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Don Juan
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There's a dance coming up in the upcoming weeks, and I want to ask this girl to it. I'm friends with her, but we haven't really hung out.
I was thinking that it would be better to ask her out to determine her interest level before asking her to the dance. This way, I will know whether a girl is interested in me while Im dancing with her.
The other option is to ask her to the dance and then, if she says yes, to ask her to hang out. However, if she cannot, or does not want to, this would make the dance awkward.
Should I ask her out / check interest level before asking her to the dance?
Or should I ask her to the dance, then ask her to hang out?
I'm really not sure about this and I need to make a decision quickly. The reason I dont buy the "well, if she says she'll go to the dance with you, she's OBVIOUSLY interested" because that's not true. She's a nice person, I'm her friend, so she may just say yes because she doesn't want to reject me. I dont' want that. I want her to reject me if she isn't interseted.
Is the only way to find that out by asking her out before asking her to the dance?
I was thinking that it would be better to ask her out to determine her interest level before asking her to the dance. This way, I will know whether a girl is interested in me while Im dancing with her.
The other option is to ask her to the dance and then, if she says yes, to ask her to hang out. However, if she cannot, or does not want to, this would make the dance awkward.
Should I ask her out / check interest level before asking her to the dance?
Or should I ask her to the dance, then ask her to hang out?
I'm really not sure about this and I need to make a decision quickly. The reason I dont buy the "well, if she says she'll go to the dance with you, she's OBVIOUSLY interested" because that's not true. She's a nice person, I'm her friend, so she may just say yes because she doesn't want to reject me. I dont' want that. I want her to reject me if she isn't interseted.
Is the only way to find that out by asking her out before asking her to the dance?