really interested.
I don't think you asking her for exclusivity is the way to go.
A better way to see if she's interested is to see if she'll come over to your town just for a date. Then you know she's really interested.
I don't think you asking her for exclusivity is the way to go.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
If you feel this girl likes you just ask her out. I've done it a few times and it worked.
